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03-31-2006, 08:12 AM | #16 | |
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__________________ Nicole & Baby "The more men I meet, the more I love my Yorkie!" | |
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03-31-2006, 08:13 AM | #17 | |
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03-31-2006, 08:15 AM | #18 |
Yorkies Rock My World! Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: North Carolina
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| WOW!! So much great advice here! Advice that is awesome and I agree with: 1. Do whatever you can to get your money back. 2. Kick him to the curb 3. Don't take this kind of crap from any man 4. Do not feel stupid!!! These are called "LIFE LESSONS" Anytime you are challenged in this way, Hannah darling, you come out the other side a stronger, more capable person because you LEARN so much!! YOU WILL BE FINE, but you sure do need to get rid of this guy, I am sad to say. Suzie has it all right... AND DO NOT FEEL BAD!! Love is a funny beast; one day it's all wiggly and giggly, and the next day it bites you in the butt! There are way too many negatives here for you to continue wasting your precious time on a man who doesn't deserve wonderful YOU!! HUGS, Babe! Now I REALLY CAN'T wait to see you next week!! I will give you this hug in person!!!
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03-31-2006, 08:15 AM | #19 | |
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03-31-2006, 08:17 AM | #20 | |
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03-31-2006, 08:18 AM | #21 |
Donating YT 10K Club Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Alabama
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| I sympathize with you. Times like those are no fun Just take deep breaths and repeat to yourself, "Homocide is still a felony. Homocide is still a felony..." |
03-31-2006, 08:19 AM | #22 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Fort Worth, Texas
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| I am so sorry that you are going threw this, but we all have been there, done that, and have the T-shirts to prove it. You should kick him to curb ASAP and stop wasting you time and energy on this guy. Life is to short to be dealing with a jerk like that. If you're worried that he will show up at your front door step begging and crying well there is little thing called 911 and they will give him pretty silver bracelets to wear. You are wonderful person and beautiful lady, and you deserve someone that is going to take care you and spoil you rotten with any compliants or conditions. Good Luck and Rocky sends lots of puppy hugs and kisses!!!! |
03-31-2006, 08:23 AM | #23 |
Donating YT 10K Club Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Alabama
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| Ha ha...T-shirts...that reminds me of something funny. My sister dated a real loser of a guy for almost 3 years...he was OK at first, but as they "grew up" he "grew" into an idiot. We finally knew she had moved on when she appeared wearing 2 hilarious shirts: One just said "Have you dumped your boyfriend today?" on the front. The other one said, "I'm not with stupid anymore," and she had his old football number screen printed on the back of it. Maybe you could get one of these and he would take the hint to straiten his act out? |
03-31-2006, 08:26 AM | #24 | |
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Stand up for yourself! Tell him you want your money back. If he says no, out the door he goes. It's so sad that a girl would let a guy get away with this, it's not just you, it happenes everyday!!! Only it never gets better it always gets worse. They will make you feel great, until they get what they want, then they leave you feeling like crap. If he's not the Man of your dreams, and it sounds to me he's not, then it's time for you to stand up and move on. Money really isn't the problem, your hurt feelings are. He's not going to pay you back, OK get over that, but now work on your heart. Is this the man of your dreams, the one you want to spend the rest of your life with, have children with? Hmmmmmm When you go to Europe, relax, take time for you. Before you go, sit your parents down and let them know it's over, and you would like their support on this. There is a nice Prince out there for every Princess, your first one was just a frog, now send him back to the lake, and start living again, so YOU will be happy. Best of luck to you!
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03-31-2006, 08:34 AM | #25 |
Donating YT 10K Club Member | My advice....don't loan anyone money you can't afford to give away. I have in laws that owe us thousands. So now we're the a--holes for asking/expecting it to be returned when we could've started out as a--holes for not loaning to them in the first place...but we wouldn't be out any $. I'd dump your boyfriend but not because of the money issue....because he makes you miserable. Consider the money tuition to the school of hard knocks...
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03-31-2006, 08:38 AM | #26 | |
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03-31-2006, 08:40 AM | #27 |
I Love Thor Donating Member | WOW! Everyone has such great stories to share, and they make for some laughs and thats totally what I need right now. The general consenses is, get rid of him and I know that. I really know that. No I don't want him to have my babies, NO I don't want to marry him, No I really don't love him anymore but I do care about him a lot. AND my mom cried and cried when I got back with him after I dumped his ass once. So I promised her I would never marry him. I would have my parents support 200%, so that's not the problem. I just wish that I could do this and it would be drama free. He is such a drama king and..ahhh. And who ever said 911 was a good number, you are right. He doesn't want to go BACK to jail AGAIN! Yes, I do know how to pick my men huh? Life lessons, yes, and I just know there is a purpose for all this and it will bo okay someday, it just sucks right now. I love that I can depend on my YT friend so help me feel better. You guys are so good at it. Thanks so much!!! Really, thanks! |
03-31-2006, 08:41 AM | #28 | |
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__________________ Glad Mom to Jasper, Wosie & Dreama, RIP sweet babies. | |
03-31-2006, 08:48 AM | #29 | |
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03-31-2006, 08:49 AM | #30 |
I Love Thor Donating Member | You guys are seriously cracking me up! |
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