Lost my yorkie

[bmendoza9]

Thank you. Its nice to know others have felt the same way. Not being a dog or yorkie owner, its hard to understand the pain.
Appreciate your warm sentiments.

[bmendoza9]

Thank you. I am leaving the door open. I want to wait until her 1st birthday and have a birthday celebration party for her with friends in her memory. After that I will see what is open for me. After hearing from so many wonderful, caring yorkie owners, I feel better just leaving the door open.
What a nice site!

[bmendoza9]

Your babies are adorable. I appreciate your kind words. It is 3:30am CST and I have to be up at 7:00am. It was the first time since Bella died that I felt her prescence. She actually woke me up out of bed. I genuinely felt rustling of the covers and a running around all over the bed like she used to. I know this must sound weird to some but I was awakened from bed because it was so strong. I feel the love of all the people on the site has brought her spirit back. She must be enjoying hearing about all the yorkies out there!

[bmendoza9]

Thank you!

[bmendoza9]

Originally Posted by TeddyandTiffy

I'm sorry for U're loss and I haven't been through this either. I'd say follow U're heart, it will not lead U wrong. If U feel U're ready for another baby then find U a new baby, of course a new baby will not replace U're Bella but this may also help U to heal. I don't know. I wish U the best in what ever U choose to do. Hugs

Thank you for your nice words...

[bmendoza9]

Originally Posted by Judy in Waco

I just want to welcome you to YT. I am so very sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine.

Thank you. Your babies are darling. I dressed up Bella too. She mostly wore pink and loved the attention she got.

[bmendoza9]

Originally Posted by Patti

I am so sorry for your loss of your beloved baby. I lost Dixie in January from congenital kidney failure and the breeder gave me Roxie 2 weeks later. At first I didn't think I was ready but in no time she was snuggling and so playful it helped ease my heartbreak a tiny bit. If you feel ready, then it is the right time. I have lost my babies before and once waited one week and then I knew I needed to love another and got another one.

That must have been painful to lose your yorkie to an illness. Glad you found another one to love. The pain of something unexpected is unique as well. Bella and I were having a normal day, she was healthy and happy, and the next moment she was gone. Everything happened within about 30 minutes. She had her pink polka-dotted dress and pink bow in her hair when she was hit. It took me a week to believe she was gone. I then kept wishing and praying I could have the day to do over. It was the most painful emotional experience I have ever had.

[bmendoza9]

Originally Posted by bchgirl

I am so sorry. I've lost one at a young age myself. It's heartbreaking and so unexpected.

Some time you may decide to get another...it does help heal your heart. Not a replacement...just another to love.

Take care...

When they are young you expect many years to go by before having to face death. On the day she died, I had planned for Bella to get groomed the next day to be in a fashion show. A local dog shop loved her and wanted her to be in it. We were then going to the humane society's local fundraiser after that. I had to call all these people the next day to cancel everything and I could hardly talk as I was inconsolable. Everyone was so nice and concerned. Many felt my pain and were in tears themselves. My parents who were not dog lovers before her, cried. I know time will heal.
Thank you.

[xiju]

Belinda, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I have been there as well. I had to put down my 6 1/2 month old puppy, Merlin, due to a birth defect in his neck that nobody knew he had, until he stepped out of his little bed and his front legs became paralyzed. Even though I had his littermate, MacTavish, my heart was broken. One month later I got a baby girl, Madeline. Although no pup could ever replace Merlin, she did help to mend the huge hole in my heart.

Linda

[ladyj]

Originally Posted by bmendoza9

Hello All:
I am new to this forum. I lost the love of my life two months ago, Bellaluna. She was an 8 month old beautiful girl yorkie. She was startled by a loud noise and jumped out of her bag, ran across the street and was hit by a car. I have been devastated. I have all her pretty clothes, toys, etc. I still have not buried her ashes as its been too difficult. She brought me so much joy. She went everywhere with me. I am self-employed so she was my constant companion. I was going to wait awhile before getting a new puppy to love. I wanted to honor Bella in that way. I feel I know yorkies pretty well as I had researched, studied, talked to people, before getting Bella. I had not trouble potty training her, she was calm, playful, and well-behaved. This is why yorkies are my favorite and I would like to have one again. Everyone loved her. Is it anyone's opinion that it is too early to get another one this year? Nothing will ever replace my little Bella and she will always be in my heart. I come home everyday, live alone, and my home is empty without her energy. I can't listen to music as it makes me cry. I wonder if anyone out there has been through a loss like this. Don't want to depress anyone, just asking.
Heart-broken yorkie owner who is healing,
Belinda

I am so sorry for your loss. Bellaluna will always be in your heart and you can't replace her, but another puppy would give you companionship and you can honor Bellaluna by being a good mom to another little Yorkie. I would get another one now and fill your empty house with love and activity. Keeping busy is very healing and another little one would help your heart heal. God bless.

[red98vett]

I'm so sorry for your loss !! That's such a tragedy

[Yorkie Luv of 3]

I'm so sorry for your loss,, how very sad. I'm sure YOU will know when the time is right for YOU. Be it today or next month or next year, I'll bet your new Yorkie will find you!

[YankeeBernie]

I have Bernie not even a month and I can't believe how attached and in love I've become with him so I feel such sorrow reading about your loss. In times like these I try to remember what I believe to be a core tenet of faith itself - that loses are only temporary - that our movement through time and space only briefly separate us from the souls we love - and only then because of the increasingly enriching experiences meant for us to have. Until you meet again, you'll have wonderful memories that only the two of you share. You'll also know when the time is right to let yourself enrich another little puppy's life with your love. Thank you for sharing your little Bella with us.

[KatiesMommy]

So Sorry to hear of your loss But when the time is right you will know and then you can look for a new Baby to love ~ it does take time for the heart to heel Im sure you will be fine in time Hugs Kathy

[Misti1]

Originally Posted by bmendoza9

Hello All:
I am new to this forum. I lost the love of my life two months ago, Bellaluna. She was an 8 month old beautiful girl yorkie. She was startled by a loud noise and jumped out of her bag, ran across the street and was hit by a car. I have been devastated. I have all her pretty clothes, toys, etc. I still have not buried her ashes as its been too difficult. She brought me so much joy. She went everywhere with me. I am self-employed so she was my constant companion. I was going to wait awhile before getting a new puppy to love. I wanted to honor Bella in that way. I feel I know yorkies pretty well as I had researched, studied, talked to people, before getting Bella. I had not trouble potty training her, she was calm, playful, and well-behaved. This is why yorkies are my favorite and I would like to have one again. Everyone loved her. Is it anyone's opinion that it is too early to get another one this year? Nothing will ever replace my little Bella and she will always be in my heart. I come home everyday, live alone, and my home is empty without her energy. I can't listen to music as it makes me cry. I wonder if anyone out there has been through a loss like this. Don't want to depress anyone, just asking.
Heart-broken yorkie owner who is healing,
Belinda

Oh baby....how AWFUL for you...that must have been just AWFUL!!!!

I think you should get another baby. Your setup is PERFECT for a Yorkie as you can take it to work with you and be with it all the time. I have had 4 in my lifetime and that was not your fault. Each one is sooooooooo different and has a personality all it's own..so you will NOT be replacing Bella, you will have a whole new little person to make you happy. GET ONE.