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I wasn't trying to be judgemental but I think people take marriage so lightly. Divorce has become such a popular thing these days. I just think people should stay together (unless there is abuse in any way or cheating) especially if there are children involved and try to make it work no matter what (not saying you won't. Not aiming this at you at all). I think it's easy to look at a new person and like everything about them and imagine a future with someone else. But is it really worth throwing away what there is with the current family? |
Life's too short to make things work for the sake of making it work. I think that people should live for themselves and what they think is best for them. Especially if their better judgement is telling them what to do. If in the end, you are happier, you're not throwing anything away. |
I agree totally with Kristy. And comming from a childhood whose parents stayed together "for the kids" I feel that my parents would have been better off getting a divorce earlier when my sister & I were young, rather than 3 years ago. Depending on how bad your situation is, in my case my parents fought daily. And my sister and & were always caught in the crossfire. It's better off for the kids not to have to go through that.
Life is too short to be miserable. Only you know what's best for yourself, and what will make you happy. Good Luck to you hun'. And don't worry about anyone judging you.