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Action Jackson ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Maryland
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![]() I think WAY too many people are on prescription drugs. Yes, some people DO need them but the fact that so many American's on are on anti-depressants is really quite sad. There's sooo many people abusing them and it makes the people who really need them look bad. We can never seem to find our own happiness and everyone always depends on something/someone else to make them happy, but deep down, YOU can only make yourself happy. And believe me, I've had plenty of experience with anti-depressants/anti-anxiety medicine. A lot of family are on them. I 100% understand the feeling of just being completely lost and depressed in your life. It's the worst feeling in the whole entire world. I lost my 5 year old brother to a drowning incident in 2006 and an entire year of my life was lost during the grieving process of my little buddy. We've been through the terrible lawsuits where we had to hear every last detail of his dying minutes and how much he suffered, and sit through an 8 day trial watching a douche bag defensve attorney make my mother and stepfather cry, talk down to them, and talk as if my little brother were an object and not a human being. I still deal with it every day. I never once took any drug (prescription) even though offered to me and I'm now doing better than ANY one in my family, 3 years later. My mom is still slowly weening off of Xanax, as is my aunt, my step-dad continues to take sleeping pills every night, etc. I prefer to face my problems on my own. But yes, I completely understand in certain times, they are necessary. Losing a child is the worst thing you can go through in your life so I don't judge my parents for it. I see "ADHD" kids who were thrown on Ridialin at the tender age of 8 because they're "ADD".... no, they're EIGHT years old! EVERY single person I knew who took those ADD pills growing up in elem, middle and high school are ALL wacked in the brain. I knew about 8 people who took that medication. Some are suicidal, some are loners, some just got into bigger drugs, some played into the whole ADD thing and used it as an excuse, or thought they were dumb or stupid. I'm totally going OFF topic and on a tanget. But drugs in general just irk me. Yes, sometimes they're absolutely necessary but only to a certain extent. I don't like so many living things depending on drugs to get through their every day life and don't think dogs should have to, either. OK, making my post a little back ON topic.... I don't think there's anything wrong with taking advantage of the medical veternarian field for animals. Hey, we've got it, so let's use it, right? Cesar even had an episode where he used accupuncture to calm a dog... but I'm sure someone will come in and say he was being abusive because OMGGzz he stuck needles in the dog! I don't think it's wrong per say to give a dog drugs, but I definitely think the issues should be addressed VERY clearly and evaluated very thoroughly beforehand.
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Action Jackson ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Maryland
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I find it way more instinctual than anything else. Jackson just GETS me. He will not walk out of the door before/ahead of me, I've never alpha rolled him, I've never poked him to get him to do that, I just use my energy to show him what I want. He does not walk in front of me on a leash, not because I give violent jerks or pulls or shoves or kicks or whatever else people claim Cesar does, I simply am calm, redirect him in the right direction, and he walks right beside me, proud as can be. And honestly, it sounds cheesy, but I do feel proud walking Jackson too so I know he can sense my energy. I walk with my shoulders up usually, dog walking right beside me, and it does feel GOOD, to know we've all got this under control. If we walk past a fence with two barking crazy dogs, he does not bark back, may get a bit excited for a minute, but he continues walking right beside me no problems. When I take him for a walk with my dad's two dogs, they definitely walk like a PACK. They enjoy being close together while walking... if Jackson is too far ahead, he waits up for the other two. However, the Jack Russell who I consider the dominant one of the bunch, is ALWAYS aiming to get in the lead and be in front. She pulls sooo hard on that leash. My stepmom has been working with her but she surely rules the roost. Jackson turns into a different dog around her energy! It's amazing, really. I just 100% believe that dogs are pack animals. Yes, a lot of people can only own one dog (I myself only have Jackson but up until last week, he lived with at least one other dog 100% of the time) but that dog still has YOU. You two form a pack, form a bond, it's just what happens. If you think your dog would rather go live alone, I think that's totally wrong and untrue. They thrive off of the pack and they help each other. Other dogs have taught Jackson so many things (good & bad, LOL) and I can't imagine what I'd do without Jackson having canine friends.
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Thor's Human Donating Member | ![]() I feel like we are going really far afield here, and methods for training dogs are getting compared to entire value systems and commentary about modern life, which I don't know how to address. The only reason I brought up the meds thing was as an example of VS continuing to use new discoveries to help dogs. It at most tangentially related to whether Ritalin is over-prescribed. I feel like there's this undercurrent of "progress is bad" or "people are too soft" which somehow means that all research done in the past 50 years on animal behavior is meaningless, and there's no point in trying to learn anything more than we already know.
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Our dogs did anything and everything my dad asked them to do. and he never abused them and if he scolded them he always made sure to make up with them before walking away. He also trained horses, back when people actually used horses to work. He also raised 6 kids and yes we were spanked, and we too would have done anything that our dad asked of us. Well except for those awful teen age years. if you watch Cesar and then watch Super Nanny, their way of thinking is not so different. In both cases the dogs/children are out of control because the adult humans failed to provide clear leadership. it's as simple as that. once they instruct the parents on how to take back control, the dogs/children change their behavior. As the old addage goes, don't keep repeating the same act and expect different results. In order for the situation or relationship to change, you first have to change yourself. That is Cesar's magic secret. | |
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Thor's Human Donating Member | ![]() JeanieK, I guess I would compare how I feel about training with what you are doing with Partis. What if someone said to you, "yorkies don't need improvement, why fix what's not broken?" Actually, I'm sure many people HAVE said that to you. ![]()
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I get that people can present their ideas in a very rigid way, and that makes other people respond rigidly.
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I have never worked with an aggresive dog, I aimagine in doing so all sorts of things can happen. You cannot isolate a dog agressive dog and claim his behavior has been corrected if he has not be brought before another dog. Extreme cases take extreme measures. I have asked what others would have done in the same scenerio. I never got an answer, except thqat he should not have put the dog in that circumstance. I do not know what your methods are or how many agressive dogs you have rehabilitated, or seen you work. I have seen Cesar work and seen his successes and know that his theory has worked for me, and I'm guessing that he hs handled one or two more red zone cases than you have. You are probably very good at what you do, but so is Cesar, and I will never believe that he abuses dogs. And if his shows are edited and cut and all mishaps end up on the editing room floor as yorkiemother indicated, why was the episode with the huskey aired on NGC. But I do not believe in drugging dogs or children to alter their state of mind. Anyone can calm a drugged dog. I believe that wearing them out with exercise makes much more sense. | |
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![]() ![]() I've often thought of raising children, and I guess this would also apply to dogs, like going to another planet where you don't know the rules and you get a guide that allows you to do anything you want, never tells you that you are doing anything wrong, then after 18 years, you are told that you have to be on your own now, and suddenly you have no idea of what is expected of you, everytime you do something it is wrong and you are always getting into trouble. Or would you rather have a guide that explained things to you and made you do the right things and made sure that you were equipped to make it on your own. Which guide would you rather have? Well the same is true for children. | |
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Thor's Human Donating Member | ![]() Okay, then, I feel that I have expressed my opinions on this, but I'm happy to repeat myself. In my non-expert opinion, I don't think Cesar has handled all that many truly extreme, aggressive cases. Lots of his training is fine. However, he often acts in a provocative way towards dogs, and then uses their reactions to prove his original contention. In several episodes in early seasons, I saw dogs make moves as if to bite him (always accompanied by ominous music). If those dogs had really been aggressive, they wouldn't have been posturing. Cesar was actually lucky that those dogs were much less aggressive than he claimed. I'm not even sure it's all Cesar -- I think the format of the show likes to emphasize the scariness of the dogs Cesar is working with and how they are THIS CLOSE to being put to sleep. As I have also said, most of the owners Cesar works with are c-l-u-e-less. They know absolutely nothing about dogs, most have never taken their problem dogs to a class or a trainer. Who here on YT would complain about their horrifically aggressive yorkie, make no effort to train it, and then decide it should be PTS because it was such a problem? I mentioned a show where a dog rolled on its back in an effort to pacify Cesar and the owners thought the dog was taking a nap! It is true I have much less experience with dogs than Cesar, and I would not be able to get the kind of results he does - not even close. Maybe in ten years. At the same time, you don't seem to give any weight to people who have studied dogs for years if their opinions don't mesh with your own, so I'm not sure why I should be held to a different standard.
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Thor's Human Donating Member | ![]() Okay, at this point I think I have (finally) said all I can say, and I'm going to try to keep my mouth shut. I'm going to try to read all the links posted in this thread, and also watch the Cesar eppy on the Akita.
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Phantom Queen Morrigan Donating Member | ![]() i've been gone all weekend and finally finished reading through all the debating that has been going on. i would like to go back to the main topic and not the little off shoots. I do have to say that i agree that Cesar does not abuse dogs. I just watched that video with the husky and i thought he did a great job. I've worked with dogs like that husky and what he did with the leash is exactly what i would have done as well. if he held that leash any other way that dog would have been all over him. that dog was jumping up at him and biting, if Cesar didn't shorten the leash and hold it as far away from him as possible and with out much room for the husky to move that dog would have gone for his face. Huskies are very snappy dogs. They bite without warning or reason sometimes. their jaws are quick and when they get you, they get you quick and usually multiple times. Some will say that if he didn't tap the dog to refocus his attention that the dog would never have turned on him. if it wasn't going to be that tap that turned him, it would have been something else. I watched the video first with the sound off. I saw him stare and posture towards that other dog. Cesar tapped him to get his attention off the other dog...he didn't kick the husky. I also did not see the dog being jerked into the air. the dog was lunging up into the air. when the dog's four feet were on the ground the leash was taught but not suffocating. When you have a dog on a leash that is trying to jump and bite at you, what would you do with the leash? hold it loosely at your side or would you tighten up on it and hold it as far up and away from you as possible? He was not struggling for air, he was out of breath from the struggle. he was not blue from lack of air, i've seen dogs lose color from lack of oxygen. he took 2 or 3 large breaths and recovered quickly. Immediately when cesar had him on the ground he loosened the leash on his neck and probably would have liked to do sooner but the dog was too busy trying to bite him. Nor did he lose control of his bladder... it appears that it just rained because everything was damp. I don't agree with what that vet wrote at all.
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