Muffin has died

[Lisa and Pic]

I am so very sorry for your loss of Muffin. Sending deep sympathy.

[Harrysmum]

Oh my goodness.....no. My heart is bleeding for you. So easy to say right now - but time is the only healer. What a nightmare...I'm so, so sorry.

[DBlain]

I keep thinking about all that you are going through and wanted to let you know that I am praying that you continue to be strong as I know you will for Cassie.

[rubymoon2072]

sending many prayers for your. I am very sorry for your loss and hope you can find someway to begin to heal your heart a little bit. continued prayers for cassie.

[Wylie's Mom]

I am so terribly sorry to hear of your tragic loss. I can't imagine what you must be going through and my heart just breaks for your pain. I'm so very sorry. You are in my thoughts and heart, and I wish you healing and peace.

[celstu1]

Oh my gosh, I'm SO sorry! RIP Sweet Muffin!

[jadabug]

I am so heartbroken for you and your loss. Sweet little Muffin, may your memories of her soon be able to help your heart heal just a little bit.

[broodizt]

Truly you are a blessing to me. I cannot believe how amazing all of you are and I just wanted to thank you for your kind words, prayers and beautiful beautiful, hearts. You will always be with me.

This update is to say that I have decided to re-home my precious Cassie. I don't feel it is safe for her here anymore, and I don't think I deserve to have a Yorkie in my house hold any longer. I think it is what is best for her. I have loved her at first sight for her whole life, and my heart will always love her. But I am a broken person. I am inconsolable, I am destroyed. I don't think Cassie will do well any more here in this environment. I want you to know how much I love you all. I wish I could have each of you near to me, so you would always be in my life. Thank you for being a part of our lives and for giving so much love and light on this earth. This earth is a better place because of all of you. Much love,
Shellie

[celstu1]

Oh I know it hurts so much right now, but please reconsider your re-homing Cassie decision. My heart just aches for you! Please don't make any major decisions out of pain and heartbreak. Take some time to mourn and heal a little first, then make decisions like that. (((HUGS)))

[Rhetts_mama]

Oh Shellie, please don't make such a big decision while you are still grieving so strongly. It's so hard to see things clearly while you are hurting so much. Pleas give yourself some time. In the end, you may decide that rehoming is the best option or you may decide that Cassie will only continue to thrive with the love and care you can give her. Either way, the decision will be made with a clear head and not a broken heart.

Hugs to you.

[lynzy420]

Originally Posted by broodizt

Truly you are a blessing to me. I cannot believe how amazing all of you are and I just wanted to thank you for your kind words, prayers and beautiful beautiful, hearts. You will always be with me.

This update is to say that I have decided to re-home my precious Cassie. I don't feel it is safe for her here anymore, and I don't think I deserve to have a Yorkie in my house hold any longer. I think it is what is best for her. I have loved her at first sight for her whole life, and my heart will always love her. But I am a broken person. I am inconsolable, I am destroyed. I don't think Cassie will do well any more here in this environment. I want you to know how much I love you all. I wish I could have each of you near to me, so you would always be in my life. Thank you for being a part of our lives and for giving so much love and light on this earth. This earth is a better place because of all of you. Much love,
Shellie

Shellie,
Please don't do anything right now. Cassie and you need eachother right now, rehoming Cassie is not the solution right now for either of you. I know the accident must have been awful and I know the huge loss you took when you lost Muffin, but the wonder of those we love, pup or person and being able to share their life is precious...being with them when they pass, even when sometimes in a tragic manner is part of the whole package of life, and regardless of how it happened you have to keep in mind that it was only a horrible moment in time and while she is no longer here you have a million wonderful memories of her to look back on and soon these awful feelings and horrible mind movies will give way to those happier times, when Muffin was here.

You most certainly do deserve Cassie and more importantly Cassie deserves you, that you so love her and would rehome her because of that deep love is amazing and shows what a wonderful Mom you are to Cassie.
Cassie loves you and needs you and she would continue to love you even if you were to rehome her...she would miss you and what purpose does it serve for you both to miss eachother so much?

An accident is just that Shellie, things happen that have no rhyme or reason. I think you should take some time to mourn and NOT blame yourself for what has happened. I think at the very least if you really believe there are things that can hurt her than make adjustments, I know right now you feel weak and desperate, and I have been there so many times I can't even tell you but I do promise that each day it will get a little better...for both you and Cassie.

I'm here, we are all here for you Shellie. Please keep posting and let us help you through this difficult time.

[Buster Brown]

Shellie please wait a bit before deciding to re home Cassie. You can not blame yourself for an accident. Life is not fair, terrible things happen to good people, there is no rhyme or reason. We all here can tell from your posts and devotion to Cassie and Muffin you are a WONDERFUL Yorkie Mom and deserve their love and trust. I think re homing would be devastating for Cassie and for you. Give yourself and Cassie a chance to grieve. Muffins life may have been short but it was filled with love because of you. Better a life shorted knowing love, understanding, and caring than a long loveless life. You give your pups quality love and are devoted to specialized caring for their medical needs. I honestly don't think you could find a better home for Cassie. Please pour out your sorrow here on YT and wait before you make any big decisions. We all love you and our hearts go out to you.

[lillymae]

Shellie, It sounds as though You might be blaming yourself for whatever this accident was. You need to rethink your rehoming Cassie as I think it would be much too stressful for her & not in her best interest at all as without your caring endless Love for her, she would most likely not have made it through this. I don't know the details on what happened to Muffin but whatever it was, was an accident & most likely could have happened to any one of us here. We are all grieving with you & are here for you when you need us, so PLEASE reconsider rehoming your sweet Cassie. Remember Cassie is also grieving the loss of Muffin & you both need eachother now more then ever.I think it would devastate her to be without you too at this time, she needs YOU not a stranger . Hugz & Prayers to You Shellie.

[joyce evans]

Shellie, I have been checking up on Cassie even thou I didn't always post something. Now this. I am so sorry.

[MandiesMom]

Originally Posted by lynzy420

Shellie,
Please don't do anything right now. Cassie and you need eachother right now, rehoming Cassie is not the solution right now for either of you. I know the accident must have been awful and I know the huge loss you took when you lost Muffin, but the wonder of those we love, pup or person and being able to share their life is precious...being with them when they pass, even when sometimes in a tragic manner is part of the whole package of life, and regardless of how it happened you have to keep in mind that it was only a horrible moment in time and while she is no longer here you have a million wonderful memories of her to look back on and soon these awful feelings and horrible mind movies will give way to those happier times, when Muffin was here.

You most certainly do deserve Cassie and more importantly Cassie deserves you, that you so love her and would rehome her because of that deep love is amazing and shows what a wonderful Mom you are to Cassie.
Cassie loves you and needs you and she would continue to love you even if you were to rehome her...she would miss you and what purpose does it serve for you both to miss eachother so much?

An accident is just that Shellie, things happen that have no rhyme or reason. I think you should take some time to mourn and NOT blame yourself for what has happened. I think at the very least if you really believe there are things that can hurt her than make adjustments, I know right now you feel weak and desperate, and I have been there so many times I can't even tell you but I do promise that each day it will get a little better...for both you and Cassie.

I'm here, we are all here for you Shellie. Please keep posting and let us help you through this difficult time.

Shellie, I posted a reply in your other thread. In a nutshell, this is what I was trying to say. Please allow yourself to mourn and just breathe. Muffin would never want you and Cassie to be separated. Your love for them both oozes in your words and actions. No body deserves to be a Yorkie Mom more than you. Nobody, Shellie.