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05-22-2006, 10:52 AM | #31 | |
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05-22-2006, 10:52 AM | #32 | |
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__________________ IF THERE ARE NO DOGS IN HEAVEN, THEN WHEN I DIE I WANT TO GO WHERE THEY GO. CHIKIS, OSCARITO,JEROME, KIKI, AND NEGRITA. | |
05-22-2006, 10:53 AM | #33 | |
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05-22-2006, 10:59 AM | #34 | |
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Life's too short to make things work for the sake of making it work. I think that people should live for themselves and what they think is best for them. Especially if their better judgement is telling them what to do. If in the end, you are happier, you're not throwing anything away.
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05-22-2006, 11:04 AM | #35 | |
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05-22-2006, 11:09 AM | #36 | |
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__________________ IF THERE ARE NO DOGS IN HEAVEN, THEN WHEN I DIE I WANT TO GO WHERE THEY GO. CHIKIS, OSCARITO,JEROME, KIKI, AND NEGRITA. | |
05-22-2006, 11:16 AM | #37 | |
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05-22-2006, 11:17 AM | #38 | ||
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Life is too short to be miserable. Only you know what's best for yourself, and what will make you happy. Good Luck to you hun'. And don't worry about anyone judging you.
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05-22-2006, 11:23 AM | #39 |
Luvs Lulu Donating Member | ...mmmh Listen the best thing first off is to take step back from the ex. Honestly do some soul searching over the issues you are having with DH. Even if there are children involved I feel that people that are seriously unhappy shouldn't stay together. I speak from the experience of being one of those children in that situation. Till this day I still tell my dad that he should just walk away from my mom. I personally being a child of a unhappy situation would like to say if you are not happy please go on and don't drag it out thinking you are doing something good for us. We can feel the tension and see the unhappiness..even when adults think that they are disguising it. Once you can sort out that mess at home if you really want to see and play the "whatif" game with your ex then do so. I have been married for 7 years and with DH for almost 14 (I have been with him since I was 17). We have three young children and I have to say if either of us is unhappy and can't or don't feel it's worth working out then we are going to go our seperate ways. You might no longer be a good match couple wise but you can still remain great parents no matter if you are apart.
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05-22-2006, 11:28 AM | #40 |
Donating YT 10K Club Member | Last thought..... Forget the ex (or anyone else), they cloud your thinking, then consider whether or not you should remain married. If you become single then think about adding a boyfriend, not before. And don't kid yourself that divorce is painless....it is never painless...it's an emotional roller coaster all it's own.
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05-22-2006, 11:34 AM | #41 | |
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I speak from experience when I say that I was an emotionally fragile wreck as a child because my parents fought 24/7. They never did it in front of me and never ever yelled @ me, but I just knew and spent my time worrying about them. I would spend my days and nights trying to keep them away from each other. When my parents finally split when I was 11, it was the best day of my life. I felt free and could be a kid again. So, I don't believe that divorce is necessarily a bad thing - in fact, it could be life saving. Who knows how I would have turned out if my parents were still together...
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05-22-2006, 11:42 AM | #42 | |
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Well, I STILL have dreams about my first love, and I wake up "liking" him again. It still freaks me out. But, I highly doubt if he would feel the same way if we were to see each other. So, I can't help you in that department. I would "stick" it out with your husband if that's what you really want to do. But, don't leave him for another man. It will come back to bite you in the a**. That's just my ho. Good luck, though!
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05-22-2006, 11:44 AM | #43 | |
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05-22-2006, 11:45 AM | #44 |
Our Blessings R Many Donating Member | Hi, I have read the other postings and wanted to comment. I am not one to tell anyone how to live their life but can share my life experience with you. We just had our 50th wedding anniversary the 19th. Life is not a bed of roses no matter how you slice it, marriage, employment raising kids, friends, on and on and on. However, it is something that I found takes a lot of work on my part to have a happy life, and to be successful in all challenges that face me, so through the years that is what has gotten me thorough it all. The past is the past, to move forward and gain knowledge from things we learn in life is of great value. I pray everything will work out for you and wish you the best. Through the years my love for my husband has grown so deeply, he is now fighting a battle with Parkinsons Disease (for six years) it is a daily struggle, telling you how long we have been married, yes it tells you we are up in our years. I was told that I needed to go on a treatment a year ago but due to his illness I decided not to because he couldn't handle it, it would be very rough on me and I could not take care of him, so I opted not to. Good Lord willing HE will enable me to be here to take care of my hubby and then what ever will be, will be. I just want to say I faced many many hard times through the years but am so thankful I toughed them out and thank the Lord each day for the blessings HE has given us and for always being the one person I could lean on in those tough times. I am not a fanatic in christianity but I am a christian and know that through my beliefs it has been my crutch in life and has enabled me to become the person I am and to hold the happiness I treasure. I sincerely wish the best for you and I definately will be praying for you in your situation. Patti ~~Baby Blessing~~ |
05-22-2006, 11:46 AM | #45 |
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| OK...I think we all need to chill out. Kristy..I am not or was not mad at your question. I was just stating that hes not abusive. everybody else. The ones of you that read my thread awhile back knows that this has been an on going issue (my marriage that is). This was brought up way before the ex came into play, and im not even saying hes "in Play". The thought has crossed my mind but right now my focus is my two beautiful daughters. I have talked to my ex. yes, but not for awhile but I saw him yesterday (did not speak). I should not have brought up this thread at all so I am sorry that i did. I look to you guys for opinions and help when im down and usually at the end I feel better but i feel all that has been done today is me opening a great debate that ppl are going to get hurt on so I apologize. |
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