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yesenia83 · 09-19-2007, 05:11 PM

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Originally Posted by grayxie

A yorkie is not an ideal pet for small children. Contact your local human society or rescue group if they can offer you any advice.

Disclaimer:What I am about to say next may sound mean.

Who cares if the girl is attached, she was your dog FIRST! You have been festering about this for a while now, you unwillingly gave her into their care. I could care less if its a "family" affiliation, you aren't talking to your mother and you aren't close to them so who cares if there is tension. If they offered you money for your dog, tell them they can use that money and adopt or buy another one. I'm sure their kids will get over it once they get a new dog. Also you should of went back to get her once you settled into a new place, instead of waiting this long to act on it. All you can do now is be persistent, or even help them find another dog.

I completely agree.

GG3 · 09-19-2007, 05:20 PM

So sad .Do you have all her records? IF you do call the police and get your baby back. What page did you see pic's on so we can all see them too. If is is a myspace we can request him also and view the pic's.

girdygirl · 09-19-2007, 05:32 PM

How old is Butters?

Nikki+2 · 09-19-2007, 06:04 PM

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Originally Posted by oneswtplee

[F]I just want to let everyone that has so kindly posted, The relatives said they will not give her back because she's gotten to be really close to their 12 yr old daughter.

I'm not sure what to do now? Should I just let her go and stop trying? I don't know what to say to that. Gosh this is hard. I know that if I was the little girl, I wouldn't want my dog taken away. [/FONT]

Hon, you ARE the girl that had her dog taken away. If you honestly feel you are the better home for Butters, then go get her. She is YOUR dog. If you feel like she is better in her new home then let her go. The decision is yours, and only yours.

mminichan · 09-19-2007, 06:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Nikki+2

Hon, you ARE the girl that had her dog taken away. If you honestly feel you are the better home for Butters, then go get her. She is YOUR dog. If you feel like she is better in her new home then let her go. The decision is yours, and only yours.

I agree!! Butters is yours to begin with!!!!!!! Go get your baby if you think you can provide a better home than them

Anna Banana · 09-19-2007, 08:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Nikki+2

Hon, you ARE the girl that had her dog taken away. If you honestly feel you are the better home for Butters, then go get her. She is YOUR dog. If you feel like she is better in her new home then let her go. The decision is yours, and only yours.

Doodlebug · 09-19-2007, 08:48 PM

This is so sad. Please go get your baby. She belongs with you and she is still yours. She doesn't need to be mistreated any more. You need to go get her.

daisy mae06 · 09-19-2007, 08:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Janie616

This sounds so silly, you are willing to alienate yourself from your mother
but you do not want to make a fuss with "The" relatives to whom you are not even close?

You need to get yourself over there and 'save' your baby ...
even a birth mother has up to 6 months to reconsider the adoption process ....

although "even birth mother has up to 6 months to reconsider the adoption process ." not in all states

lara2913 · 09-20-2007, 01:35 AM

Go and get her NOW, she needs you. Even if you have to break the door down, you have to get her back.

Chelsey · 09-20-2007, 02:06 AM

Go and get your baby, whats wrong with you girl? You are in a tiff with your mom because of the little one, yet you dont want to make a fuss with family members that you are not even close with! If you are affraid to go there, take someone with you. Offer your family your help to search for another baby that can be theirs from the start! Dont wait... the longer you wait, the harder it will get for all parties involved.

Good luck

and keep us posted!!!!

Winstin07 · 09-20-2007, 02:30 AM

Sweetie, that baby is yours and there is a reason your heart is longing for her.
I agree with everyone on here that has said to go get her. It was no ones business to give her away. That Yorkie is yours and you have her info that proves it. Now, buckle down and go get her. Who really cares if you make those people mad? The dog is yours and you did not want to let her go to begin with. Since you basically said she is not in a safe place, then as her parent you need to get her back in your arms and safe. Think of it this way, how are you going to feel if she "accidently" gets hurt? Knowing you could have saved her if you just got the nerve to go get her.
Now, go get in that car and get back up if you need it and go get her.
Best of Luck. I will be praying for you.

Vinnie's Mom · 09-20-2007, 03:54 AM

I'm so sorry, I can't even imagine! but what's worse is that I can't imagine that your relative's won't give butters back!

HarleysMommy · 09-20-2007, 05:59 AM

Have you got Butters back yet????

makemepretty · 09-20-2007, 07:06 AM

I wish I knew what type of inappropriate picture he posted, I know some of the costumes I see people put their dogs in I'd find wrong

so we each have our own views of what bothers us. The girl is 12, I don't find that too young for a yorkie as a pet. I know quite a few on here have kids much younger, it really depends on the kid. Plus, this is a larger size puppy(from your posts) not a tiny fragile one.

I know you're feeling bad but I think all this advice on just taking the dog will end you up in trouble. Do you HONESTLY think she's being mistreated or is this a regret thing and a money thing(they are expensive). I know you posted just last week looking for a new one.

Honey, I hope whatever happens you and Butters end up happy. My sister had to rehome a bulldog because she couldn't find anyone who would let her stay with them and keep her dog so I kinda know why your mom might have made that decision. How she went about it was TOTALLY wrong though. I think she should have given you the option of keeping Butters and finding somewhere else to live or giving up her and living at home. It's sad all around.

If your really really want her back go and see a lawyer and do it the right way. In fact, a call from a lawyer might make them more able to work with you.

PrincessPoo612 · 09-20-2007, 10:54 AM

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Originally Posted by mminichan

I agree!! Butters is yours to begin with!!!!!!! Go get your baby if you think you can provide a better home than them

09-19-2007, 05:32 PM	#48
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09-19-2007, 08:48 PM	#52
Doodlebug ♥Love My Puppies!♥ Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: US Posts: 5,786	This is so sad. Please go get your baby. She belongs with you and she is still yours. She doesn't need to be mistreated any more. You need to go get her. __________________ RIP My Sweet Darling Angel Daisy 08/09/03 - 10/02/15, RIP My Sweet Baby Boy Teddy Bear 02/01/04 - 02/11/16 Photos HERE

09-20-2007, 01:35 AM	#54
lara2913 Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: UK Posts: 1,920	Go and get her NOW, she needs you. Even if you have to break the door down, you have to get her back. __________________ Indy, Benjamin and Malachi There is no psychiatrist in the world like a puppy licking your face- Ben Williams

09-20-2007, 02:30 AM	#56
Winstin07 Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Findlay, Ohio Posts: 513	Go get that baby. Sweetie, that baby is yours and there is a reason your heart is longing for her. I agree with everyone on here that has said to go get her. It was no ones business to give her away. That Yorkie is yours and you have her info that proves it. Now, buckle down and go get her. Who really cares if you make those people mad? The dog is yours and you did not want to let her go to begin with. Since you basically said she is not in a safe place, then as her parent you need to get her back in your arms and safe. Think of it this way, how are you going to feel if she "accidently" gets hurt? Knowing you could have saved her if you just got the nerve to go get her. Now, go get in that car and get back up if you need it and go get her. Best of Luck. I will be praying for you. __________________ With God ALL Things are Possible!! I can never again imagine my life without my little Yorkie friend.

09-20-2007, 03:54 AM	#57
Vinnie's Mom YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: PENNSYLVANIA Posts: 767	I'm so sorry, I can't even imagine! but what's worse is that I can't imagine that your relative's won't give butters back! __________________ Beth - Mom to Vinnie, the wonder-yorkie!

09-19-2007, 05:20 PM	#47
GG3 YT Addict Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Philadelphia Posts: 480	So sad .Do you have all her records? IF you do call the police and get your baby back. What page did you see pic's on so we can all see them too. If is is a myspace we can request him also and view the pic's.

09-20-2007, 02:06 AM	#55
Chelsey My2Pearls Chelsey & Chanel YT Donator Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: N Posts: 4,097	Go and get your baby, whats wrong with you girl? You are in a tiff with your mom because of the little one, yet you dont want to make a fuss with family members that you are not even close with! If you are affraid to go there, take someone with you. Offer your family your help to search for another baby that can be theirs from the start! Dont wait... the longer you wait, the harder it will get for all parties involved. Good luck and keep us posted!!!!

09-20-2007, 05:59 AM	#58
HarleysMommy Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Huntsville Posts: 155	Have you got Butters back yet???? __________________ *Angela & Harley*

09-20-2007, 07:06 AM	#59
makemepretty YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Middleville Posts: 933	I wish I knew what type of inappropriate picture he posted, I know some of the costumes I see people put their dogs in I'd find wrong so we each have our own views of what bothers us. The girl is 12, I don't find that too young for a yorkie as a pet. I know quite a few on here have kids much younger, it really depends on the kid. Plus, this is a larger size puppy(from your posts) not a tiny fragile one. I know you're feeling bad but I think all this advice on just taking the dog will end you up in trouble. Do you HONESTLY think she's being mistreated or is this a regret thing and a money thing(they are expensive). I know you posted just last week looking for a new one. Honey, I hope whatever happens you and Butters end up happy. My sister had to rehome a bulldog because she couldn't find anyone who would let her stay with them and keep her dog so I kinda know why your mom might have made that decision. How she went about it was TOTALLY wrong though. I think she should have given you the option of keeping Butters and finding somewhere else to live or giving up her and living at home. It's sad all around. If your really really want her back go and see a lawyer and do it the right way. In fact, a call from a lawyer might make them more able to work with you. __________________ http://www.dogster.com/pet_page.php?j=t&i=369717