It is just so hard when loved ones are too young or pass unexpectedly. We are never ready, but especially when it is like your mom. I'm so sorry that you are having to go through all of this. Time will lessen the pain - but I know these words don't help right now, not much does. Even memories cause distress right now, but that will ease with time.
Someone once asked another person in emotional pain, "What are you good at and what/who needs you?" After much thought, the person named something that she was good at and what/who needed her. About a week later the person in emotional pain, sent a letter of thanks to the person who asked the question. It was a simple question - and it really helped.
Again, I'm very very sorry!
__________________  Rex & Rowdy's Mom  |