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01-17-2011, 10:10 AM | #46 |
Yorkie Talker Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: newark, DE
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| So sorry your husband yelled at you. Give him a couple pairs of slipper socks with rubber bottoms and tell him Puppy's sorry, he's in training and he'll get better. Yellling only makes it worse. I know how you feel, my baby is having issues, Daddy's home in a neck brace and a lot is going on. He's feeling my stress and had a few accidents in the house. It's also his first year to deal with the SNOW. It's a work in progress. Hang in there. Wolfie and Mommy. |
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01-17-2011, 07:03 PM | #47 |
Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Austin, TX
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| WOW! I didn't check the forum for a while, but I came back to report that my poor Princess has been away at "positive training" doggie boot camp in a woman's home for the past week. She'll be there for a total of almost two weeks. I appreciate citygirl123 and beyonce'smom prayers and everyone's wonderful advice so very much! The camp is expensive, but I'm hoping she'll come back with some new found behavioral restraint. The poop incident really was my husband's breaking point. I know he's a good man, but he just isn't bonding with the dog. She barks at him EVERY TIME he enters a room. I've had her since August and you'd think she'd be used to him by now, but she doesn't care for his "vibe", I guess. I really wish he could find some joy in dog companionship, but he doesn't even pet her (even if I ask). He says "She's cute." sometimes. But that's about it. I can't force him to love animals, I guess. I just don't relate to it, at all. Dogs and cats and even bunnies make me melt with love. I like the slippers advice. I'm ON that one, for sure. Very good advice. I'll look into an x-pen, but we have a small home built in the 20's - each room is small and I'm afraid it would take up a lot of space. Plus, anything that might make her bark, will instigate more tension in an already tense situation. My lil girl does help me with anxiety, so he understands that... but the winter is AWFUL for Yorkies in the Northeast! |
01-17-2011, 07:12 PM | #48 | |
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01-24-2011, 01:01 PM | #49 | |
♥I Luv my BaileyBlue♥ Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Illinois
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| very nicely put! my husband was not an animal lover either, but Bailey has grown on him and now he loves him to death HOWEVER he still gets very angry if Bailey misses and tells me to clean it right away. If he's in a good mood he'll do it himself, but that's rare...lol... all in all he loves Bailey but that doesn't take away the fact that he does get mad and say things when he's mad. Quote:
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01-24-2011, 04:03 PM | #50 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: South Florida
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| I am so sorry you are upset. I am sure he is a great person and really did not mean it. To be honest I would not be happy if I stepped in poop-- and if I could blame it on someone else I am sure I would vent. You have received a lot of good advice. I am for crate training a puppy, with positive reinforcements. I am on dog #4-- and it is not fun but if you hang in there it will work out. One of my guys was my daughter's and she couldn't keep him so he was a bit older when we got him. I ALMOST gave up on him a few times... I don't think he was really trained until he was about 2 (a lot older than most... don't worry). But I would not give one of my kids away so I won't give up on a furkid. Hey--- if winter is so hard for you -- move near me Honestly..... good luck, don't give up, TALK to dh when you are not as upset and you both can be calm.
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01-24-2011, 04:28 PM | #51 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Gansevoort, New York
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| glad 2 see so many responses for you, i think women are more tolerant of the trouble our babies get into, poop etc, i too love my babies soo much that i never really get mad at them & they have pooped all over, chewed my furniture, favorite shoes, etc, etc. ( they are better behaved each day) but my point is women & women dog lovers especially are pretty tolerant. i would guess your husband does love your pooch just got frustrated when the poop squished between his toes. ha ha. hope things get better for you. sometimes just have to vent |
01-25-2011, 06:26 AM | #52 |
No Longer a Member | Yikes! I guess I'm lucky with my bf, I've never had to show him that it's "the dog" that would win a "me or the dog" ultimatum. Just before he left for the states a little over a week ago, he was running around getting his bag all packed up and I think the stress vibes he was putting off put Rizz into "forgetful mode" and Rizz made a mess on the floor (right next to a piddle pad). Bf stepped right into it and got cold soggy socks, I was in the restroom at the time and when I came out I saw him sitting on the floor cleaning his foot off. I was actually suprised at his reaction, he just told me that he put Rizzo in his crate because he made a mess. Me being me started apologizing and cleaning immediately, but he told me to calm down. he knows how happy Rizzo makes me so he makes sure to be cool headed when things like this happen. Which they do. Often. Are you at the doggy daycamp with your pup? Training is important for both owners and pups, personally I'd say training is more 80% human and 20% dog. I'd even recommend having your husband go to the training with your pup, it'll help them bond which it sounds like they really need. |
01-25-2011, 08:31 AM | #53 | |
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01-25-2011, 08:38 AM | #54 | |
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01-25-2011, 08:48 AM | #55 |
YT Addict Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Bella Vista Arkansas
Posts: 482
| Poop training Lisa, I know what your winter has been like and little dogs aren't so happy going out to do their business. I got my new little 'Princess Libby' I call her Libby, in Nov. I live in North Dakota. It is do darned cold here. She was 6 mos old when I got her, so she had only gone on a pee pad. Heck, I don't know if she had ever even been outside, because when we brought her home and put her out she had a ball! She is now over 8 mos old and should be better trained but she has had a late start on any training. Anyway she is doing fairly well, going outside, but she pees on the pad but has decided that the best place to poop is in a corner in my sewing room! No matter what I do, she wants to poop right there!! Little pooper! I really am trying with going outside but sometimes with -50* windchill it is just hard sometimes to get her out there. I am however concerned about your pup and the barking when your husband comes home. She is just trying to get his attention. Can't he just pay a little attention to her? That's just mean. If he'd just pet her a little, I'm sure things would change a lot, for both of them. I just can't understand that kind of behavior. |
01-25-2011, 09:45 AM | #56 |
♥I Luv my BaileyBlue♥ Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Illinois
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| I tell you even last night my husband threw my baby up in my face about how we can't sleep together in the same bed because of him. Or if we do sleep in the same bed, he's worried he's going to roll over on him or Bailey will snap at him. I put a call in to Dog Training by Bark Busters so hopefully they can help me with some of these issues.
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01-25-2011, 12:18 PM | #57 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: New Hampshire
Posts: 10,534
| I am so very lucky to have met and fell in love with a guy who not only LOVES my boys (it took time) but also tolerates all their mishaps and such. My man LOVES me .... and in that deal is them whom he knows I love more than anything in the world. That means to love me means to love them to him. Now, I have also done things to help his love for them grow. Ive gotten better at training, I got Fletcher fixed when I didn't really want to.... I knew this would make our living situation with them easier for all of us. He also knows that if he sneaks them bits of food (which he does wayyy more than i do) that he may have to pay the price of that, which might be poop in the house. Overall though, he is wonderful... he rubs them down each morning and takes them for car rides even if it's just to the dump. He takes pics of them for me when he's with them and I'm at work or something so I can see what they are doing and because he knows seeing them during my boring work day will put a smile on my face. I am so lucky and my boys are too, thankfully!!
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