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Originally Posted by lynzy420  Shellie,
Please don't do anything right now. Cassie and you need eachother right now, rehoming Cassie is not the solution right now for either of you. I know the accident must have been awful and I know the huge loss you took when you lost Muffin, but the wonder of those we love, pup or person and being able to share their life is precious...being with them when they pass, even when sometimes in a tragic manner is part of the whole package of life, and regardless of how it happened you have to keep in mind that it was only a horrible moment in time and while she is no longer here you have a million wonderful memories of her to look back on and soon these awful feelings and horrible mind movies will give way to those happier times, when Muffin was here.
You most certainly do deserve Cassie and more importantly Cassie deserves you, that you so love her and would rehome her because of that deep love is amazing and shows what a wonderful Mom you are to Cassie.
Cassie loves you and needs you and she would continue to love you even if you were to rehome her...she would miss you and what purpose does it serve for you both to miss eachother so much?
An accident is just that Shellie, things happen that have no rhyme or reason. I think you should take some time to mourn and NOT blame yourself for what has happened. I think at the very least if you really believe there are things that can hurt her than make adjustments, I know right now you feel weak and desperate, and I have been there so many times I can't even tell you but I do promise that each day it will get a little better...for both you and Cassie.
I'm here, we are all here for you Shellie. Please keep posting and let us help you through this difficult time. |
Shellie, I posted a reply in your other thread. In a nutshell, this is what I was trying to say. Please allow yourself to mourn and just breathe. Muffin would never want you and Cassie to be separated. Your love for them both oozes in your words and actions. No body deserves to be a Yorkie Mom more than you. Nobody, Shellie.