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Originally Posted by vainchick5 I just think you have to think about the kids too. Divorce has a huge impact on them. I think we make OURSELVES unhappy, by thinking negative, being in touch with exes, ect. We are all capable of making ourselves a little more positive and happier in our situations, thus thinking about the kids. |
I speak from experience when I say that I was an emotionally fragile wreck as a child because my parents fought 24/7. They never did it in front of me and never ever yelled @ me, but I just
knew and spent my time worrying about them. I would spend my days and nights trying to keep them away from each other. When my parents finally split when I was 11, it was the best day of my life. I felt free and could be a kid again. So, I don't believe that divorce is necessarily a bad thing - in fact, it could be life saving. Who knows how I would have turned out if my parents were still together...