PLEASE PRAY for me!

[gr8yorkiecraze]

I'm so sorry. I know what you're going through. I lost my mom 3 years ago. I went through such a dark time in my life. I cried all the time, in the car, at home, even at the postoffice once. I didn't think I'd ever get through it. I will say, there are still times when I have a "bad" day, but it gets better. You just have to hold on to the good memories. Ok, so now I'm crying. While I know you have a lot of tears & pain ahead, know too that you will smile again. I'll be thinking of you. Keep strong.

[Pipersmommy]

I am so sorry for your loss. I understand exactly what you are going through. Everything that I read you had to say was my mom. I never though I would get over my mom death. She was everything to me. We took vacations together & everything. She was truly my best friend. I lost her at an early age also. I was so distraught I had to seek help through my Doctor. I was crying non stop. A year passed and it wasn't getting any better, I was at the end of my rope. When a miracle happened. My mom came to me in a dream, it was so life like. I found myself walking in a garden with her, & she told me it was wonderful where she was at,That she was with her mother, & it was time for me to stop dwelling on her death. She would be with me in my heart & watch over me until it was my time to join her. The dream went on & on, where I was able to ask all kinds of questions. I felt so guilty I wasn't with her when she passed, I had just left the hospital. She told me it was all right, that when the Angels came, she knew it was time to go & I would be fine. I told her I wasn't fine & was having a hard time living without her. She then said that is why she came to see me in my dream. After our forever long night of talking, I was able to understand that she would be always with me in spirit, & that some day I would be with her again. When I awoke, I felt the world had been lifted off my shoulders. I still cry when I talk about her, But I have been able to move on. I do talk out loud to her everyday, & tell her I love her. I am crying now as I write this, & it has been 19 years.
I pray your mother will come to visit you, & help you through your pain, like mine did.

[furby2000]

I'm sorry for your loss... We will certainly be sending lots of prayers you way...

[SophieRose]

I am so sorry, dear sweet girl. You are devastated and this loss is not easy to overcome. So many events in your future, and Momma won't be there. I hope these words ease your pain with the following: My mother died at 67, missed out on my first grandchild, weddings and life threatening events in my personal well being. However, I felt her presence at each event, in times of need and talk to her beautiful face that looks out from a frame on my breakfront. Continue to seek the comfort of others who understand your feelings. Write in a journal how you are feeling everyday for at least 15 minutes. Sob, allow yourself to be angry and most of all...tell her how much you miss having her in your life. She is there and listening. Warmly, Deborah

[yorkieusa]

I'm so very sorry. Yes. You are too young to not have your mother to share your sorrow and your joy in life. My prayers go out to you so that you will find peace.

[ARCHIE]

Joy, I am so sorry for the loss of your mother.
You have to remember although she is no longer here physically
she will always be with you in spirit. Yes she was much to young
to leave you but we have no control over destiny. Only time will
heal your pain. Your so young yourself but reach deep down inside
and find the strengh to go on. It's there just look.
Bella will help in easing your pain also. She needs you as you need
her. The pain your feeling will ease up in time and memories of your beloved mother will be with you always.
Please take care of yourself. I will keep you in my prayers.

[ilovelouie]

I too am so so sorry about the loss of your sweet mother. I know first hand how unbearable the pain is and can only tell you that time really does heal the pain and that your mother is still here with you even though you can not see her. Let the great memories of her fill your heart. Give yourself as much time as you need to grieve. There are some great books out there to read about loss and the grieving process that may help you through too. The relationship that you had with your mom sounds exactly like what I had with mine and when she passed away unexpectedly in my home at 63 yrs old I did not think that I would get through it. People are so good at times like these and you need to take all of the love and support that they offer because it really does help. If you feel that you need to go talk to someone like a doctor please dont hesitate to do so. A year after the passing of my mom I went to a wonderful doctor and he actually put me on an anti-depressant.....about two weeks after that I felt like the world was just lifted off of my shoulders. We can get ourselves into such a funk after such a shocking tragedy that sometimes we just need a little extra help. My thoughts and prayers are with you, and please, if you ever need to "just talk" feel free to PM me. God Bless
Tami

[mistyinca]

Oh my...I'm so sorry about your mom. I could not imagine what pain you must be going through. Remember her love, and remember all the joyous times you had together. You will have those wonderful memories forever.

Misty

[chattiesmom]

I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. I will keep you in my prayers and I am sending hugs

[YorkieRose]

I am very sorry to hear about your mother..your mom was very fortunate to have been loved so much by her daughter. I pray God will replace your pain with the sweetest of memories...nothing will replace a mother, but you will feel her love and influence for the rest of your life...you were so blessed to have such a good friend in her...

[Dragonfly]

I'm so sorry for the loss of your mother You will be in my prayers, sending you hugs.

[suzysmitt]

I'm so sorry for the loss of your mom. Try to remember all the good times you had together. A lot of daughters and mothers don't have special relationships, and I'm very glad you had such a special one. You're mom will always be with you. It will just be at a distance.

[Patti]

My deepest sympathies on the loss of your beloved Mother. I lost my Mom 2 weeks ago and I am still in the I can't believe it stage. My Mother was much older than your Mom and I can't imagine now losing her that much earlier. If you need to talk Pm me. I will keep you in my Prayers.

[RowdysMom]

It is just so hard when loved ones are too young or pass unexpectedly. We are never ready, but especially when it is like your mom. I'm so sorry that you are having to go through all of this. Time will lessen the pain - but I know these words don't help right now, not much does. Even memories cause distress right now, but that will ease with time.

Someone once asked another person in emotional pain, "What are you good at and what/who needs you?" After much thought, the person named something that she was good at and what/who needed her. About a week later the person in emotional pain, sent a letter of thanks to the person who asked the question. It was a simple question - and it really helped.

Again, I'm very very sorry!

[mustangbee]

I'm so super sorry, I can feel your pain, and will keep you in our Thoughts & Prayers. Always remember your Mom will forever live in your heart. She's an Angel now, watching over you.
May God Bless You, now and always.