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06-15-2009, 12:25 PM | #1 |
Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Chicago
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| Can't stop crying... I know many people wouldn't understand how I feel, but if anyone does, it is you guys. We were planning on getting our puppy at the end of May, and then the date kept getting pushed back...we were supposed to get it last Monday, and then the breeder said she wanted to keep them another week, so that would be today or tomorrow. Well, I called today, and they said - "maybe, Friday". I am so sad . My husband has cancer (doing better), and we are unable to have children (or adopt due to medical issues), so we are so excited about our Dakota. It just breaks my heart, and I can't stop crying. Why can't I get any joy in my life? My SIL just had a baby last week, and I can't even look at the pictures...I see my in-laws so happy and joyful, and to know that my husband and I can't give them grandchildren, hurts so bad. Please pray that we get our puppy soon - I am just so down right now... Thanks for letting me vent - |
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06-15-2009, 12:27 PM | #2 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member | I am so sorry to hear about your husband. Why does the date for the pup keep getting pushed back?
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06-15-2009, 12:29 PM | #3 |
Luving my babies Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Over the rainbow
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| Awww, I am sorry to hear you are sad. Did the breeder say why she won't let the puppy come today? Sending prayers and hugs your way. Do keep us posted and post pictures when Dakota arrives!!
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06-15-2009, 12:36 PM | #4 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Great Bend, Kansas 67530
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| Hugs and prayers that you get your puppy soon! It sounds like you are dealing with a lot. I am sure it is so frustrating!! Keep us updated!
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06-15-2009, 12:39 PM | #5 |
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| i will pray for you so sorry you are going through so much why does the date keep getting pushed back? |
06-15-2009, 12:47 PM | #6 |
Donating YT 30K Club Member | I am sorry you are having to deal with no much sadness. I can see where Dakota's arival would certainly give you both a much needed dose of happiness. I would ask the breeder for a firm date unless there is a medical reason. I will keep you both in my prayers.
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06-15-2009, 12:53 PM | #7 |
Living My Yorkie Dream Donating Member | I am so sorry you are feeling so sad, and feel free to vent away. Everyone here understands the anticipation you have been feeling about the day your fur-baby arrives and also how hard it is when you have to wait even one minute longer than expected. Do you know your breeder? Has she given reasons why she is delaying the day your baby can come home to you? I'll say a prayer for you that this Friday will be THE day for sure. Hugs & good luck!
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06-15-2009, 12:54 PM | #8 |
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| Glad your hubby is doing better, see that is a happy thing. I would look into this breeder, have you actually seen the puppies? I pray she is not trying to scam you out of $$. Perhaps if you post who she is, someone here may know something about her. If she legite, and is holding the babies because they are too young, then that may be a good thing. They should be 10 weeks + before they leave their mommy. I wish you happy days ahead ...
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06-15-2009, 09:47 PM | #9 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: May 2009 Location: romulus michigan
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| you and your husband our in my prayers. i know how you feel about your sil s baby .i had a baby die at birth and then my sil had her baby 4 weeks later. it killed me. i had a hard time at the inlaws watching them coo over the baby. i had other children though so that did help. i think getting this pup is great they are just like a baby and you will love her as such. god works in diff. ways and will fill your void. im very happy to hear your husband is doing better. i am a nurse if you have any private questions or need anything you can go to my profile. keep us posted about your puppy and why breeder is making you wait. |
06-15-2009, 09:52 PM | #10 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Central Pennsylvania
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| Sounds like you have had your fair share of "crap". I am also curious as to why the date has been put of time after time... this is the sort of thing that would worry me about the puppy you are getting. I pray that friday will be the day and that you are getting a healthy baby to enjoy raising! Vent away ~ we are here to listen!
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06-16-2009, 01:55 AM | #11 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: NY USA
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| So sorry about your husband I hope he is feeling better. But as everyone has said, why the big wait? Your new puppy will come maybe not this one, but one soon. You just need to have faith.
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06-16-2009, 07:43 AM | #12 | |
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Keep us updated when you get him/her.
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06-16-2009, 08:08 AM | #13 | |
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Best wishes to your husband for continued improvement. I know this has to make the wait all the more difficult for you both. Hoping your new puppy brings lots of joy to you both SOON!
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06-16-2009, 08:24 AM | #14 |
Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Chicago
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| First of all, thanks so much for your kind words...it helps that there are people out there who understand how hard it is! The first delay was because the breeder didn't feel like the pups were ready to leave, and the second delay was because the person going to get the pups had a situation arise. We can't travel the distance to get the puppy due to my husband's blood clots, and we don't feel comfortable paying to have the puppy shipped. I will keep you all posted - I should be finding out more details later today. Please continue to pray that Friday is the day...thanks! |
06-16-2009, 08:48 AM | #15 | |
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I understand , and feel badly . The waiting is the most difficult part! If I lived close to you, I'd love to be the one to be bringing you home your puppy! Heck, I'd bring you a whole litter of them Or just your baby and a huge boquet of roses . Hang in there , Soon you will have your new puppy in your arms to love forever.
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