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09-21-2007, 08:05 AM | #16 |
Luv my Angel, too! Donating Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: USA
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| Oh Denise - my heart is breaking all over again for you and your family. I don't think anyone is doing to think you are a bad person. You tried and it just wasn't working. When the time is right you will know it. I hope little Macy gets a loving family and know that Jill will take good care of her until that happens. You know we'll always be here for you. Hugs to you...
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09-21-2007, 08:11 AM | #17 |
Piper & Sebastian Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: florida
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| I don't think anyone will think anything bad of you for doing what you feel is right in your heart. I'm sure Jill understands and I'm happy she's so nice about all this. You'll know when the time is right, and it just doesn't happen to be now.
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09-21-2007, 08:26 AM | #18 |
Donating YT 9000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: North Carolina :)
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| Hugs to you Denise. It wasn't the right time, everyone can understand that. Your heart needs time to heal. When the time is right you will know.
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09-21-2007, 08:32 AM | #19 |
Bella Boo & Diggy Too! Donating GS Member | Im sorry Denise...and totally understand. Is Jill going to hold on to her or try and re-home right away? Just wondering if that door would be open for you if you give her back then realize it's not what you want you could get her back.... My heart goes out to you....and I am hoping for the best for all.
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09-21-2007, 08:33 AM | #20 |
Love my Boys Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: w/ my boys
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| Denise, you owe no one an apology....only you and your family know what's right for you, and if it's not right, then you do what you need to do to rectify it... I'm so sorry for everyone involved, it must be so heartbreaking for all of you...
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09-21-2007, 08:37 AM | #21 |
Misssing Baby Chloe Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: California
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| Hope you feel better soon and your family too. Hugs from Zoeybear!
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09-21-2007, 08:42 AM | #22 |
YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Middleville
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| Aww, I think all dogs lovers have had at one time in their lives a very special pet that they'll never get over. I know once you've lost that pet it's extremely hard to find one exactly like him/her that you feel the same about. I think you're making the right decision. It is too soon and you know you don't have to worry about Macy, she'll find the right home. You know what I suggest? A nice dinner out and some shopping or a movie with your girls and maybe a special present on the day Macy goes back to Jill. Kids are so wonderful, you think they'll be upset but they can tell when Mommy isn't feeling "right" and want you to feel better. I'm proud of you, this was a very hard decision to come too. You are strong enough to do what's right for Macy and I think that's awesome. Everyone on YT knows how much of a kind heart you have.
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09-21-2007, 08:43 AM | #23 |
Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: May 2007 Location: Winnipeg
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| Denise please read my thread. I understand completely how you feel. As much as I love my rugrat, I don't think I could have another when Toby passes. http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/showthread.php?t=95250 Derek & Toby |
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09-21-2007, 08:49 AM | #26 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: California
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| Think your feelings are valid... Time of course heels all wounds - Sorry for your loss and best of luck....
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09-21-2007, 08:50 AM | #27 |
No Longer a Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: INDIANA
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| I'm in tears right now cause you guys are truely such wonderful people. I was a nervious wreak telling jill and posting it on here. Everyone has been so awesome. Macy will be going back to Jill on sat. and i must say, she won't be going empty handed. She'll be taking all her bed, chair, toys and clothes with her. She is so attached to her little chair. She loves to sleep in it everynight. If anyone is interest in Macy...she is truely an adorable little girl. Her fur is awesome and she has some of the cutest gestures. When you say something to her, that little head just tilts to the side as she looks up at you. I feel sooo horrible that I can't give her the feelings she deserves cause she is such a little angel. |
09-21-2007, 08:52 AM | #28 |
YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: Canada
Posts: 2,180
| I understand what you are going through . I've been in the same situation when my 16 years old Collie died . I wanted another dog immediately but I wasn't able to cope with Lark's death and I gave the Collie pup to my cousin. Take your time to heal , I am sure ones will be mad at you for your hard decision |
09-21-2007, 08:57 AM | #29 |
Bella Boo & Diggy Too! Donating GS Member | Well again...I am very sorry and I am sure noone will judge you or think differently about you....I take that back...I do feel a little different now... think you are an even STRONGER woman than i had imagined, and a person who truely looks out for the best of thier loved ones. My heart goes out to you.
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09-21-2007, 09:33 AM | #30 |
Donating YT Addict Join Date: May 2006 Location: Indiana
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| Hard decision for Denise Hi Denise and everyone, Thank you to everyone who has been so kind and understanding with Denise's decision. It was very very hard for her and she was so nervous about telling me. She was afraid it would damage our friendship. However, we are good friends and she is an amazing person and I want what is best for her and for Macy. She is doing something that is sooo difficult but what is in the best interest of Macy and her family. I have offered to keep her for a bit before trying to rehome her to see if this is what she wants, but she is sure, so I will be rehoming her. I am sure in time her and her family will heal and be ready for another one. No puppy will ever be like Maddie, but one will come into thier life someday that they will feel connected to in a very special way. Thank you all sooooo much!! Hugs to all of you!! Jill
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