Charlene, I know who you are now I'm semi back to the level...
I'm glad you posted this if nothing else it shows everyone where people are and why they get the responses they do and how everyone feels-to say people left because a few were rude is silly they can see how many others here respond in a polite way and in fact those who (unlike me I admit it) find it more productive to be polite and coddling outnumber those who are, direct, harsh or rude. It's always good a thread like this comes up from time to time-which it does, it at least helps us understand each other's perspectives...food for thought etc.
Oh, and I too have reread many of responses based on how someone responded to it and went huh I see now why they thought this that wasn't how I meant it to sound-other times it really was.
Sometimes I do say, well I'm sorry you choose to feel that way. Enough said. |