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Doodlebug · 06-11-2008, 05:56 AM

I just saw this post. I am so very sorry that you lost your sweet little baby. I am crying for you.

Ines3185lyorkie · 06-11-2008, 06:02 AM

I am so sorry to hear about Joey. I had to put down my Nina and also blame the breeder and possibly the vet. I am sure you've heard of Rainbow Bridge, I read this poem every once in awhile when I think of her, it helps me..hope it helps you.

RAINBOW BRIDGE

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.

There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.

There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.

The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; his eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

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crystalsmom · 06-11-2008, 03:50 PM

I just saw this and I cannot believe what I am reading. Did we both lose our yorkies on the same day? 6-7? I hope they are playing together in rainbow bridge . One thing I do know both our dogs went in senseless ways but guilt and asking why will get us no where. This was your vets fault and not any of it yours and my day was no different than any others when I was at my friends so I have been a firm believe in changing the things you can but when you can't we have to let it go. Of course you would never let another of your dogs go to that vet and I would be upset with him big time but don't take it out on yourself, we hurt enough as it is. Love you and hope your heart heals and your wonderful memories of Joey are with you forever.

Hugs, Joan

Yorkies4Me70 · 06-11-2008, 05:01 PM

Does your other 2 little ones sense it?

navygirl76 · 06-16-2008, 05:31 PM

im so sorry for your loss-my heart aches for what you are going though.. i dont understand why he wasnt given the right meds, or how that can be over looked. that vet would have dealt with a screaming mother from the other end.

stedmansmommy · 06-19-2008, 09:49 PM

Oh I was just crying SO badly reading your post honey....I can just FEEL your pain just by reading the words....

I am SO SORRY. I beg you though, PLEASE do not blame yourself. I did just that when I lost my Cocker Spaniel even though I KNOW in my heart that it was not my fault. It may or MAY NOT have been a med that the vet gave her - I am still not sure til this day, and that was over 2 years ago now (still hard to believe it's even been that long

) - but the point is, I drove myself CRAZY blaming myself....I had SO MUCH guilt, when in all honesty I had nothing to be guilty of. If taking your baby to the vet when she was sick and following the vets orders makes you guilty, then yes, I am guilty of that. Because that's all I ever did

Still, the thought of, "why didn't I research the meds better?" - or, "maybe I should have had more tests done prior", and even the thought of taking her in to see the vet in the first place made me feel guilty, because only 2 days later she passed....anyway, I made myself SICK and severely DEPRESSED over it. Then finally, after some time had passed, I realized that I ONLY DID WHAT I THOUGHT WAS BEST FOR HER. What more could I have possibly done?

I still want her back so dang badly that I can't even stand it....but I only took her in because I knew she needed to be seen, and I only gave her those meds because that is what the vet told me to do.....we are only humans, not doctors....we as pet owners are supposed to do what THEY tell us. That's all we know

I am just SO incredibly sorry for your loss (more sorry than I can even put into words) and I really do hope that in time you will realize that NOTHING WAS YOUR FAULT. Your little Joey still loves you and always will, and he knows that you were only trying to do what was best for him.

I am thinking about you sweetie and will be saying prayers for you. Big hugs and please, please don't blame yourself

dstrutz · 07-12-2008, 07:32 PM

So sorry to hear your joy is gone

However, please find another moment to love the next doggie who needs you. I lost my honey bunny but I found another doggie who needed me so I learned quickly to pick up the memories and learn from them and to love another. I now have two recuses that are so wonderful and grateful! They know they add value to my life which I can pass on to the next person so I see that as priceless

I'm sad 4 u

Mitzis Mom · 07-14-2008, 05:55 PM

I know what you are going thru... we also asked ourself where we missed the signs and what if...

Bless your little angel, I'm so sorry for your loss...

scrapindee · 07-14-2008, 07:23 PM

Oh I am so sorry to read about your loss. I hope you can find some joy in your memories.

mistyblue · 07-22-2008, 12:59 PM

I just came across your post and I am so very sorry for your loss!
I recently lost my little baby as well and amstill devastated. You will get through, please don't what if yourself, it won;t help. Just know that he had all of your love and care, so many out there don't have that.

Take care and God bless you.

Bam Bam SF · 07-22-2008, 08:25 PM

Just saw this post, I am so sorry for your loss. My heat broke as I read your post. My prayers are with you, I can only imagine your pain.
God Bless you.

PANAMA69 · 08-05-2008, 05:06 PM

I just saw this, I usually don't visit this section is just to hard and sad

I'm soo sorry for the lost of your baby

mizzwanned · 08-05-2008, 05:50 PM

I'm so sorry

I wish i could find the right words to say or to make it all better. What a terrible thing to go through, i miss Joey too just from your post. He sounds like he was a sweetheart. Please know he is in a happy place now and you will see him again one day. Big hugs to you, i hope you feel better but i know it is very hard

Tiger's Mom · 08-11-2008, 11:53 AM

I am sooo very sorry to hear about your less, especially when it is due to a vet's negligence

. . sending warm hugs and prayers.

I Miss Shelby · 08-12-2008, 06:15 AM

Hugs and prayers to you.. R.I.P little Joey

06-11-2008, 05:56 AM	#61
Doodlebug ♥Love My Puppies!♥ Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: US Posts: 5,786	I just saw this post. I am so very sorry that you lost your sweet little baby. I am crying for you. __________________ RIP My Sweet Darling Angel Daisy 08/09/03 - 10/02/15, RIP My Sweet Baby Boy Teddy Bear 02/01/04 - 02/11/16 Photos HERE

06-11-2008, 03:50 PM	#63
crystalsmom Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Ohio Posts: 7,946	I just saw this and I cannot believe what I am reading. Did we both lose our yorkies on the same day? 6-7? I hope they are playing together in rainbow bridge . One thing I do know both our dogs went in senseless ways but guilt and asking why will get us no where. This was your vets fault and not any of it yours and my day was no different than any others when I was at my friends so I have been a firm believe in changing the things you can but when you can't we have to let it go. Of course you would never let another of your dogs go to that vet and I would be upset with him big time but don't take it out on yourself, we hurt enough as it is. Love you and hope your heart heals and your wonderful memories of Joey are with you forever. Hugs, Joan __________________

06-16-2008, 05:31 PM	#65
navygirl76 Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: ohio Posts: 158	im so sorry for your loss-my heart aches for what you are going though.. i dont understand why he wasnt given the right meds, or how that can be over looked. that vet would have dealt with a screaming mother from the other end. __________________ Proud U.S. Navy veteran! Mommy to Teddy, his cat sisters Layla and Salem and a bunch of fish

06-19-2008, 09:49 PM	#66
stedmansmommy I Love My Lil' Punkin's Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Stedman and Tatum's World :) Posts: 15,331 Blog Entries: 5	Oh I was just crying SO badly reading your post honey....I can just FEEL your pain just by reading the words.... I am SO SORRY. I beg you though, PLEASE do not blame yourself. I did just that when I lost my Cocker Spaniel even though I KNOW in my heart that it was not my fault. It may or MAY NOT have been a med that the vet gave her - I am still not sure til this day, and that was over 2 years ago now (still hard to believe it's even been that long ) - but the point is, I drove myself CRAZY blaming myself....I had SO MUCH guilt, when in all honesty I had nothing to be guilty of. If taking your baby to the vet when she was sick and following the vets orders makes you guilty, then yes, I am guilty of that. Because that's all I ever did Still, the thought of, "why didn't I research the meds better?" - or, "maybe I should have had more tests done prior", and even the thought of taking her in to see the vet in the first place made me feel guilty, because only 2 days later she passed....anyway, I made myself SICK and severely DEPRESSED over it. Then finally, after some time had passed, I realized that I ONLY DID WHAT I THOUGHT WAS BEST FOR HER. What more could I have possibly done? I still want her back so dang badly that I can't even stand it....but I only took her in because I knew she needed to be seen, and I only gave her those meds because that is what the vet told me to do.....we are only humans, not doctors....we as pet owners are supposed to do what THEY tell us. That's all we know I am just SO incredibly sorry for your loss (more sorry than I can even put into words) and I really do hope that in time you will realize that NOTHING WAS YOUR FAULT. Your little Joey still loves you and always will, and he knows that you were only trying to do what was best for him. I am thinking about you sweetie and will be saying prayers for you. Big hugs and please, please don't blame yourself __________________ Mommy Loves Stedman and Tatum! They have us wrapped around their little paws! Last edited by stedmansmommy; 06-19-2008 at 09:50 PM.

07-12-2008, 07:32 PM	#67
dstrutz YorkieTalk Newbie! Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: wisconsin Posts: 3	It's not your fault So sorry to hear your joy is gone However, please find another moment to love the next doggie who needs you. I lost my honey bunny but I found another doggie who needed me so I learned quickly to pick up the memories and learn from them and to love another. I now have two recuses that are so wonderful and grateful! They know they add value to my life which I can pass on to the next person so I see that as priceless I'm sad 4 u

06-11-2008, 06:02 AM	#62
Ines3185lyorkie Inactive Account Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Yorkietown Posts: 634	I am so sorry to hear about Joey. I had to put down my Nina and also blame the breeder and possibly the vet. I am sure you've heard of Rainbow Bridge, I read this poem every once in awhile when I think of her, it helps me..hope it helps you. RAINBOW BRIDGE Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge. When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable. All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind. They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; his eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster. You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart. Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together.... author unknown

06-11-2008, 05:01 PM	#64
Yorkies4Me70 YorkieTalk Newbie! Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Texas Posts: 7	Does your other 2 little ones sense it?

07-14-2008, 05:55 PM	#68
Mitzis Mom No Longer a Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Maryland Posts: 2,837	I know what you are going thru... we also asked ourself where we missed the signs and what if... Bless your little angel, I'm so sorry for your loss...

07-14-2008, 07:23 PM	#69
scrapindee Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Redlands Posts: 4,842 Blog Entries: 2	Oh I am so sorry to read about your loss. I hope you can find some joy in your memories. __________________ Scrapindee--Team Furry & the Biewers www.houseofwags.com

07-22-2008, 12:59 PM	#70
mistyblue Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Southeast USA Posts: 206 Blog Entries: 2	I just came across your post and I am so very sorry for your loss! I recently lost my little baby as well and amstill devastated. You will get through, please don't what if yourself, it won;t help. Just know that he had all of your love and care, so many out there don't have that. Take care and God bless you. __________________ MistyBlue

07-22-2008, 08:25 PM	#71
Bam Bam SF Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: San Francisco Posts: 125	Just saw this post, I am so sorry for your loss. My heat broke as I read your post. My prayers are with you, I can only imagine your pain. God Bless you. __________________ BAM BAM & PEBBLES

08-05-2008, 05:06 PM	#72
PANAMA69 Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: ~~YorkieWorld~~ Posts: 8,428	I just saw this, I usually don't visit this section is just to hard and sad I'm soo sorry for the lost of your baby

08-05-2008, 05:50 PM	#73
mizzwanned Donating YT 11K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: new york Posts: 14,007 Blog Entries: 2	I'm so sorry I wish i could find the right words to say or to make it all better. What a terrible thing to go through, i miss Joey too just from your post. He sounds like he was a sweetheart. Please know he is in a happy place now and you will see him again one day. Big hugs to you, i hope you feel better but i know it is very hard __________________ Primrose, Teddy..RIP, Livie..RIP, And can never forget my duo Sophie and London, Run in Peace <3

08-11-2008, 11:53 AM	#74
Tiger's Mom Donating YT 8000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Spokane, WA Posts: 9,339	I am sooo very sorry to hear about your less, especially when it is due to a vet's negligence . . sending warm hugs and prayers.

08-12-2008, 06:15 AM	#75
I Miss Shelby YT Addict Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Auburn, GA Posts: 371	Hugs and prayers to you.. R.I.P little Joey __________________ Kasey 7/14/92-8/9/05 Shelby 10/21/93-10/1/07 SCOOTER~~Proud Member of The Little Gentleman's Club