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11-18-2014, 07:32 AM | #1 |
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| A dilemma....what to do! Okay long story but I'll try to keep it short. On October 27th, I had to put my cat of 15 yrs to sleep. She finally succumbed to kidney failure. She lived a long and good life and while I was extremely upset that she passed, I knew she had lived the best life any pet could live. I got Dutch about 4 months before Zoey my cat passed. Dutch is 2 years old and is still very playful and mischievous. My cat hated her though and didn't want anything to do with her. Now here is where it gets a little weird. Exactly one week after my cat passes, i saw the neighborhood kids standing around our mailboxes, when I went over to ask them if anything was wrong, I saw they had a kitten maybe about 6 weeks old. They said the kitten had been out there for about two days and they were feeding it. None of them could take the kitten home. They were so concerned about the kitten that I offered to take the kitten home with me promising the next day I would take it to the humane association or some other reputable shelter. Well as it turns out none of the shelters in my area are accepting cats right now. They are all filled up. I even offered a 100$ donation but they just don't have the room right now but they said to keep checking back. So now I am fostering this kitten until I can find it a good home. Now here is where the dilemma comes, Dutch and the kitten absolutely adore each other. Dutch I think is beginning to form an attachment to her. When I am not at home or sleeping, I keep the cat in one of the spare bedrooms. Dutch just sits at the door waiting for me to let her out, and when I do they are so excited to see each other. They play together for hours and when they are done playing, they cuddle and fall asleep together. It is the cutest thing. For various reasons, at this time I really can't take care of another pet. But at the same time, I know it will break Dutch's heart if I find the cat another family to live with. I am torn between keeping the cat and giving it away. I haven't even name the cat yet as I don't want to form an attachment but Dutch is clearly in love with this kitten. The humane association say to give the call back on December 2nd as they are moving into a new facility and not accepting any pets until then. So I think I'll hold off until then but I think it will be hard on Dutch the longer I wait. Last edited by yavenay; 11-18-2014 at 07:34 AM. |
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11-18-2014, 07:49 AM | #2 |
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| It seems like it was just meant to be... I think the hardest part about getting a second pet is how well it will get along with the first. They already get along. Sounds like Dutch has made the choice for you by showing his approval. Looks like it's time to give the kitty a name. Oh..and you can't talk about how cute they are snuggled together without posting a pic.
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11-18-2014, 08:10 AM | #3 |
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| I have a video of them playing but I am work now and can't upload it. I will post as soon as I get home. In the video it looks like Dutch is being the bully but it's the kitten that won't leave Dutch alone. Itty bitty (that's what I kind of been calling her) will chase after Dutch, and then Dutch chases her and tackles her. Dutch even tries to sit on her and itty bitty loves it. I love watching them play. I've own two pets before and unfortunately they had their share of medical issues. I really don't want the expense of the vet bills. I just don't know what to do. I would have to make sure I could get pet insurance for both of them. I think that will be the deciding factor on whether or not to keep the kitty. |
11-18-2014, 08:22 AM | #4 |
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| I have a friend who owns cats and it seems like cats are much easier/cheaper to maintain. Also I have found resources on low cost vaccinations/spay/neuter at some of the shelters around. And some of that can even be free if you qualify. It may be an option for you. Clearly the two get a long and you've done cat/dog relationships before so it maybe won't be so bad given time/commitment/resources. Hang in there.
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11-18-2014, 08:55 AM | #5 |
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| Of course the decision is up to you but it is my prediction that there is no way you are getting rid of that cat. The fact that you took the cat into your home in the first place tells me all I need to know. You have a very tender heart and love animals. Not all cats but most cats I know are very low maintenance. I am a person who tends to follow my heart. You do what makes the most sense to you and it will be the right thing. |
11-18-2014, 09:52 AM | #6 | |
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So basically I will be training the both of them at the same time. Zoey and I had an understanding. I won't say that my last cat was trained as she was trained not to at least do it in front of me. . It just so much to consider plus I had planned on doing much more traveling and most of the places I am going too I can take Dutch with me but now I will have to considered the cat when making my travel plans. This is why I am so torn. And I also kinda of wanted a break from cleaning litter boxes. I've have been shoveling cat crap for 15 years!!!! But that is minor but still I have to so much take into consideration. Last edited by yavenay; 11-18-2014 at 09:55 AM. | |
11-18-2014, 10:02 AM | #7 |
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| It sounds like Zoey sent you something to help you morn her loss. I think if there is anyway you can keep her I would. I think you might regret it if you don't.
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11-18-2014, 10:14 AM | #8 | |
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11-18-2014, 10:35 AM | #9 | |
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I agree with Taylor, and yet, of course, I fully see where you're coming from.... When we had Rosie our Labrador, we also had 4 cats. 2 in particular absolutely adored Rosie, curled up with her, twined themselves round her legs etc...the other 2 just put up with her. But they really all got on so well. We used to take Rosie EVERYWHERE with us, but of course there was no way we could cart 4 cats around as well For that reason, I enlisted the help of a neighbour, who would come in twice a day (at least - she loved our house!!). She was so happy to help - we would either pay her, or bring her back a lovely present from wherever we had been, whichever she preferred. As for the cat-crap-shovelling....I taught them to 'go outside' during the day - but never, of course, in our neighbours gardens.... Good luck, such a difficult decision
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11-18-2014, 11:06 AM | #10 |
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| A dilemma for sure, the longer you keep the kitty the more attached Dutch will be with it, then you going to pull his new little friend away from him, to sad for me to think about it, but I can definitely understand where you're coming from. I am sure you will make the right decision. Good luck.
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11-18-2014, 01:31 PM | #11 |
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| I think you should keep the kitty. It is very hard sometimes impossible to find a companion your yorkie loves that much. I have four cats and 2 yorkies and neither of my yorkies act that lovingly about the cats or each other I wish they did. There are ways you can cut costs like going to a low cost clinic for spay/neutering and shots. Thats what I did with my cats. You know you cant give away that kitty if the con is a little litter scooping whats that to having a loving companion for your yorkie and a cherished pet for you
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11-18-2014, 03:45 PM | #13 |
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| I have a feeling that things will fall into place pretty readily for the three of you...And I think the powers that be brought Itty-Bitty (cute name, that) into your life. I agree that any decision you make will be the right one as no one can read the situation better than you. Doesn't make it any easier, I know! Anxious to see those two little rascals together--rough-housing or sleeping! |
11-18-2014, 04:29 PM | #14 |
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| Sorry, but it sounds like you have yourself a new kitty.
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11-18-2014, 04:46 PM | #15 |
YT 2000 Club Donating Member | Look I support any decision you make. But try if you can to think also with your mind intellect. You wanted a break from 17 or so years of cat ownership, you were happy with your dog. Your dog Will get over your kitty going away, as my puppy got over the older foster young dog finally finding a former home. Just weigh the pros n cons dispassionately and without too much emphasis on your pup loving to play with kitty. Trust me he will get over her going away. I am in the opposite position having lost my beloved Karma last year, I am aching for a new kitten, but I am not sure the timing is right. My reason tells me what you have is enough, it is not the right time, wait, my heart says I want the special love a cat gives. I deeply miss Karma, my doggies not so much, although two of my doggies grew up and were trained by my senior cat from their puppyhood. Karma taught my senior male as a puppy to stalk prey, as a team Karma open a door from underside, Magic used his superior height and strength to get to delicious treats or toys hidden behind the cupboard. Karma could open up anything and Magic would patiently wait till that box was opened to delve into the insides. They were very very close. But Karma died and Magic went on with hardly a hiccup. Anyhoo the point is I think your boy will survive the kitty going away. It is up to you to determine if you are ready and willing to give the care and love to another kitty for 15 or so years. Don't make the decision on what *you think* your dog wants or even needs, but as the caretaker and caregiver on what you are ready, willing and able to support.
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