Punch Your LIGHTS OUT!!! No, not anyone from YT! I am feeling totally stressed out right now and I just want to kill my boyfriend. I hate him. I am so sick of fighting! I am so sick of listening to him whine and complain. I am so sick of having to deal with him and his problems. I am so sick of trying to pretend I care so much. The last straw, I let him borrow money a few weeks ago, and asked for it back a couple weeks afterwards and he said he he didn't have enough money. SO last night he said that he had 2 thousand dollars and I asked for my money and he said that I said that he could have it to pay him back for money he spent on "us". Now I am out that money that I was saving for my Europe trip, I worked so hard to save it. :cry: I never said that and I never asked him to spend money on me!!! My school load has me on the verdge of going insane, and I just feel like a goin crazy!!! I shouldn't complain about my life bt I am so sick and tired of dealing with all this crap! Sorry to go on, you guys are like my therapy session...Thanks :rolleyes: |
Hannah, I'm so sorry that this is happening to you... Have you tried telling him.. "Look __________, I have never asked you to spend money on us and I have been working so hard for my trip. I lent you that money because you really needed it at the time and I don't feel that it's fair for you not to pay me back. When did I ever say that you could keep the money?" I feel like a therapist now... LOL Oh, well, that's just my .02... Hope you work everything out and I can't wait to meet you next weekend!! |
I agree with DaisyMaesmom ask him for your money back and if he doesn't give it back you need to rethink your relationship. |
You sound really upset and I can completely understand! I would just tell him to give you your money back or else.... :p |
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Ok Dr. Phil here~ LOL It sounds like it is much more than the money, the money is just the last straw, I would GET the money, Today, while he has it, then kick him to the curb with what he has left. Any man that needs you to pay for the date things,that is what he's doing your paying for your couple things, including him.. is TROUBLE,and I would not deal with it, I've had my share of losers that I had to pay for,, then I matured and realized its time for someone to take care of ME! And I now I have that. Which is how it should be. JMHO Good luck in whatever you decide.. but remember,,, YOU teac people how to treat you.. and if he gets away with this,,it WILL continue and get worse. Stand up for yourself, and what is yours...the $$ ! |
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if i could tell you how much money i lent to other boyfriends and never got it back, your head would spin... i will tell you.. my first boyfriend owes me to this day, around 10.000 dollars... bailed him out of jail. he skipped..lent him money for a motorcycle, sold it for drugs.. and stole my jewerly... you know what, that sucker does not have me anymore... im alway lending money an never getting it back...your a really good person, but keep your hands out of your pocket for now on.... find someone who will take care of you...cause you are worth it.... i found out the hard way. good luck |
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I'd prolly say, "Listen @%#wipe, I'm sick & tired of your crap. I never said you could have that money. And if anyone's a money hungry $%#@ that would be you dip$%#@!!~ I'm taking my money back & my life. Go to Hell." Then punch him in the stomach, knee him & the groin & tell Thor to sik 'em and bite his toe off. Take your money and leave. Ok ok, maybe that's a bit harsh. But that would be along the lines of what I'd do. LOL. That also could be the NewYorker in me. :) Take care of yourself Hun. And there's nothing that puppy kisses, snuggles, & time won't heal. *BIG HUGS* & *PUPPY KISSES* from Sango & I |
If he loved you..whether he owes you money or not he should want to help you to come up with the money to visit england. I know if jay really wanted to do something that was important to him..i'd do whatever it took to help him as he would me. |
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Keep your chin up Girlie :thumbup: |
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I don't know you at all, but I can tell you, you don't have to put up with that from ANY man. There are plenty of good men out there. I loaned a masn mney once too, and never got it back. I came to realize, any man that would borrow from a woman is a user. |
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No need to feel stupid, as you can see a lot of us have been there and learned too. A man with pride and self respect will not ask a woman for money. He is the loser hone, not you. |
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