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Originally Posted by cj125  Wow - did someone put something in the water? This is UNBELIEVABLE!!!
Has the line between right and wrong been blurred so badly that no one can see it anymore?
How do so many people twist what they read into something it's not?
Yes, this is Admin's house.
Yes, Ann is doing a thankless job for free.
I sincerely appreciate the time that both put into this site but I didn't know that I was suppose to say that every time I post. Sorry, I'm not into brown nosing/a$$ kissing to elevate my standing somewhere. I will acknowledge a job well done and I give compliments when I should but they are genuine and not because the rest of the crowd is doing it!
This did not start off as criticism as some of you have stated. We were asking for clarification on some rules. Stop twisting things around.
Ok, so let's say I went to a party at Admin's house. Say he had a couple of small children. I'm standing outside minding my own business when I notice a child (Admin's friend's child) punching Admin's child. Knowing that this child's parents are friends with Admin - should I tell Admin about his child getting punched or should I just say nothing at all?
Then, let's say I do tell Admin what happened and he says "oh, that's ok my kid needs to learn how to defend himself". I understand - not everyone parents the same and he's busy entertaining.
But after watching this other child continue to harass, punch and belittle his child all afternoon --- do you really think I should stay quiet? Sorry - that's not how I roll. You better believe that I would walk over to that child (the bully) and tell him "that's enough"!
Unfortunately, that's what I see what's happening here.
I don't feel like I disrespected Ann or Admin - if I did - I am genuinely sorry because that was NOT my intention. But just like I would go up to Admin at his party and ask why are you letting this happen - I'm asking the same thing here.
This is sad... |
CJ I think your concerns are valid just like I think any member has a concern it should be considered a valid one. There are some underlining things going on elsewhere and Ann is not only taking scuff here but there too where some untrue things are being written about her. I really think that is the reason people are letting her know she is appreciated for all she does. If we have concerns about the way the forum is run it seems like it would be better said in a pm rather than on a forum where people pick and choose sidesand it just adds to the drama