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Originally Posted by Thorsmomma No, not anyone from YT! I am feeling totally stressed out right now and I just want to kill my boyfriend. I hate him. I am so sick of fighting! I am so sick of listening to him whine and complain. I am so sick of having to deal with him and his problems. I am so sick of trying to pretend I care so much. The last straw, I let him borrow money a few weeks ago, and asked for it back a couple weeks afterwards and he said he he didn't have enough money. SO last night he said that he had 2 thousand dollars and I asked for my money and he said that I said that he could have it to pay him back for money he spent on "us". Now I am out that money that I was saving for my Europe trip, I worked so hard to save it.  I never said that and I never asked him to spend money on me!!! My school load has me on the verdge of going insane, and I just feel like a goin crazy!!! I shouldn't complain about my life bt I am so sick and tired of dealing with all this crap! Sorry to go on, you guys are like my therapy session...Thanks  |
Boy, I'm really sorry to hear you feel stuck, because you're not.
Stand up for yourself! Tell him you want your money back.
If he says no, out the door he goes. It's so sad that a girl would
let a guy get away with this, it's not just you, it happenes everyday!!!
Only it never gets better it always gets worse. They will make
you feel great, until they get what they want, then they leave you feeling like crap. If he's not the Man of your dreams, and it sounds to me he's not,
then it's time for you to stand up and move on. Money really isn't the problem, your hurt feelings are. He's not going to pay you back, OK get over that, but now work on your heart. Is this the man of your dreams, the one you want to spend the rest of your life with, have children with?
Hmmmmmm When you go to Europe, relax, take time for you. Before you go, sit your parents down and let them know it's over, and you would like their support on this.
There is a nice Prince out there for every Princess, your first one was just a frog, now send him back to the lake, and start living again, so YOU will be happy. Best of luck to you!
