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[cj125]

Wow - did someone put something in the water? This is UNBELIEVABLE!!!

Has the line between right and wrong been blurred so badly that no one can see it anymore?

How do so many people twist what they read into something it's not?

Yes, this is Admin's house.

Yes, Ann is doing a thankless job for free.

I sincerely appreciate the time that both put into this site but I didn't know that I was suppose to say that every time I post. Sorry, I'm not into brown nosing/a$$ kissing to elevate my standing somewhere. I will acknowledge a job well done and I give compliments when I should but they are genuine and not because the rest of the crowd is doing it!

This did not start off as criticism as some of you have stated. We were asking for clarification on some rules. Stop twisting things around.

Ok, so let's say I went to a party at Admin's house. Say he had a couple of small children. I'm standing outside minding my own business when I notice a child (Admin's friend's child) punching Admin's child. Knowing that this child's parents are friends with Admin - should I tell Admin about his child getting punched or should I just say nothing at all?

Then, let's say I do tell Admin what happened and he says "oh, that's ok my kid needs to learn how to defend himself". I understand - not everyone parents the same and he's busy entertaining.

But after watching this other child continue to harass, punch and belittle his child all afternoon --- do you really think I should stay quiet? Sorry - that's not how I roll. You better believe that I would walk over to that child (the bully) and tell him "that's enough"!

Unfortunately, that's what I see what's happening here.

I don't feel like I disrespected Ann or Admin - if I did - I am genuinely sorry because that was NOT my intention. But just like I would go up to Admin at his party and ask why are you letting this happen - I'm asking the same thing here.

This is sad...

[chattiesmom]

Originally Posted by cj125;3191307[COLOR=blue

Ok, so let's say I went to a party at Admin's house. Say he had a couple of small children. I'm standing outside minding my own business when I notice a child (Admin's friend's child) punching Admin's child. Knowing that this child's parents are friends with Admin - should I tell Admin about his child getting punched or should I just say nothing at all?[/COLOR]

As a mother of three skinkids this is how I would handle the above mentioned situation.....

Assuming that the kids were only punching and not using guns and/or knives I would quickly and quietly find Admin and tell him about the situation and then butt out. It is his house, his party and his kid. I would feel obligated to first insure that none of the kids were being injured and then tell Admin -- anything else I did would be overstepping my bounds as a guest. If I didn't like how Admin handled the situation, I would make the decision to leave and not attend any more of his parties.

[Nancy1999]

Originally Posted by cj125

Wow - did someone put something in the water? This is UNBELIEVABLE!!!

Has the line between right and wrong been blurred so badly that no one can see it anymore?

How do so many people twist what they read into something it's not?

Yes, this is Admin's house.

Yes, Ann is doing a thankless job for free.

I sincerely appreciate the time that both put into this site but I didn't know that I was suppose to say that every time I post. Sorry, I'm not into brown nosing/a$$ kissing to elevate my standing somewhere. I will acknowledge a job well done and I give compliments when I should but they are genuine and not because the rest of the crowd is doing it!

This did not start off as criticism as some of you have stated. We were asking for clarification on some rules. Stop twisting things around.

Ok, so let's say I went to a party at Admin's house. Say he had a couple of small children. I'm standing outside minding my own business when I notice a child (Admin's friend's child) punching Admin's child. Knowing that this child's parents are friends with Admin - should I tell Admin about his child getting punched or should I just say nothing at all?

Then, let's say I do tell Admin what happened and he says "oh, that's ok my kid needs to learn how to defend himself". I understand - not everyone parents the same and he's busy entertaining.

But after watching this other child continue to harass, punch and belittle his child all afternoon --- do you really think I should stay quiet? Sorry - that's not how I roll. You better believe that I would walk over to that child (the bully) and tell him "that's enough"!

Unfortunately, that's what I see what's happening here.

I don't feel like I disrespected Ann or Admin - if I did - I am genuinely sorry because that was NOT my intention. But just like I would go up to Admin at his party and ask why are you letting this happen - I'm asking the same thing here.

This is sad...

I asked you why you posted this:

Originally Posted by cj125

I can't believe this hasn't been deleted yet.

in reponse to this:

Originally Posted by BaxtersMommy

Exactly. In my opinion the harassing emails and nastiness in pm's and emails is ENOUGH for these people to be banned. People talk about the drama here, trying dealing with these idiots on a more personal level. Much more goes in to it, I have seen some nasty emails & if I were Ann or Admin I would not waste my time with these people. They deserve the boot!

I'm sincerely interested in why you think an opinion should be deleted? Is it because she used the word "idiot"? Seriously, I'm respectfully asking, and I'm trying to understand your point.

[simonandhallie]

SERIOUSLY PEOPLE???

This is not what I had in mind when I bumped this thread back up. Being a moderator is not an easy task....Ann has done ALL of the work for the past year while I've been sorting out my life and honestly, had I been here, it probably would have been ugly.

Moderators have full time jobs, deal with too many reported posts per day, and do not have the time to babysit immature, pathetic behavior 24-7.

As I've said for 5 years here....if you don't have anything constructive, helpful, decent or nice to say...ignore the post and walk away from your computer. If you choose to be ignorant, rude, hateful, judgmental then you have to deal with the consequences that are fully laid out in the YT Rules.

If you need to be mad about this take it out on me, not Ann, who is just trying to do the best she can. You can PM me about this if you have anything further to discuss.

[Ringo1]

Reads. Processes. Thanks the Administrators. Steps away.

[MistyLK13]

I dont come here often but decided to today because it's hot outside and I am bored.

Why not step away from your computers and hug your kids, bathe your dogs, give yourself a pedicure or do something nice for yourselves. Spend what little quality time most of us have and be productive in your life or in the lives of others instead of concerning yourselves with trivial Yorkie Talk drama? Being in the Biewer world and KNOWING all about pointless drama I can say that when you do distance yourself it makes your life a whole lot easier to live and a lot less stressful..Step away!!! Enjoy the day!!!! You will be happier for it!!!!

[chachi]

Originally Posted by cj125

Wow - did someone put something in the water? This is UNBELIEVABLE!!!

Has the line between right and wrong been blurred so badly that no one can see it anymore?

How do so many people twist what they read into something it's not?

Yes, this is Admin's house.

Yes, Ann is doing a thankless job for free.

I sincerely appreciate the time that both put into this site but I didn't know that I was suppose to say that every time I post. Sorry, I'm not into brown nosing/a$$ kissing to elevate my standing somewhere. I will acknowledge a job well done and I give compliments when I should but they are genuine and not because the rest of the crowd is doing it!

This did not start off as criticism as some of you have stated. We were asking for clarification on some rules. Stop twisting things around.

Ok, so let's say I went to a party at Admin's house. Say he had a couple of small children. I'm standing outside minding my own business when I notice a child (Admin's friend's child) punching Admin's child. Knowing that this child's parents are friends with Admin - should I tell Admin about his child getting punched or should I just say nothing at all?

Then, let's say I do tell Admin what happened and he says "oh, that's ok my kid needs to learn how to defend himself". I understand - not everyone parents the same and he's busy entertaining.

But after watching this other child continue to harass, punch and belittle his child all afternoon --- do you really think I should stay quiet? Sorry - that's not how I roll. You better believe that I would walk over to that child (the bully) and tell him "that's enough"!

Unfortunately, that's what I see what's happening here.

I don't feel like I disrespected Ann or Admin - if I did - I am genuinely sorry because that was NOT my intention. But just like I would go up to Admin at his party and ask why are you letting this happen - I'm asking the same thing here.

This is sad...

CJ I think your concerns are valid just like I think any member has a concern it should be considered a valid one. There are some underlining things going on elsewhere and Ann is not only taking scuff here but there too where some untrue things are being written about her. I really think that is the reason people are letting her know she is appreciated for all she does. If we have concerns about the way the forum is run it seems like it would be better said in a pm rather than on a forum where people pick and choose sidesand it just adds to the drama

[admin]

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[Mardelin]

Originally Posted by chachi

CJ I think your concerns are valid just like I think any member has a concern it should be considered a valid one. There are some underlining things going on elsewhere and Ann is not only taking scuff here but there too where some untrue things are being written about her. I really think that is the reason people are letting her know she is appreciated for all she does. If we have concerns about the way the forum is run it seems like it would be better said in a pm rather than on a forum where people pick and choose sidesand it just adds to the drama

Good points.

The reason behind the OP post to give people insight as to why and how decisions are made by Admin and Mods. I don't think it was written to obtain opinions on how the forum should be run by them, or to vent one's frustrations. Maybe the OP should be a Sticky.

[Jenny Conine]

Every has an opinion and I would not want to be the person who makes the decisions on what stays and whats deleted. That's a hard job. Great work

[QuickSilver]

Okay, this is going to be my last post on this thread.

First, I do apologize to the powers that be if my posts came off as overly critical. I have never thought that any of the moderators here do a "bad" job. I'm on other boards where it is NOT permitted to question/complain about decisions at all, and doing so is grounds for suspension. And I think it's a reasonable enough rule, because the mods have decided how they run their board, and they don't want any feedback.

YT has a more open feel, since we are allowed to make suggestions, complain, etc. My feeling is that I've been on here for a while, and just as a really good friend will tell you YES, those pants do make your butt look big, I want to be honest and say that it seems to me that some people post in a way that is in direct opposition to the YT rules, and there appear to be no consequences for them. I think that these posts drag down the tone of YT, and it can lead to a perception - maybe not the reality, but the perception - of favoritism. That's all.

Again, this does not mean that the mods Should Be Doing a Better Job. I am requesting a slightly different philosophy in moderation.

I think I've made this point several times now, so I'll stop making it, as it seems now we are going in circles. That's all. Have a great day, everyone.


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[Cooper2010]

I am a "newbie" myself. I appreciate the diversity here and I have learned very much about the breed. I recently had a post deleted for asking a question. I have no idea why it was deleted, but the "shades of gray" is what leaves someone like me asking, "what did I do wrong?"

I recently read a thread that was bumped after several months and the person asking the question was treated badly imo. Just for asking a question??

I really enjoy reading things here, and if I do choose to reply to a topic, having your post deleted without explanation is a little offensive. ( at least let me know what I did wrong so as not to make the same mistake twice). I do try to abide by the rules and post with consideration to the others.

Moderating can't be an easy job and I appreciate them.

[kalina82]

Originally Posted by simonandhallie

SERIOUSLY PEOPLE???

This is not what I had in mind when I bumped this thread back up. Being a moderator is not an easy task....Ann has done ALL of the work for the past year while I've been sorting out my life and honestly, had I been here, it probably would have been ugly.

Moderators have full time jobs, deal with too many reported posts per day, and do not have the time to babysit immature, pathetic behavior 24-7.

As I've said for 5 years here....if you don't have anything constructive, helpful, decent or nice to say...ignore the post and walk away from your computer. If you choose to be ignorant, rude, hateful, judgmental then you have to deal with the consequences that are fully laid out in the YT Rules.

If you need to be mad about this take it out on me, not Ann, who is just trying to do the best she can. You can PM me about this if you have anything further to discuss.

god i missed you Kim.

[Cooper2010]

Originally Posted by kalina82

god i missed you Kim.

Wow, I guess I fall into the ignorant category then.

[jencar98]

Originally Posted by Cooper2010

Wow, I guess I fall into the ignorant category then.

Now why on earth would you think that, I don't understand?