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09-21-2007, 02:38 PM | #46 |
Donating YT 11K Club Member | Denise, do not feel bad. No one is mad at you at all. You did the right thing for Macy and for you guys. If you guys are not ready then you just simply aren't. Maddie was a precious little girl and i still get so sad cause she comes up in my mind often. I know you guys loved her soo much! Macy will get a family that will love her the same way, i know it because i know that Jill will do her best to place her in a great home. My prayers go out to you.
__________________ Primrose, Teddy..RIP, Livie..RIP, And can never forget my duo Sophie and London, Run in Peace <3 |
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09-21-2007, 04:04 PM | #47 |
All Dogs Go To Heaven Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: By The Lake
Posts: 2,727
| Denise, I fully understand you and your daughters feelings and decision. When my beloved Maltese, Jack (RIP), died I was sure that my world ended. I also knew that I would never love another dog like I loved him. Two months later my sister's friend gave us Maggie. She became Chuck's dog, I just could not let myself love another animal. A year later Maggie had Rocky & we kept him because he was a cute little black dog. Rock was almost 2 before I allowed myself to truly love him. He was missing & I was frantic to find him. Maggie found him in the woods and led him back home. I mourned Jack almost 3 years and could not allow myself to open up to the feelings of love (& not being hurt) again until Rocky was lost. Jack's urn (my Jack-in-the-Box) is by my bed and I tell him goodnight every night. Then I cuddle up with my Rock & go to sleep. My prayers for you and your family. Jeanie
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09-21-2007, 06:54 PM | #48 |
Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: queens
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| First of all I would just like to say that though the decision you made was a hard one it just proves how much you really care for Macy. I am sure that you have weighed the decisions and this is what is best for you and your family and Macy. I wish you the best of luck and hope that although your heart will never fully heal that it will begin to mend. |
09-21-2007, 07:25 PM | #49 |
~Izzie~ My Lil' Sweetie Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: So. California (Santa Clarita)
Posts: 2,348
| Denise, please don't feel bad...everyone has their own time frame for getting over the love of a lost one, especially our fur babies.......you will know when your time is right.....it took me 7 years to finally decided to get another dog after I lost my Sheltie "Fussie" and I still think of herand miss her daily after 7 years...I have even found myself calling out to my lil one using her name and then catching myself....But now after having Izzie for the past 6 mths I wonder why I waited sooooooo long...she is the best thing that has happen to my life since Fussie, and although I will never forget the love and good memories Fussie and I shared.......she is now my new love and I cherish every moment I have with her...Sending prayers for you.
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09-22-2007, 10:30 AM | #50 |
Donating YT Addict Join Date: May 2006 Location: Indiana
Posts: 671
| Macy is here with me for a little while Well guys, Macy is here. Denise cried, I cried, Macy licked. Macy is doing great, Denise is very heart broken and having a hard time understanding her feelings. I explained to her that everyone grieves differently and it was too soon for her to get another one. The flood of PM's I have gotten about Macy is amazing!! Everyone is concerned and several want her. I have pm'd with several of you and want to say thank you for asking and wanting her. My policy is that I talk with the first person that contacts me to see how I feel about them and if I have a good gut instinct and it all seems to match up, then that is who I will go with. A YT member "myboymax" or Jeanette out of Queens NY has went out of her way to make arrangements for Macy. She will actually be living with Jeanettes sister who lives 3 blocks from Jeannette and will be home with her all but about 3 hours a day. She is single and Macy will be her child. Max and Macy will be able to play on a regualr basis as well. Thank you all and remember to keep Denise and her family in your prayers as this was very hard for her. Thanks again! Jill
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09-22-2007, 11:27 AM | #51 |
Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: May 2007 Location: Winnipeg
Posts: 372
| Jill you are a super person for helping out Denise. I am so glad that Macy is going to get a great home. I'm sure Denise was great mommie for Macy but we all understand her pain and have no problems with her decision to give Macy back. Its just great that it ends up in a happy ending. |
09-22-2007, 11:29 AM | #52 |
Piper & Sebastian Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: florida
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| Glad to hear everything went well for Denise and that Macy will be getting a wonderful new home.
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09-22-2007, 11:53 AM | #53 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Canton,Ohio
Posts: 514
| Denise, I am so very sorry for your loss- I feel so bad that you had to make this decision. You did the right thing and I think you are a wonderful person for doing what is best for little Macy. I have thought about the day when I no longer have Lex and I just cry thinking about it. Anyone that has truly loved a pet can understand your deep grief. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you!!!
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09-22-2007, 01:55 PM | #54 |
YT Addict Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: sumrall, MS
Posts: 344
| Denise, I just ready your post. I am so sorry you are still hurting! Hopefully soon, you will begin to heal. Yes, you are doing the right thing in giving her back if your heart is not ready for a replacement. In time you will be able to accept another baby. In the meantime take care of yourself and know that Maddie is running and playing at the Rainbow Bridge with all of the other wonderful furbabies, she is now in perfect health. Good luck sweetie with your journey to healing a broken heart.
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09-22-2007, 06:44 PM | #55 |
and Hopeys Mom Too Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Louisiana
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| I feel for you, having to make this decision, but only you can make that choice.... you have to follow your heart..... good luck and I am sure you will know when the time is right to love another furbaby... d
__________________ Donna's little herd.... Tooties Dogster http://www.dogster.com/?271687 Hopeys Dogster http://www.dogster.com/?448723 and Tinker, TBone(RIP) Laci .. OH, and Me-Kitty(RIP) |
09-22-2007, 07:14 PM | #56 |
Wee Winston Wiggles Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Kewanee, Illinois
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| Denise I'm so very sorry it didn't work out with Macy, take time to grieve the loss of Maddie...it's difficult to love again when your heart is still broken. Just know that I understand your decision and agree that it is the right choice for all involved. Hugs to you, please take care...
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09-22-2007, 07:28 PM | #57 |
YT Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: iowa
Posts: 393
| Ohh I am so sorry Denise. My heart just sank when I read your post because in everyword I read, I can feel your pain and agony over this decision. I am so sad for you and it is so painful. I know I have been there too. Nobody could be mad at you for doing the right thing and hopefully time will bring some healing for you all. BIg hugz
__________________ Peggy {PrOuD NaNna to GrEEnlEE & Louee, and MommIE to PiXIe & GiA, MaTer & Gelee} |
09-23-2007, 04:44 PM | #58 |
and Bernie's mom too!" Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 8,283
| Denise, I understand completely. It was 3 full years after Shelby died before we brought Ginger home...my heart was too broken. Please know that you've got a lot of support here, and I applaud you for doing what is right...
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09-23-2007, 09:28 PM | #59 | |
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God Bless you ALL though, for thinking of little Macy - she truly is an angel!
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09-24-2007, 03:55 AM | #60 | |
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