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MandiesMom · 10-02-2013, 09:43 PM

Wonderful poem, Shellie. Hugs to you,Sweet Lady.

MauiGirl · 10-03-2013, 12:26 AM

Hugs to you Shellie. Your lil Muffin was an amazing little being. Thank you for sharing her with us in ways that let us know her too. You were blessed, and so was she.

_Chrissy_ · 10-03-2013, 06:46 AM

I am so very sorry for your loss Shellie.
Words can not express how I am feeling.
Just know that I am thinking of you and praying for all of you.

yorkietalkjilly · 10-03-2013, 07:11 AM

I couldn't read the poem yesterday but finally found the courage today. Well, it says it all. Beautiful words and pours out the feelings and love and abject desolation of the loss of one so dear.

Mahmouha · 10-03-2013, 07:20 AM

I know how you feel. It has been 3 weeks since my Tootsie left this world. She was 11 and very healthy, she could have lived to be 19 or 20. I am still crying and the void is still there. I felt like I will never be normal again, the devastation then the blame and anger and the guilt of not doing the right thing at the right time. But every day it gets a bit better, the memories of the last few hours are replaced by our life and fun together. I talk to her and feel she is around. It will get better i promise, slowly but it will. Do not deny yourself the grief, this is natural. Hope those hard times pass and the memory of having her will always remain and put a smile on your face replacing the tears.

crystalsmom · 10-03-2013, 08:11 AM

I can feel the pain with your words, what a terrible loss. Crystal's was a freak accident as well and the wonderful care I gave her for so many years could not save her.

It is going to take some time and when you explained how you felt physically, I could relate as I felt like a truck landed on me and I couldn't get it off.

As time went on, I knew she wouldn't want me to go on grieving since she so loved to make me happy. I hope that you can see that in time because I know your sweet little muffin would want that for you.

In the meantime ((((hugs)))), hon.

crystalsmom · 10-03-2013, 08:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Mahmouha

I know how you feel. It has been 3 weeks since my Tootsie left this world. She was 11 and very healthy, she could have lived to be 19 or 20. I am still crying and the void is still there. I felt like I will never be normal again, the devastation then the blame and anger and the guilt of not doing the right thing at the right time. But every day it gets a bit better, the memories of the last few hours are replaced by our life and fun together. I talk to her and feel she is around. It will get better i promise, slowly but it will. Do not deny yourself the grief, this is natural. Hope those hard times pass and the memory of having her will always remain and put a smile on your face replacing the tears.

I am so sorry for you.

RIP sweet Tootsie.

netters272 · 10-03-2013, 08:25 AM

...to take my comfort and give it to you - im not being a martyr.. I just asked that he would hold you with all the COMFORT he could muster...

I am new to pet ownership.. new to the boards.. and now new to loss...

Shellie..I can hear your pain.. I can hear your anger.. I hear how you are trying to cope..

Finding a home for Cassie isnt what Muffin wants for you.. YOU are the best mommy for her..
YOU are the best mommy for MUFFIN...
Even if for years, hours or minutes... YOU were chosen for her..

She waits for you and Cassie - together.. it will be a speck of time when she greets you both... with kisses...

She is gone but SHE IS wonderful.. SHE is amazing.. SHE is...

My eyes cry for you.. my heart aches for you... my prayers are for you..

jnet

EarthAngel · 10-03-2013, 08:33 AM

Shellie, Your poem is a wonderful tribute to dear Muffin. I do believe it helps to write your feelings down. Muffin was greeted by all of our beloved pets at R.B. One day we will all be reunited with them. Big hugs to you!

broodizt · 10-03-2013, 09:49 AM

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Originally Posted by yorkietalkjilly

I couldn't read the poem yesterday but finally found the courage today. Well, it says it all. Beautiful words and pours out the feelings and love and abject desolation of the loss of one so dear.

Your post touched my heart, dearest person. I could feel your trepidation. I could feel your quivering heart.

Much Love,
Shellie

broodizt · 10-03-2013, 10:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by netters272

...to take my comfort and give it to you - im not being a martyr.. I just asked that he would hold you with all the COMFORT he could muster...

I am new to pet ownership.. new to the boards.. and now new to loss...

Shellie..I can hear your pain.. I can hear your anger.. I hear how you are trying to cope..

Finding a home for Cassie isnt what Muffin wants for you.. YOU are the best mommy for her..
YOU are the best mommy for MUFFIN...
Even if for years, hours or minutes... YOU were chosen for her..

She waits for you and Cassie - together.. it will be a speck of time when she greets you both... with kisses...

She is gone but SHE IS wonderful.. SHE is amazing.. SHE is...

My eyes cry for you.. my heart aches for you... my prayers are for you..

jnet

Thank you so much for your loving heart. After such a trauma as you have suffered, to give so completely to another in pain says a lot about you and how special you are. I know you loved your baby very much.

broodizt · 10-03-2013, 10:16 AM

Each and everyone of you-you are awesome-thank you for your words, your energy. I am going to post an update on Cassie on the other Injured and Sick thread. It should make you smile. In the meantime, I want you to know, that your energy, your love and light, your words of wisdom and compassion, your joining in my pain. It is working. I am starting to be able to function a little more. Each and every one of you is special, and contributes to the energy of this board, this thread. Each and every one of you amazing souls, are in my heart.

Thank you dear ones.

Doodlebug · 10-03-2013, 10:28 AM

Shellie, your poem is so beautiful.....so very touching. You are amazing! Hugs...

yorkiefan_ · 10-03-2013, 10:59 AM

That's so awesome to hear Cassie is doing well.

MauiGirl · 10-03-2013, 01:37 PM

Shellie, your update truly warms my heart. May each day continue to get a little better, and happy memories replace the sad goodbye. Muffin would be smiling to see you beginning to pull yourself together and get on. She truly was a little angel, before... and now, and she is watching over you very closely.

Hugs.

10-02-2013, 09:43 PM	#106
MandiesMom and Shelby's too Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: Millbrook, AL Posts: 7,842	Wonderful poem, Shellie. Hugs to you,Sweet Lady. __________________ Terri, proud mom to Mandie & Shelby-Dale

10-03-2013, 12:26 AM	#107
MauiGirl Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Maui, Hawaii Posts: 7,740	Hugs to you Shellie. Your lil Muffin was an amazing little being. Thank you for sharing her with us in ways that let us know her too. You were blessed, and so was she. __________________ SANDY, MOM TO TIKI , KAYLA , KARLEE , R.I.P. MEIKA

10-03-2013, 06:46 AM	#108
_Chrissy_ Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Maryland Posts: 1,561	I am so very sorry for your loss Shellie. Words can not express how I am feeling. Just know that I am thinking of you and praying for all of you. __________________ Max (the Morkie) & Mickey (the Yorkie)

10-03-2013, 07:11 AM	#109
yorkietalkjilly ♥ Love My Tibbe! ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: D/FW, Texas Posts: 22,140	I couldn't read the poem yesterday but finally found the courage today. Well, it says it all. Beautiful words and pours out the feelings and love and abject desolation of the loss of one so dear. __________________ Jeanie and Tibbe One must do the best one can. You may get some marks for a very imperfect answer: you will certainly get none for leaving the question alone. C. S. Lewis

10-03-2013, 08:11 AM	#111
crystalsmom Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Ohio Posts: 7,946	I can feel the pain with your words, what a terrible loss. Crystal's was a freak accident as well and the wonderful care I gave her for so many years could not save her. It is going to take some time and when you explained how you felt physically, I could relate as I felt like a truck landed on me and I couldn't get it off. As time went on, I knew she wouldn't want me to go on grieving since she so loved to make me happy. I hope that you can see that in time because I know your sweet little muffin would want that for you. In the meantime ((((hugs)))), hon. __________________ Last edited by crystalsmom; 10-03-2013 at 08:14 AM.

10-03-2013, 07:20 AM	#110
Mahmouha Yorkie Talker Join Date: Sep 2013 Location: cairo Posts: 12	I know how you feel. It has been 3 weeks since my Tootsie left this world. She was 11 and very healthy, she could have lived to be 19 or 20. I am still crying and the void is still there. I felt like I will never be normal again, the devastation then the blame and anger and the guilt of not doing the right thing at the right time. But every day it gets a bit better, the memories of the last few hours are replaced by our life and fun together. I talk to her and feel she is around. It will get better i promise, slowly but it will. Do not deny yourself the grief, this is natural. Hope those hard times pass and the memory of having her will always remain and put a smile on your face replacing the tears.

10-03-2013, 08:25 AM	#113
netters272 Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Sep 2013 Location: Tonawanda NY Posts: 27	I asked God last night.. ...to take my comfort and give it to you - im not being a martyr.. I just asked that he would hold you with all the COMFORT he could muster... I am new to pet ownership.. new to the boards.. and now new to loss... Shellie..I can hear your pain.. I can hear your anger.. I hear how you are trying to cope.. Finding a home for Cassie isnt what Muffin wants for you.. YOU are the best mommy for her.. YOU are the best mommy for MUFFIN... Even if for years, hours or minutes... YOU were chosen for her.. She waits for you and Cassie - together.. it will be a speck of time when she greets you both... with kisses... She is gone but SHE IS wonderful.. SHE is amazing.. SHE is... My eyes cry for you.. my heart aches for you... my prayers are for you.. jnet Last edited by netters272; 10-03-2013 at 08:27 AM. Reason: tears in my eyes

10-03-2013, 08:33 AM	#114
EarthAngel Donating YT 6000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: New York Posts: 18,134	Shellie, Your poem is a wonderful tribute to dear Muffin. I do believe it helps to write your feelings down. Muffin was greeted by all of our beloved pets at R.B. One day we will all be reunited with them. Big hugs to you! __________________ Dyan, Mom to Bentley

10-03-2013, 10:16 AM	#117
broodizt YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Temecula Posts: 669	Each and everyone of you-you are awesome-thank you for your words, your energy. I am going to post an update on Cassie on the other Injured and Sick thread. It should make you smile. In the meantime, I want you to know, that your energy, your love and light, your words of wisdom and compassion, your joining in my pain. It is working. I am starting to be able to function a little more. Each and every one of you is special, and contributes to the energy of this board, this thread. Each and every one of you amazing souls, are in my heart. Thank you dear ones.

10-03-2013, 10:28 AM	#118
Doodlebug ♥Love My Puppies!♥ Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: US Posts: 5,786	Shellie, your poem is so beautiful.....so very touching. You are amazing! Hugs... __________________ RIP My Sweet Darling Angel Daisy 08/09/03 - 10/02/15, RIP My Sweet Baby Boy Teddy Bear 02/01/04 - 02/11/16 Photos HERE

10-03-2013, 10:59 AM	#119
yorkiefan_ I ♥ my Cookie Monster! Donating Member Join Date: May 2013 Location: South Texas Posts: 3,007	That's so awesome to hear Cassie is doing well. __________________ Cookie ;;; RIP Minnie

10-03-2013, 01:37 PM	#120
MauiGirl Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Maui, Hawaii Posts: 7,740	Shellie, your update truly warms my heart. May each day continue to get a little better, and happy memories replace the sad goodbye. Muffin would be smiling to see you beginning to pull yourself together and get on. She truly was a little angel, before... and now, and she is watching over you very closely. Hugs. __________________ SANDY, MOM TO TIKI , KAYLA , KARLEE , R.I.P. MEIKA