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Originally Posted by Lou  Dear Lisa,
I am so sorry you are going through this. I know how much it is hurting your right now.
I want you to go buy your husband a pair of house shoes, ones that would be easy to clean if he steps in poop again. Then write a short note promising him that you will do your best to keep the floors clean and sign it. Stick the note inside one of the slippers and gift wrap them. Say they are a gift from you furbutt.
After he opens his gift, sit down with him and tell him what you have told us about your feelings. Even if you have told him before - he doesn't seem to have heard all of it yet.
Ask him if he would deny or begrudge you medicine if you were sick.
I do hope, like the others that this was just a case of momentary anger but you know from other behaviors if he is the type of man you fear he may be. I think you know the answer already don't you?
I wish you luck sweetie. I hope you can feel better real soon.
Hugs
Lou |
This was great. A nice way to make him understand that you love him but you are not getting rid of the dog and that you are trying your best.
I have always believed in the positive...'kill em' with kindness' this might make him feel bad for acting like a bully.
