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04-22-2012, 11:43 AM | #61 | |
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04-22-2012, 11:45 AM | #62 | |
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Before commenting about someone comment which is so negative & OT, try reading the way you usually do, then take a break and come back read it in a concerned voice (tone), take another break come back and read it in a laughing tone-then reply, about the topic or specifically about the opinions or posts of others. Also it is very true passions run high-sometimes it's all together tiring to see post after post of some things (some things was meant in a stern sad tone).
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04-22-2012, 11:48 AM | #63 | |
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04-22-2012, 12:12 PM | #64 | |
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I know how distraught I'd be under such circumstances...and not for the 6' fall reason, but I've had to 'tough it out' til morning to see my regular vet EVEN AFTER taking a pet to the ER 'cuz ER DID NOTHING BUT RUN MY CREDIT CARD! My vet was a founder of the Vet ER, who didn't even have a vet on-site...just a clerk for taking credit cards..not even qualified for triage...and was SO APPALLED he gave me his home phone number. He also helped FIX the ER again and the next time they saved my baby from certain death. On the brighter side, I did get my money back, and they made the 'mistake' of calling to see how I enjoyed their services...and got an earful. Even so, when I said, "how can you call yourself an ER without a vet on-site" and "if you took your non-breathing child to a hospital ER, would you expect there to be a doctor there?" they still defended their right NOT to have a doctor even called to the ER until after you signed the credit card receipt. On the night this happened, I'd have been SO GRATEFUL for a kitty owners forum with a kind soul to offer any assistance possible until morning vet office hours began.
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04-22-2012, 12:19 PM | #65 | |
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I think that the professionals on YT have to be very careful about dispensing advice for life-threatening illness - in lieu of a Vet. Most do give their advice - but it is always (and should be) tempered with - advice to see a qualified Vet immediately. I see nothing wrong with that.
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04-22-2012, 12:22 PM | #66 | |
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Take care.
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04-22-2012, 01:25 PM | #67 | |
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I've definitely been rude, I'm over it. Open forum invite multiple responses of every nature. I've been nice & called rude, I'm over that too. I've no idea who Charlene is. I find it bizzarre ppl are so upset an obious attention seeking trouble maker comes on saying he hates Yorkies think they should be extinct, yet he would never stand for their abuse...now ppl were up in arms, for due cause, very rude to him which was seen as justified yet when ppl are on here justifying excuse for, neglect, mistreatment, abuse, lack of medical care or their intention to do these things but they proclaim their undying love for Yorkies so we need to respond politely or be crucified as the real problem here-I'll never understand that hence my user-title...
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04-22-2012, 01:35 PM | #68 | |
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I respect everyone opinion, I have learned a lot here. I do not comment on a lot of post because my view is different, Example Corky, is my daughters dog who is 13. She loves him like crazy. Dresses him up, he has matching leashes, to go to his shirts, shoes, rain coats and shoes. He follows her around the house, he returns the love. I pay for vet bills, buy food and do everything I can to keep him a healthy happy dog. If it were not for this place Corky, would be getting booster shots every year. I know better; I Learn that here. Before my late husband and I got her a dog we did the research to find the RIGHT dog for her. A Yorkie was good fit for her and our household. But Corky to me is just a dog, that is it. To be honest if she did not want a dog, I would not have one. My POV is not the norm here, so I keep quiet. I do not have the passion you guys have for your dogs, But I respect it. I just do not feel mines will be. | |
04-22-2012, 02:22 PM | #69 | |
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04-22-2012, 02:34 PM | #70 | |
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For me, it's about what works, and rude posts just don't work, they help the writer vent a little, but they don’t usually help the OP change their mind. If the so called polite people are “crucifying” you, perhaps they aren't as polite as they think, and should take a dose of their own medicine. The truth of it is NOBODY likes to be told what they are doing is wrong; I don’t care how polite you put it! However, sometimes they do listen if you can get through to them without making them feel bad. I do hope we don't come to a point where politeness is seen as the final frontier, and how we say something is more important than what we say. I know it's been hard for some of the good breeders to answer posts because they were often seen as rude just because someone didn't like what they were saying.
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04-22-2012, 04:11 PM | #71 |
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| I honestly was not referring to anyone in particular it just seems alot of this is going on lately and like I said I have received pm's from some of the new ones. Like I said I have went back and reread some of my own past posts and wanted to kick myself for the way I sounded in my responses to some. I am sorry if this thread has offended anyone and I really just was hoping it would help, not cause further issues. I did not take offence by any of the responses either I know each and everyone of us is intitled to to state how we feel on a forum. And I know we all love our yorkie's or we would not be here. God bless.
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04-22-2012, 04:16 PM | #72 | |
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I will really try to and I think I have been over the last year, try to just give non-harsh advice to the point of a positive resolution (but I'll really note my choice in words)...in the first post I make to a thread...it is very frustrating when someone responds but refuses any and all sounds advice. Examples I chose something I've never read here specifically as not to offend anyone: OP: my dog has been hit by a car how do I make a splint? MY Initial response: please take your dog to the vet OP responses again: so dog is now super lethargic and not eating what do I do now...no we aren't going to the vet that cost too much or it's too far away a 20 minute drive is just too long and it's already been 4 days the vet will just want to do an expensive surgery now since immediate care wasn't sought, did I mention that she's 3 or 4 pounds and pregnant by a basset pound about to deliver? MY subsequent response:&^%$ *&^5 #$(@
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04-22-2012, 04:27 PM | #73 | |
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I agree with yorkietalkjilly who said, "But the intent is not to hurt the feelings of the OP but speak in a direct fashion, since kinder, more gentler-worded posts are clearly not getting through." So sometimes a more direct post is needed. I really do understand the frustration, I'm not sure how much we can help some of these people.
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04-22-2012, 04:32 PM | #74 | |
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This thread has not offended me and I understand why you posted. I have been on YT since 2006. I took a long break from it but when I came back I realized just how great this site is (I knew it before but had a son and was busy). It's an open forum people can say what they want but I agree kindness gets you further even with those that you want to post a ton of expletives to. I can't tell you how many times I have typed and deleted or edited my post.
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04-22-2012, 04:39 PM | #75 |
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| Charlene, I know who you are now I'm semi back to the level... I'm glad you posted this if nothing else it shows everyone where people are and why they get the responses they do and how everyone feels-to say people left because a few were rude is silly they can see how many others here respond in a polite way and in fact those who (unlike me I admit it) find it more productive to be polite and coddling outnumber those who are, direct, harsh or rude. It's always good a thread like this comes up from time to time-which it does, it at least helps us understand each other's perspectives...food for thought etc. Oh, and I too have reread many of responses based on how someone responded to it and went huh I see now why they thought this that wasn't how I meant it to sound-other times it really was. Sometimes I do say, well I'm sorry you choose to feel that way. Enough said.
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