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dianethomas · 08-12-2008, 07:22 PM

Wow and my goodness! I have been gone all day, and have just read through the last few pages of posts.
I have to say that Dena has a much better handle on what Emma needs than I had with Zaccheus' needs. I was just using trial and error. It wasn't until he was eight weeks old and through most of the difficult stuff that I researched online and found info about his condition.
I spent many hours and days wondering if what I was doing to keep him alive was best for him. If you read our story you will get that. But from this side of the road, I can't imagine doing less than I did. I'm sure Breny feels the same way. Saving the life of a cleft puppy is completely worth it.
And PS, did you all know that they dock tails and remove dew claws with no anesthesia? That is no worse than the pain Emma has been through with her oral surgeries. The only concern I have ever had about doing oral surgery on Zacchie has nothing to do with how much pain he would be in. It had everything to do with whether it would be successful, and if it would have to be repeated.
The choice I have made is different from the one Dena has made, but she is doing what she feels is best for the little one entrusted to her care. That's all any of us can do.
And she's doing a darn good job of it!

Beabble · 08-12-2008, 07:27 PM

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Originally Posted by dianethomas

Wow and my goodness! I have been gone all day, and have just read through the last few pages of posts.
I have to say that Dena has a much better handle on what Emma needs than I had with Zaccheus' needs. I was just using trial and error. It wasn't until he was eight weeks old and through most of the difficult stuff that I researched online and found info about his condition.
I spent many hours and days wondering if what I was doing to keep him alive was best for him. If you read our story you will get that. But from this side of the road, I can't imagine doing less than I did. I'm sure Breny feels the same way. Saving the life of a cleft puppy is completely worth it.
And PS, did you all know that they dock tails and remove dew claws with no anesthesia? That is no worse than the pain Emma has been through with her oral surgeries. The only concern I have ever had about doing oral surgery on Zacchie has nothing to do with how much pain he would be in. It had everything to do with whether it would be successful, and if it would have to be repeated.
The choice I have made is different from the one Dena has made, but she is doing what she feels is best for the little one entrusted to her care. That's all any of us can do.
And she's doing a darn good job of it!

What an amazing job you're doing Dena, kudos to you for giving so selflessly to and for Baby Emma!

Amazing Yorkies · 08-12-2008, 07:49 PM

I have to say that I also have been watching the live feed, keeping up with the updates, and praying for both Dena and Emma.
I have been there, done that with a cleft baby and happy to report that my little girl is alive, happy and extremely healthy. It was the most exhausting, and mentally draining thing I have ever done.
Suggesting at this point to put Emma down is not an option for Dena for Emma is thriving. Once you make a decision to save a baby, you put your soul into saving that baby. As bonded as they are, she would know if it became necessary to let Emma go, and I know Dena would do the right thing if that were the case.
Dena, you are doing a wonderful job and I feel that things happen for a reason. So many things happened just right for you to even find the ad, and to have the heart to give it a try.
I KNOW what you're going through, how you're feeling, and praying for both you and Emma.

andibaby · 08-12-2008, 07:57 PM

WOW-I just saw the live feed for the first time! How cool is that????? She was wiggling. I think that is SO adorable. This could be quite addicting. Maybe I could do that for my furbabies at home and watch them when I am at work-I would miss them less, I am sure of it. Lol-just kidding-they would NEVER stay within the range of the camera. But-I could watch Emma all day

. She is so tiny.......(i love babies).

andibaby · 08-12-2008, 07:59 PM

And she moves and wiggles alot!!! This is so neat. CAN you tell I am loving it? OH MY!!!!!!! She is all over the place......

Beabble · 08-12-2008, 08:07 PM

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Originally Posted by andibaby

And she moves and wiggles alot!!! This is so neat. CAN you tell I am loving it? OH MY!!!!!!! She is all over the place......

I think she's gonna be an acrobat when she grows up, lol!

andibaby · 08-12-2008, 08:13 PM

For sure

!

yorkiegirl83 · 08-12-2008, 09:54 PM

I pray that this little girl's pain is not too much and that she makes it through this trying time so early in her little life

.

Everyone is entitled to their opinions, but there is no right or wrong scenario IMO, it's just more of doing whatever can be done to help this little baby make it through even with a very imperfect situation and to pray the outcome will be a pain - free, "normal" life.

Nikki+2 · 08-13-2008, 04:39 AM

I'm just watching the live feed for the first time. How stinkin' cute is that baby? She was sleeping a little bit away from the stuffed dog and then woke up and wriggled her way over and is now all snuggled up- it is so cute!

Dena I hope today is a good day for you and Emma! Sending hugs to you both.

KwiddyKat · 08-13-2008, 05:03 AM

I have been following this post for the last few days and I'm so impressed with Dena and Emma's strength! You guys are making such a great team and all the added support from the YT forum is just amazing! I truly believe we are all doing everything we can through material or spiritual donations and that these thoughts, prayers, and "atta girls!" are really helping! I have told my whole family about Emma's fight for survival and my mom has told all the women in her office! We're all here with you Emma! Keep truckin' through!

JeanieK · 08-13-2008, 05:41 AM

I just checked on Baby Emma and she seems to be full and content. How much does she weigh today?

Nikki+2 · 08-13-2008, 05:46 AM

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Originally Posted by JeanieK

I just checked on Baby Emma and she seems to be full and content. How much does she weigh today?

Awww, she's sleeping like a... well, like a baby.

That live feed is addictive isn't it?

Lou · 08-13-2008, 05:56 AM

Dena,
You are my hero! I am still praying for you and Emma.

I just wanted to mention that my niece was born with multiple birth defects among which was a hair lip and full cleft palette (both hard and soft). When we heard about all of the things that were wrong our first thoughts were "I hope she doesn't make it." That is hard to admit now but it is what it is. BUT, personally speaking, the first time I laid eyes on that baby and held her my heart was taken and there was nothing I wouldn't do for her. A lot of the time it meant staying up all night in hospitals following one of many many surgeries. It meant special feeding and my brother and sister-in-law needed all the help they could get.
Kim turned out to be a remarkable young woman who dedicated her life to nursing and taking care of children with birth defects. She died in a car accident at the age of 23 leaving several thousand friends to grieve. In her short life she touched many people.

So, little Emma is doing the same thing in her own way. She is touching many of us and bringing us to tears with her strength and will to live. When you criticize Dena you are hurting all of us along with her so stop and think before you post. Dena sees the value of this little life and is fighting to save her. And Emma will be a tribute to what unconditional love can do. Her special story will inspire others to succeed. Dena will inspire others to care and keep trying. She has already taught us much about self sacrifice.

Nikki+2 · 08-13-2008, 06:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Lou

Dena,
You are my hero! I am still praying for you and Emma.

I just wanted to mention that my niece was born with multiple birth defects among which was a hair lip and full cleft palette (both hard and soft). When we heard about all of the things that were wrong our first thoughts were "I hope she doesn't make it." That is hard to admit now but it is what it is. BUT, personally speaking, the first time I laid eyes on that baby and held her my heart was taken and there was nothing I wouldn't do for her. A lot of the time it meant staying up all night in hospitals following one of many many surgeries. It meant special feeding and my brother and sister-in-law needed all the help they could get.
Kim turned out to be a remarkable young woman who dedicated her life to nursing and taking care of children with birth defects. She died in a car accident at the age of 23 leaving several thousand friends to grieve. In her short life she touched many people.

So, little Emma is doing the same thing in her own way. She is touching many of us and bringing us to tears with her strength and will to live. When you criticize Dena you are hurting all of us along with her so stop and think before you post. Dena sees the value of this little life and is fighting to save her. And Emma will be a tribute to what unconditional love can do. Her special story will inspire others to succeed. Dena will inspire others to care and keep trying. She has already taught us much about self sacrifice.

I got chills reading this and am sitting here with tears in my eyes. Thank you for that amazing post.

Tcarnagie · 08-13-2008, 06:11 AM

Dena,

You are doing a great job with Emma and I hope and pray that she will get better and I thank you for being her Angel.

God Bless you and Emma!!

08-12-2008, 07:22 PM	#601
dianethomas YT Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Millington, TN USA Posts: 471	Wow and my goodness! I have been gone all day, and have just read through the last few pages of posts. I have to say that Dena has a much better handle on what Emma needs than I had with Zaccheus' needs. I was just using trial and error. It wasn't until he was eight weeks old and through most of the difficult stuff that I researched online and found info about his condition. I spent many hours and days wondering if what I was doing to keep him alive was best for him. If you read our story you will get that. But from this side of the road, I can't imagine doing less than I did. I'm sure Breny feels the same way. Saving the life of a cleft puppy is completely worth it. And PS, did you all know that they dock tails and remove dew claws with no anesthesia? That is no worse than the pain Emma has been through with her oral surgeries. The only concern I have ever had about doing oral surgery on Zacchie has nothing to do with how much pain he would be in. It had everything to do with whether it would be successful, and if it would have to be repeated. The choice I have made is different from the one Dena has made, but she is doing what she feels is best for the little one entrusted to her care. That's all any of us can do. And she's doing a darn good job of it! __________________ Cricket and Zaccheus' human

08-12-2008, 07:49 PM	#603
Amazing Yorkies YT Featured Breeder Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Oregon Posts: 1,552	I have to say that I also have been watching the live feed, keeping up with the updates, and praying for both Dena and Emma. I have been there, done that with a cleft baby and happy to report that my little girl is alive, happy and extremely healthy. It was the most exhausting, and mentally draining thing I have ever done. Suggesting at this point to put Emma down is not an option for Dena for Emma is thriving. Once you make a decision to save a baby, you put your soul into saving that baby. As bonded as they are, she would know if it became necessary to let Emma go, and I know Dena would do the right thing if that were the case. Dena, you are doing a wonderful job and I feel that things happen for a reason. So many things happened just right for you to even find the ad, and to have the heart to give it a try. I KNOW what you're going through, how you're feeling, and praying for both you and Emma. __________________ Deb Sillers 816-261-8734 Cell ~ www.Amazingyorkies.com ~

08-12-2008, 07:57 PM	#604
andibaby Owned By Ace and Lizzie Donating Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: oklahoma Posts: 1,028	WOW-I just saw the live feed for the first time! How cool is that????? She was wiggling. I think that is SO adorable. This could be quite addicting. Maybe I could do that for my furbabies at home and watch them when I am at work-I would miss them less, I am sure of it. Lol-just kidding-they would NEVER stay within the range of the camera. But-I could watch Emma all day . She is so tiny.......(i love babies). __________________ Andrea-Momma to Ace Lizzie and baby Sid

08-12-2008, 07:59 PM	#605
andibaby Owned By Ace and Lizzie Donating Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: oklahoma Posts: 1,028	And she moves and wiggles alot!!! This is so neat. CAN you tell I am loving it? OH MY!!!!!!! She is all over the place...... __________________ Andrea-Momma to Ace Lizzie and baby Sid

08-12-2008, 08:13 PM	#607
andibaby Owned By Ace and Lizzie Donating Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: oklahoma Posts: 1,028	For sure ! __________________ Andrea-Momma to Ace Lizzie and baby Sid

08-12-2008, 09:54 PM	#608
yorkiegirl83 Love My Furbabies! Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: somewhere Posts: 4,427	I pray that this little girl's pain is not too much and that she makes it through this trying time so early in her little life . Everyone is entitled to their opinions, but there is no right or wrong scenario IMO, it's just more of doing whatever can be done to help this little baby make it through even with a very imperfect situation and to pray the outcome will be a pain - free, "normal" life.

08-13-2008, 04:39 AM	#609
Nikki+2 I heart Sugar Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Florida Posts: 7,373	I'm just watching the live feed for the first time. How stinkin' cute is that baby? She was sleeping a little bit away from the stuffed dog and then woke up and wriggled her way over and is now all snuggled up- it is so cute! Dena I hope today is a good day for you and Emma! Sending hugs to you both. __________________ "If you have men who will exclude any of God’s creatures from the shelter of compassion and pity, you will have men who will deal likewise with their fellow men." — St. Francis of Assisi, 1181-1226

08-13-2008, 05:03 AM	#610
KwiddyKat Yorkie Talker Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Richmond, Virginia, United States Posts: 17 Blog Entries: 1	I have been following this post for the last few days and I'm so impressed with Dena and Emma's strength! You guys are making such a great team and all the added support from the YT forum is just amazing! I truly believe we are all doing everything we can through material or spiritual donations and that these thoughts, prayers, and "atta girls!" are really helping! I have told my whole family about Emma's fight for survival and my mom has told all the women in her office! We're all here with you Emma! Keep truckin' through!

08-13-2008, 05:41 AM	#611
JeanieK Donating YT 12K Club Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Council Bluffs Iowa Posts: 12,552	I just checked on Baby Emma and she seems to be full and content. How much does she weigh today?

08-13-2008, 05:56 AM	#613
Lou Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: A little town south of Chicago Posts: 4,525	Dena, You are my hero! I am still praying for you and Emma. I just wanted to mention that my niece was born with multiple birth defects among which was a hair lip and full cleft palette (both hard and soft). When we heard about all of the things that were wrong our first thoughts were "I hope she doesn't make it." That is hard to admit now but it is what it is. BUT, personally speaking, the first time I laid eyes on that baby and held her my heart was taken and there was nothing I wouldn't do for her. A lot of the time it meant staying up all night in hospitals following one of many many surgeries. It meant special feeding and my brother and sister-in-law needed all the help they could get. Kim turned out to be a remarkable young woman who dedicated her life to nursing and taking care of children with birth defects. She died in a car accident at the age of 23 leaving several thousand friends to grieve. In her short life she touched many people. So, little Emma is doing the same thing in her own way. She is touching many of us and bringing us to tears with her strength and will to live. When you criticize Dena you are hurting all of us along with her so stop and think before you post. Dena sees the value of this little life and is fighting to save her. And Emma will be a tribute to what unconditional love can do. Her special story will inspire others to succeed. Dena will inspire others to care and keep trying. She has already taught us much about self sacrifice. __________________ http://www.its-a-yorkie-thing.com Gracie Skeeter Adie Tyler Last edited by Wylie's Mom; 08-13-2008 at 06:33 AM.

08-13-2008, 06:11 AM	#615
Tcarnagie Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Arlington, TX Posts: 1,705	Dena, You are doing a great job with Emma and I hope and pray that she will get better and I thank you for being her Angel. God Bless you and Emma!!