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bjh · 06-07-2008, 11:21 AM

I am so sorry for your loss. Your little Joey is not suffering now. This is not your fault. ((((hugs))))

moosie's mom · 06-07-2008, 11:38 AM

I am so, so sorry! My heart is breaking for you. I wish I could hug you.

Please try and stay strong. May God bless you and ease your pain.

RIP precious little Joey.

saphire · 06-07-2008, 12:54 PM

Oh my goodness! I am so sorry you lost your Joey. Please know I am thinking of you and sending prayers for your heart to heal. Hugs to you and your other babies.

Sheilagh

caper · 06-07-2008, 06:17 PM

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Originally Posted by jp4m2

Could someone please help me to deal with this pain and quilt.....I lost my precious Joey from a vets gross negligence, he failed to prescribe antibiotics and Joey died from a massive infection in just two days.......I am feeling so much pain and quilt right now....the tears just keep flowing......I can't stop running things through my head...What if I had done this.... What if I had done that.....

I miss those big beautiful brown eyes....I miss his sweet loving personality, the way he loved to give kisses....I spent 24/7 with him and I desperately miss him...My heart is so broken........D#mn it, I just want him back home!.....My tears are flowing as I try and write this......My baby is gone and I'm hurting so much.....

I understand what you are going through. I lost FIfi in January she was hit by a truck. I still cry over losing her. It will take time and I feel the same way i wish I had her back.

SophieRose · 06-07-2008, 06:19 PM

I am so sorry to read that Joey has died. When I finally had to put Sophie to sleep, it was agonizing. I also felt the vet was negligent and should have referred her to a specialist. I was so terrified of losing her that I kept going to the same vet even though I had a second opinion who offered up their in house internist.

Guilt? Yes, I know the feeling. if only I had taken her to an internist, she may not have had such a sad last few months.

But you know, we can't go back and can only be vocal when someone else has a sick pup and questions the vet's procedures.

What is comforting to me is that our beloved pups are together at the Rainbow Bridge. I am sending you a link that has helped me immensely.

Warmly, Deborah

The Rainbow Bridge

winstonw · 06-07-2008, 06:40 PM

I am so very sorry about your little Joey. I will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Hugs from Winston and I to you and your other 2 boys Jake and Jack.

bettyeanne · 06-07-2008, 06:47 PM

My heart breaks for you ... I am so terribly sorry that you lost little Joey. God bless and comfort you and heal your broken heart.

RoxyJosMom · 06-07-2008, 06:51 PM

I'm so sorry

. It's so hard to understand why things like this happen - and it's natural to blame ourselves - "what if---", "why didn't I---", "I should have---". But it wasn't your fault and you shouldn't feel like you did anything wrong. You did everything right. You loved Joey with all your heart and provided him with everything he needed to be the happy, little boy he was. Now it's Joey's turn to watch over you until you can be together again. I'm sure Joey knows how much you miss him. I'm also sure he would rather have you smile when you think of him, not cry. I know it's hard, but in time, your tears will be for happy memories, not sad ones. Big hugs on their way for you. Sleep peacefully, Little One.

slk77 · 06-07-2008, 08:19 PM

I am so sorry to hear the loss of your little Joey. He was so cute and I know how very hard it must be especially due to these kind of circumstances. I too am going thru it and I understand how intense the pain can feel. Cry and let your tears out because you loved! We loved our babies to the core of our being and thats why it hurst so bad. But I promise you .... the pain will eventually be less intense. The memories of him will continue because he will always be in your heart. I know my Dior is playing with your Joey know and he is not alone. He is in heaven where he is safe with no harm. The Lord will take very good care of them for us until we meet again. He will watch over you and never ever leave your side. If you sit still.... you really will be comforted.
You are also not alone... we are here to support you and carry you through this. Joey knows how much his mommy loved him and he would never want you to blame yourself at all! Don't torture yourself with "what ifs"..... there is no point but just brings more pain.
You are in my prayer and I know God sees our pure love for our babies and he will comfort the ones on mourning.
Lots of hugs and love., Sandy

wemple2 · 06-07-2008, 09:33 PM

My deepest sympathy to you in the loss of your precious Joey. May he rest in peaceful sleep. I am so very sorry...

chimicole · 06-07-2008, 09:46 PM

{{{HUGS}}}
Please don't blame yourself...
God needed a precious little face witih him and He chose Joey.
Joey is a blessing to the angels as we speak.
{{{HUGS}}}

Sugar's Mom · 06-08-2008, 05:32 AM

I am so sorry for your loss.

Judy in Waco · 06-08-2008, 05:37 AM

Oh no. I am so sorry for your loss. I don't know what to say at all. I'm just so sorry that it happened. Joey was a sweet furboy.

red98vett · 06-08-2008, 05:56 AM

OMG I'm just now seeing this and my heart goes out to you !

Oh girl - I'm soooooooooooooo sorry.....Bless his heart and yours too ....how sad.

I'm having a harder and harder time coming to this section but for you all who need support I do.... and I want to offer my sincere condolences and a big hug....

Poor little guy - he's flying with angels now. Try to remember him that way .....I hope your pain eases as each day passes and you can one day remember him with a smile.....I'm SO SORRY !

tiggerr36792 · 06-08-2008, 06:14 AM

I am so sorry for your loss. Please understand that you can't continue to wonder "What If" for the rest of your life. Sometimes we may never get the answers we are searching for. Just remember the good times and cherish the time you did have together. Don't blame yourself sweetie, these unfortunate things happen. All I can say is to use this as a lesson learned and use the knowledge you have now to help others. My heart truely goes out to you. May the wonderful memories replace your pain! Huggs!!

06-07-2008, 11:38 AM	#17
moosie's mom And Mimi's too! Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: North Coast of CA Posts: 4,086	I am so, so sorry! My heart is breaking for you. I wish I could hug you. Please try and stay strong. May God bless you and ease your pain. RIP precious little Joey. __________________ Hugs and Yorkie Kisses from Linda, Moose and Mimi : The Moose is Loose: Moose wubs AprilLove

06-07-2008, 12:54 PM	#18
saphire Lil' CoCo, Lotta Coffee. Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: South Africa Posts: 3,115	Oh my goodness! I am so sorry you lost your Joey. Please know I am thinking of you and sending prayers for your heart to heal. Hugs to you and your other babies. Sheilagh __________________ Sheilagh CoffeeAbigail-Ceana. CoCoMurfee & Winston

06-07-2008, 06:19 PM	#20
SophieRose Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Petaluma Posts: 2,217	I am so sorry to read that Joey has died. When I finally had to put Sophie to sleep, it was agonizing. I also felt the vet was negligent and should have referred her to a specialist. I was so terrified of losing her that I kept going to the same vet even though I had a second opinion who offered up their in house internist. Guilt? Yes, I know the feeling. if only I had taken her to an internist, she may not have had such a sad last few months. But you know, we can't go back and can only be vocal when someone else has a sick pup and questions the vet's procedures. What is comforting to me is that our beloved pups are together at the Rainbow Bridge. I am sending you a link that has helped me immensely. Warmly, Deborah The Rainbow Bridge __________________ Peace and Light, Deborah My Sweet Sophie 1994-2007Welcome, Charlie Barley 4.14.07 & Sofia Bella 9.13.08 http://www.dogster.com/dogs/535291

06-07-2008, 06:40 PM	#21
winstonw Donating YT Addict Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Boonville, IN Posts: 2,018	I am so very sorry about your little Joey. I will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Hugs from Winston and I to you and your other 2 boys Jake and Jack. __________________ Winston Packer & Pokey Proud member of the CrAzYcLuB Winston Abby

06-07-2008, 06:47 PM	#22
bettyeanne Donating YT 7000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Alabama, etc. Posts: 9,031	My heart breaks for you ... I am so terribly sorry that you lost little Joey. God bless and comfort you and heal your broken heart. __________________ Toto's Mom - http://www.dogster.com/?206581 Yorkie Rescue Colorado - http://www.yorkierescuecolorado.com/ "The difference between genius and stupidity is that genius has limits." -- Albert Einstein

06-07-2008, 11:21 AM	#16
bjh Donating YT 5000 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Southeast Texas Posts: 7,959	I am so sorry for your loss. Your little Joey is not suffering now. This is not your fault. ((((hugs))))

06-07-2008, 06:51 PM	#23
RoxyJosMom Love The Verminator! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: ny Posts: 4,282	I'm so sorry. It's so hard to understand why things like this happen - and it's natural to blame ourselves - "what if---", "why didn't I---", "I should have---". But it wasn't your fault and you shouldn't feel like you did anything wrong. You did everything right. You loved Joey with all your heart and provided him with everything he needed to be the happy, little boy he was. Now it's Joey's turn to watch over you until you can be together again. I'm sure Joey knows how much you miss him. I'm also sure he would rather have you smile when you think of him, not cry. I know it's hard, but in time, your tears will be for happy memories, not sad ones. Big hugs on their way for you. Sleep peacefully, Little One. __________________ Roxy loves Alphy Remi loves Millie [COLOR="Purple"]Mom to RoxyJo & Remington , Fozzy Bear & Chloe

06-07-2008, 08:19 PM	#24
slk77 Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: New York Posts: 59	I am so sorry I am so sorry to hear the loss of your little Joey. He was so cute and I know how very hard it must be especially due to these kind of circumstances. I too am going thru it and I understand how intense the pain can feel. Cry and let your tears out because you loved! We loved our babies to the core of our being and thats why it hurst so bad. But I promise you .... the pain will eventually be less intense. The memories of him will continue because he will always be in your heart. I know my Dior is playing with your Joey know and he is not alone. He is in heaven where he is safe with no harm. The Lord will take very good care of them for us until we meet again. He will watch over you and never ever leave your side. If you sit still.... you really will be comforted. You are also not alone... we are here to support you and carry you through this. Joey knows how much his mommy loved him and he would never want you to blame yourself at all! Don't torture yourself with "what ifs"..... there is no point but just brings more pain. You are in my prayer and I know God sees our pure love for our babies and he will comfort the ones on mourning. Lots of hugs and love., Sandy

06-07-2008, 09:33 PM	#25
wemple2 Wee Winston Wiggles Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Kewanee, Illinois Posts: 9,666	My deepest sympathy to you in the loss of your precious Joey. May he rest in peaceful sleep. I am so very sorry... __________________ As Ever, Kathy Intruducing Bentley Winston and Spencer: RIP My Sweet Angels

06-07-2008, 09:46 PM	#26
chimicole Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Indiana Posts: 188	{{{HUGS}}} Please don't blame yourself... God needed a precious little face witih him and He chose Joey. Joey is a blessing to the angels as we speak. {{{HUGS}}} __________________ Mommy to Riley , Connor , Chimi , Cole and Cordell

06-08-2008, 05:32 AM	#27
Sugar's Mom BANNED! Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Kentucky Posts: 9,248	I am so sorry for your loss.

06-08-2008, 05:37 AM	#28
Judy in Waco Gizzy & Kandi spoil me Donating Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Waco, Texas Posts: 8,477	Oh no. I am so sorry for your loss. I don't know what to say at all. I'm just so sorry that it happened. Joey was a sweet furboy. __________________ The fullness of our heart is expressed in our eyes, in our touch, in what we write, in what we say, in the way we walk, the way we receive, the way we need. -Mother Teresa ( RIP Gizmo 3/9/07-8/18/12)

06-08-2008, 05:56 AM	#29
red98vett Yorkie Kisses are the Best! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Houston TX Posts: 33,590 Blog Entries: 1	OMG I'm just now seeing this and my heart goes out to you ! Oh girl - I'm soooooooooooooo sorry.....Bless his heart and yours too ....how sad. I'm having a harder and harder time coming to this section but for you all who need support I do.... and I want to offer my sincere condolences and a big hug.... Poor little guy - he's flying with angels now. Try to remember him that way .....I hope your pain eases as each day passes and you can one day remember him with a smile.....I'm SO SORRY ! __________________ Villette, Chanel & Cheri www.DesignsByVillette.net Custom Address Labels and Note Cards using YOUR Photos! Just Click HERE!

06-08-2008, 06:14 AM	#30
tiggerr36792 BANNED! Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: California Posts: 6,685 Blog Entries: 1	I am so sorry for your loss. Please understand that you can't continue to wonder "What If" for the rest of your life. Sometimes we may never get the answers we are searching for. Just remember the good times and cherish the time you did have together. Don't blame yourself sweetie, these unfortunate things happen. All I can say is to use this as a lesson learned and use the knowledge you have now to help others. My heart truely goes out to you. May the wonderful memories replace your pain! Huggs!!