Advice that is awesome and I agree with:
1. Do whatever you can to get your money back.
2. Kick him to the curb
3. Don't take this kind of crap from any man
4. Do not feel stupid!!! These are called "LIFE LESSONS"
Anytime you are challenged in this way, Hannah darling, you come out the other side a stronger, more capable person because you LEARN so much!! YOU WILL BE FINE, but you sure do need to get rid of this guy, I am sad to say. Suzie has it all right... AND DO NOT FEEL BAD!! Love is a funny beast; one day it's all wiggly and giggly, and the next day it bites you in the butt! There are way too many negatives here for you to continue wasting your precious time on a man who doesn't deserve wonderful YOU!!
HUGS, Babe! Now I REALLY CAN'T wait to see you next week!! I will give you this hug in person!!!