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Originally Posted by princessbunbun  He made it clear this morning. Just moments ago when he stepped in poop in bare feet. He screamed: "This is a violation of my comfort zone and if you fail to train that dog to poop outside - she has to GO!"
It doesn't bother me what he said/the ultimatum... it's what came after that. I don't give a rat's a$$ about that dog.
I ALWAYS suspected this. I just don't get people who don't love dogs (or other animals for that matter!). As I'm writing this I have tears welling in my eyes. It's a terrible thing to know about your husband and I know that I'm judging his entire character on whether or not he has the capacity to love an animal and this is wrong of me, but I can't seem to separate out my feelings or see things rationally.
This dog means the world to me. I have a very hard time with winters (anxiety attacks / depression) and this little girl has brightened my outlook and lifted me in a way I cannot describe. I call her Princess Prozac because I don't have to take medicine with her in my life.
I'm very upset right now...
-Lisa |
I'm sorry you are going through this. I really don't think he hates your fur baby. Just the pooping.His reaction was from from that. Take her outside more often and when she poops out there praise praise praise and a treat for reward. I can understand how you feel for what your babe has added to your life. Have a nice talk with hubby and explain things also tell him that to please be patient as you are working on the training and it takes time.