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LunasMomma · 06-08-2008, 07:06 AM

I know your pain all too well, and I'm SO sorry

I blamed myself for a long time for my Starr's death, but it did nothing but make the pain unbearable for far too long

Please don't blame yourself, you did all you could for him. I'm sorry that the vet didn't see what was going on with your baby, our vet was horrible too and it makes it so much harder knowing that they could have been saved. I know. But in time you must let go of the "what if's" and just remember all the good times you had together and know that you WILL see him again someday and how sweet that will be

My heart breaks for you and I wish I could take the pain away. Only time can lessen it, let yourself cry and grieve, and then release it and eventually you'll be able to think and talk about your baby with a smile.

Grizzley Bear · 06-08-2008, 09:37 AM

I am so sorry for your loss of Joey. I wish I was there to give you a big hug. My heart goes out to you. Please don't blame your self for you did all you could. Joey knows that. He has your love with him forever. A fabulous Mommy you are. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Please accept the hugs I am sending to comfort you at this time.
Hugs,
Mary

Yorkies4Me70 · 06-08-2008, 10:40 AM

Jp4m2....I am horribly disappointed in that vet. I would try to do something to put his life to HELL!!!!!

I am sorry about Joey and just remember that he has gone with the love of his mommy (you) in his heart and he is no longer in a lot of pain.

Just keep telling yourself that there is a reason he wanted to go and its not your fault. I know you would of loved to keep him here, but I know for sure you didnt want him to suffer, so that is why he had to go.

I again am very sorry, but this is what happens in life, just know that you have 2 more boys that depend on you for your love and care.

Sookie · 06-08-2008, 01:21 PM

I am so very sorry. (((HUGS)))

jp4m2 · 06-08-2008, 01:38 PM

Thank you all who have posted your heart felt concern, I really appreciate it...I don't feel so alone in this nightmare......

teri88 · 06-08-2008, 02:23 PM

I am so sorry for your loss. Please, no guilt! It's not your fault hon, it just happened. The pain does get better, I promise! It just takes time. You are in my prayers.

jp4m2 · 06-08-2008, 03:00 PM

My precious Joey~ 6/30/06 - 6/6/08

Momma misses you desperately......

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chachi · 06-08-2008, 03:19 PM

I am so very sorry this has happened. Please dont blame yourself. This could have happened to any of us. RIP sweet baby Joey

scrappysmom · 06-08-2008, 03:44 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss.sending prayers your way.

linda44 · 06-08-2008, 03:58 PM

Just wanted you to know you are in my prayers. I am so sorry for your loss and for your pain. I know words dont help you, but prayers do. Please try to remember the positive happy times to help you get through this painful time.

LuvMySissy · 06-08-2008, 04:24 PM

B.J. - I am so sorry I am just now seeing this. I don't even know what to say except that I'm thinking of you and sending loving thoughts and prayers. RIP Joey.

zoeybear · 06-08-2008, 04:29 PM

Hope you find peace. So sorry to hear of your loss.

YorkieChick1 · 06-08-2008, 10:25 PM

I'm sooo sorry for your loss....sending you hugs and strength...
RIP Little Joey

nygee · 06-08-2008, 10:39 PM

I Am Extremely Sorry For Your Loss!!
It must be the hardest thing to endure! I know I speak for all of us here at YT, because our furbabies are like our children...
Sending you prayers and strength...

Joey's A

Magda · 06-08-2008, 11:03 PM

I am so very sorry for your loss. As some other YT mentioned, only time will heal and remember you are not alone in this very very hard time. Know that we all are thinking of you. Hope you feel a little better every day.

06-08-2008, 07:06 AM	#31
LunasMomma Izzy's Momma Too! Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Stuart, Florida Posts: 8,799	I know your pain all too well, and I'm SO sorry I blamed myself for a long time for my Starr's death, but it did nothing but make the pain unbearable for far too long Please don't blame yourself, you did all you could for him. I'm sorry that the vet didn't see what was going on with your baby, our vet was horrible too and it makes it so much harder knowing that they could have been saved. I know. But in time you must let go of the "what if's" and just remember all the good times you had together and know that you WILL see him again someday and how sweet that will be My heart breaks for you and I wish I could take the pain away. Only time can lessen it, let yourself cry and grieve, and then release it and eventually you'll be able to think and talk about your baby with a smile. __________________ Tracy, Mom to Izzy and Luna

06-08-2008, 09:37 AM	#32
Grizzley Bear MY HEART AND SOUL Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Sacramento Posts: 566	I am so sorry for your loss of Joey. I wish I was there to give you a big hug. My heart goes out to you. Please don't blame your self for you did all you could. Joey knows that. He has your love with him forever. A fabulous Mommy you are. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Please accept the hugs I am sending to comfort you at this time. Hugs, Mary __________________ A + = My Grizzley Bear 10/12/95 to 10/10/2007:

06-08-2008, 01:21 PM	#34
Sookie My Four Sweet Babies Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: South Jersey near Philadelphia Posts: 5,452	I am so very sorry. (((HUGS))) __________________ I LOVE MY BABIES

06-08-2008, 01:38 PM	#35
jp4m2 Love my Boys Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: w/ my boys Posts: 5,056	Thank you all who have posted your heart felt concern, I really appreciate it...I don't feel so alone in this nightmare...... __________________ B.J.mom to : Jake J.J. Jack & Joey, momma misses you..... The joy found in the companionship of a pet is a blessing not given to everyone. The two most powerful words when we’re in struggle: me too..

06-08-2008, 02:23 PM	#36
teri88 Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: NJ Posts: 4,021	I am so sorry for your loss. Please, no guilt! It's not your fault hon, it just happened. The pain does get better, I promise! It just takes time. You are in my prayers. __________________ Teri Owned by and completely devoted to Tucker... Maddie, we will always love you *Bandit, you are always in my heart* Proud Member SSLS

06-08-2008, 10:40 AM	#33
Yorkies4Me70 YorkieTalk Newbie! Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Texas Posts: 7	Jp4m2....I am horribly disappointed in that vet. I would try to do something to put his life to HELL!!!!! I am sorry about Joey and just remember that he has gone with the love of his mommy (you) in his heart and he is no longer in a lot of pain. Just keep telling yourself that there is a reason he wanted to go and its not your fault. I know you would of loved to keep him here, but I know for sure you didnt want him to suffer, so that is why he had to go. I again am very sorry, but this is what happens in life, just know that you have 2 more boys that depend on you for your love and care.

06-08-2008, 03:00 PM	#37
jp4m2 Love my Boys Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: w/ my boys Posts: 5,056	My precious Joey~ 6/30/06 - 6/6/08 Momma misses you desperately...... Please Sign In __________________ B.J.mom to : Jake J.J. Jack & Joey, momma misses you..... The joy found in the companionship of a pet is a blessing not given to everyone. The two most powerful words when we’re in struggle: me too..

06-08-2008, 03:19 PM	#38
chachi I Love My Yorkies Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Indianapolis, Indiana Posts: 37,147	I am so very sorry this has happened. Please dont blame yourself. This could have happened to any of us. RIP sweet baby Joey __________________ Chachi's & Jewels Mom Jewels http://www.dogster.com/?132431 Chachi http://www.dogster.com/?132427

06-08-2008, 03:44 PM	#39
scrappysmom Mommy's Baby Doo Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: DesMoines ,Ia Posts: 5,318	I'm so sorry for your loss.sending prayers your way. __________________ mommy to Lizzie, charliegirl Rip Scrappy doo, Rip Sunday.

06-08-2008, 03:58 PM	#40
linda44 Luv my 7 Furkids Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: napa Posts: 9,655 Blog Entries: 4	Just wanted you to know you are in my prayers. I am so sorry for your loss and for your pain. I know words dont help you, but prayers do. Please try to remember the positive happy times to help you get through this painful time.

06-08-2008, 04:24 PM	#41
LuvMySissy Luv my Angel, too! Donating Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: USA Posts: 9,333	B.J. - I am so sorry I am just now seeing this. I don't even know what to say except that I'm thinking of you and sending loving thoughts and prayers. RIP Joey. __________________ Sissy & Angel

06-08-2008, 04:29 PM	#42
zoeybear Misssing Baby Chloe Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: California Posts: 4,186	Hope you find peace. So sorry to hear of your loss. __________________ We give dogs time we can spare, space we can spare and love we can spare. And in return, dogs give us their all. It's the best deal man has ever made. -M. Acklam

06-08-2008, 10:25 PM	#43
YorkieChick1 Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Bay Area, California Posts: 2,249	I'm sooo sorry for your loss....sending you hugs and strength... RIP Little Joey __________________ Nanci 's her furbabies!! Brooke,Binky,Bunny,Buster & BooBoo And My Chichis: Baby & Bitsy There's nothing that brightens my day more than a puppy kiss!

06-08-2008, 10:39 PM	#44
nygee Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Miami, FL Posts: 249	I Am Extremely Sorry For Your Loss!! It must be the hardest thing to endure! I know I speak for all of us here at YT, because our furbabies are like our children... Sending you prayers and strength... Joey's A

06-08-2008, 11:03 PM	#45
Magda Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: May 2008 Location: Durbanville, South Africa Posts: 80	I am so very sorry for your loss. As some other YT mentioned, only time will heal and remember you are not alone in this very very hard time. Know that we all are thinking of you. Hope you feel a little better every day.