Go and get your baby, whats wrong with you girl? You are in a tiff with your mom because of the little one, yet you dont want to make a fuss with family members that you are not even close with! If you are affraid to go there, take someone with you. Offer your family your help to search for another baby that can be theirs from the start! Dont wait... the longer you wait, the harder it will get for all parties involved.
Good luck
and keep us posted!!!!