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SJK1113 · 07-13-2007, 12:13 PM

Unfortunately, I don't feel comfortable posting updates on Lily anymore. I KNOW that this person is just being cruel and heartless, but I just can't do it. It's hard enough to watch little Lily struggle with her bad days, but to have to hear such cruel comments about her just breaks my heart. And, as for the comments about Jake.....all I can say is I don't care what this person thinks. I love Jake and Lily like they are my own children, and I happen to think they are both beautiful. Jake is an extremely healthy, happy yorkie and the most well behaved and intelligent little dog I have ever had the pleasure of owning. And, he's allllllll yorkie, through and through. So, the things they said about Jake are just silly.

I know that I shouldn't let this person bother me. But, how can I feel comfortable posting about Lily when I know this person can see everything I say? That just makes me very uncomfortable. That's the last thing I need right now, and I just refuse to let someone make fun of a sick defense little puppy. It's not her fault she's sick!!! It's no one's fault, but she deserves a chance and does not deserve to be called cruel names. I just will not have it.

I feel that leaving is the best for me because right now, I am having a very tough time just getting through one day at a time with Lily. It's hard, it is sometimes heartbreaking, but she is so worth it because on her good days, she plays and seems happy. For someone to say the things they.......well, I just have no words to describe what I feel about that, but this person obviously needs some serious help to pick on a sick puppy.

I thank everyone who has supported me through all this from the bottom of my heart. I appreciate the prayers and the kind words you have all said. You are all wonderful people, thank you.

TLC · 07-13-2007, 12:20 PM

Completely understandable, and such a shame it has come to this.

I sent you a PM. There I have posted another wonderful small group, at this group there is no bashing or rudeness at all to ever take place. It is a small group and I know for a fact there are a handful of precious babies that have the same condition as Lily, the format to the group is a little different than YT, but I hope that you join, b/c you WILL only get POSITIVE support and advice from other Mommas going through the same thing as you.

God Bless You

...and please check you PM from me

YorkieRose · 07-13-2007, 12:22 PM

Where are these cruel posts..and shame on anyone for posting them...?
I am very sorry to hear about your little girl...I wish her well. Your vet has told you how painful a hydrocephalic conditon can be for a Yorkie? Best wishes

CO_yorkie_momma · 07-13-2007, 01:08 PM

I didnt see the cruel posts either but you cant let some jerk trying to pull your chain upset you and make you quit coming here for advice and support. That person, whoever it was, is not part of this community so dont let them bother you for one second. What you are doing for Lily is wonderful and she is in your life because God knew you were the perfect person to take care of her so hang in there and dont let all of the other nonesense interfere with what you are doing.

SJK1113 · 07-13-2007, 01:17 PM

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Originally Posted by YorkieRose

Where are these cruel posts..and shame on anyone for posting them...?
I am very sorry to hear about your little girl...I wish her well. Your vet has told you how painful a hydrocephalic conditon can be for a Yorkie? Best wishes

There weren't any posts, this was in a PM. I posted last night about it, but my post was removed so I really don't know how much I can say about it. This thread will probably be removed too.

TLC · 07-13-2007, 01:22 PM

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Originally Posted by SJK1113

There weren't any posts, this was in a PM. I posted last night about it, but my post was removed so I really don't know how much I can say about it. This thread will probably be removed too.

I don't think this thread will be removed.

I honestly think the reason why your other thread was removed was b/c it was titled: I'm leaving YT

I do recall reading in a sticky, that posts titled like that are not allowed and that's why it was removed.

I don't think it was b/c the quotes you posted from your PM about what was said to you.

And that's up to you if you want to post those quotes again...

Willow · 07-13-2007, 01:22 PM

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Originally Posted by SJK1113

There weren't any posts, this was in a PM. I posted last night about it, but my post was removed so I really don't know how much I can say about it. This thread will probably be removed too.

I don't think they will delete this thread. It was probably because the title of the other thread. I think I read once before that admin doesn't allow threads like that. I dunno.

But we don't want you to leave. We know you are a wonderful mom to Lily. And I know that we will ALL miss her pictures and your posts about her, but we all also understand that you have to do what you feel is best to protect your babies.

I am so appalled that anyone could be so cruel to another person. Or that they would be so cruel to a young pup who has proven over and over that she is a fighter.

You are a wonderful mommy, and I had even mentioned to the person who introduced us that it sure is going to be hard to find another yorkie mom that even compares to you. You put so much care and consideration into your babies that I don't see how anyone could possibly find fault.

red98vett · 07-13-2007, 01:31 PM

Selina...I saw your post and it made me SICK to think that someone would be that vicious and that's the only word I can describe it as. Vicious.

I'm appalled at how some people take joy in trying to ruin others lives.

I thought I had seen it all in my years online.... but that person sunk to a new low.

You have no reason to leave ....they must know what a lowlife they are because they didn't have the GUTS to use their real name. I hope you change your mind as I was really hoping to watch that baby grow up.

You have everyones support and whatever happens will happen for a reason but YOU did an awesome thing giving her a loving home. NO ONE CAN TAKE THAT FROM YOU.

Hugs.

drawlins27 · 07-13-2007, 01:33 PM

I missed the thread that was deleted but all I can say is that this same person should send me a nasty PM too! As you know, my Lily has hydrocephalus and MVD. Every day I get with her is a joy and I wouldn't trade it for anything!

I've sent you a PM as well. I would love it if you could e-mail me updates on Lily, I think about her everyday. Look at everyone you have on here that is concerned about both you and Lily. This person is obviously in the minority about his feelings.

Willow · 07-13-2007, 01:50 PM

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Originally Posted by drawlins27

I missed the thread that was deleted but all I can say is that this same person should send me a nasty PM too! As you know, my Lily has hydrocephalus and MVD. Every day I get with her is a joy and I wouldn't trade it for anything!

I've sent you a PM as well. I would love it if you could e-mail me updates on Lily, I think about her everyday. Look at everyone you have on here that is concerned about both you and Lily. This person is obviously in the minority about his feelings.

They should send me one too because I am the owner of Lily's MOM and I am the one she got Lily from and if they want to take me on then BRING IT because I am beyond pissed here!

I want to know if they would be so heartless and cruel as to tell my mother that she should have left my sister to die because she had hydrocephalus and had to have a shunt put in...Albeit she is human but why shouldn't we give the same care to our furkids as we do humans????!!!

TLC · 07-13-2007, 03:32 PM

...ladies...

SJK1113 · 07-13-2007, 04:52 PM

This is a very hard post for me. Lily started to have seizures late this evening, and she passed away. It all happened so fast. The seizures were just too much for her tiny little body. My husband came home from work in the middle of everything, and when he was holding her to comfort her, she passed away quietly in his arms. She went peacefully, she just went to sleep. I have been sitting here holding her and crying. I still have not put her down. She's wrapped in her little pink blanket, and I just can't let her go yet.

I pulled myself together enough to call her breeder. I wanted to tell her myself rather than have her read it here. I am so upset, my husband is upset. I feel like I failed her. I keep trying to think what else I should have been doing. One thing I can say for sure is that she KNOWS she was very loved. She had alot of people pulling for her, and I thank everyone so much for their kind words and support.

To the person who felt the need to PM me with the cruel comments about my sweet baby girl, I hope you are happy now. As much as I want to hate you for the things you said, I hope you never have to go through this. And, you picked the worst day to do it, you did it on the day my baby died. This is absolutely one of the hardest things I have ever gone through. I love Lily so much. I want her back so bad. I don't know what I will do without her because I'm so used to holding her and caring for her and loving her. I feel so lucky that I could love her for the short time I've had her. I just wish I could have had a longer time with her. It's just not fair.

Thank you again to all the wonderful people who have supported me. I appreciate it. I hope that right now, Lily is playing and is happy and healthy on Rainbow Bridge. I hope she will know how much I will always miss her, how much I love her and how much my husband and I will miss her.

Willow, thank you for letting me be a part of Lily's life. I'm so sorry that this has happened. I don't know what else to say except I'm so sorry that my sweet baby is gone.

Txgurl06 · 07-13-2007, 04:58 PM

oh my gosh im soooo sorry!

Betty'sMom · 07-13-2007, 04:58 PM

OMG, I am so so sad. I loved that precious little baby. I am so proud that you tried to save her. My heart melted when I looked at her. I thought about her every day since first seeing her. God bless you for caring. ((Hug))

Txgurl06 · 07-13-2007, 04:59 PM

i think im fixing to cry! Im sure you did everything you possibly could! did you have time to get her to the vet to see what he had to say?

07-13-2007, 12:20 PM	#47
TLC Slave to My Rug-Rats Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Long Island Posts: 7,247	Completely understandable, and such a shame it has come to this. I sent you a PM. There I have posted another wonderful small group, at this group there is no bashing or rudeness at all to ever take place. It is a small group and I know for a fact there are a handful of precious babies that have the same condition as Lily, the format to the group is a little different than YT, but I hope that you join, b/c you WILL only get POSITIVE support and advice from other Mommas going through the same thing as you. God Bless You ...and please check you PM from me __________________ Adopt Donate Foster www.yorkie911rescue.com

07-13-2007, 12:22 PM	#48
YorkieRose No Longer a Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: South Florida Posts: 8,577	posts Where are these cruel posts..and shame on anyone for posting them...? I am very sorry to hear about your little girl...I wish her well. Your vet has told you how painful a hydrocephalic conditon can be for a Yorkie? Best wishes

07-13-2007, 01:31 PM	#53
red98vett Yorkie Kisses are the Best! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Houston TX Posts: 33,590 Blog Entries: 1	Selina...I saw your post and it made me SICK to think that someone would be that vicious and that's the only word I can describe it as. Vicious. I'm appalled at how some people take joy in trying to ruin others lives. I thought I had seen it all in my years online.... but that person sunk to a new low. You have no reason to leave ....they must know what a lowlife they are because they didn't have the GUTS to use their real name. I hope you change your mind as I was really hoping to watch that baby grow up. You have everyones support and whatever happens will happen for a reason but YOU did an awesome thing giving her a loving home. NO ONE CAN TAKE THAT FROM YOU. Hugs. __________________ Villette, Chanel & Cheri www.DesignsByVillette.net Custom Address Labels and Note Cards using YOUR Photos! Just Click HERE!

07-13-2007, 01:33 PM	#54
drawlins27 Mommy's Lil' Miracle Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Mufreesboro, TN Posts: 1,028	I missed the thread that was deleted but all I can say is that this same person should send me a nasty PM too! As you know, my Lily has hydrocephalus and MVD. Every day I get with her is a joy and I wouldn't trade it for anything! I've sent you a PM as well. I would love it if you could e-mail me updates on Lily, I think about her everyday. Look at everyone you have on here that is concerned about both you and Lily. This person is obviously in the minority about his feelings. __________________ I LOVE my little Furbutts!

07-13-2007, 03:32 PM	#56
TLC Slave to My Rug-Rats Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Long Island Posts: 7,247	...ladies... __________________ Adopt Donate Foster www.yorkie911rescue.com

07-13-2007, 12:13 PM	#46
SJK1113 No Longer a Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: usa Posts: 2,150	Unfortunately, I don't feel comfortable posting updates on Lily anymore. I KNOW that this person is just being cruel and heartless, but I just can't do it. It's hard enough to watch little Lily struggle with her bad days, but to have to hear such cruel comments about her just breaks my heart. And, as for the comments about Jake.....all I can say is I don't care what this person thinks. I love Jake and Lily like they are my own children, and I happen to think they are both beautiful. Jake is an extremely healthy, happy yorkie and the most well behaved and intelligent little dog I have ever had the pleasure of owning. And, he's allllllll yorkie, through and through. So, the things they said about Jake are just silly. I know that I shouldn't let this person bother me. But, how can I feel comfortable posting about Lily when I know this person can see everything I say? That just makes me very uncomfortable. That's the last thing I need right now, and I just refuse to let someone make fun of a sick defense little puppy. It's not her fault she's sick!!! It's no one's fault, but she deserves a chance and does not deserve to be called cruel names. I just will not have it. I feel that leaving is the best for me because right now, I am having a very tough time just getting through one day at a time with Lily. It's hard, it is sometimes heartbreaking, but she is so worth it because on her good days, she plays and seems happy. For someone to say the things they.......well, I just have no words to describe what I feel about that, but this person obviously needs some serious help to pick on a sick puppy. I thank everyone who has supported me through all this from the bottom of my heart. I appreciate the prayers and the kind words you have all said. You are all wonderful people, thank you.

07-13-2007, 01:08 PM	#49
CO_yorkie_momma My Angels Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Colorful Colorado Posts: 2,260	I didnt see the cruel posts either but you cant let some jerk trying to pull your chain upset you and make you quit coming here for advice and support. That person, whoever it was, is not part of this community so dont let them bother you for one second. What you are doing for Lily is wonderful and she is in your life because God knew you were the perfect person to take care of her so hang in there and dont let all of the other nonesense interfere with what you are doing.

07-13-2007, 04:52 PM	#57
SJK1113 No Longer a Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: usa Posts: 2,150	This is a very hard post for me. Lily started to have seizures late this evening, and she passed away. It all happened so fast. The seizures were just too much for her tiny little body. My husband came home from work in the middle of everything, and when he was holding her to comfort her, she passed away quietly in his arms. She went peacefully, she just went to sleep. I have been sitting here holding her and crying. I still have not put her down. She's wrapped in her little pink blanket, and I just can't let her go yet. I pulled myself together enough to call her breeder. I wanted to tell her myself rather than have her read it here. I am so upset, my husband is upset. I feel like I failed her. I keep trying to think what else I should have been doing. One thing I can say for sure is that she KNOWS she was very loved. She had alot of people pulling for her, and I thank everyone so much for their kind words and support. To the person who felt the need to PM me with the cruel comments about my sweet baby girl, I hope you are happy now. As much as I want to hate you for the things you said, I hope you never have to go through this. And, you picked the worst day to do it, you did it on the day my baby died. This is absolutely one of the hardest things I have ever gone through. I love Lily so much. I want her back so bad. I don't know what I will do without her because I'm so used to holding her and caring for her and loving her. I feel so lucky that I could love her for the short time I've had her. I just wish I could have had a longer time with her. It's just not fair. Thank you again to all the wonderful people who have supported me. I appreciate it. I hope that right now, Lily is playing and is happy and healthy on Rainbow Bridge. I hope she will know how much I will always miss her, how much I love her and how much my husband and I will miss her. Willow, thank you for letting me be a part of Lily's life. I'm so sorry that this has happened. I don't know what else to say except I'm so sorry that my sweet baby is gone.

07-13-2007, 04:58 PM	#58
Txgurl06 RIP Skoshi! Love You Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Wichita falls,tx Posts: 3,383	oh my gosh im soooo sorry!

07-13-2007, 04:58 PM	#59
Betty'sMom Donating YT Addict Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Georgia Posts: 6,234	OMG, I am so so sad. I loved that precious little baby. I am so proud that you tried to save her. My heart melted when I looked at her. I thought about her every day since first seeing her. God bless you for caring. ((Hug)) __________________ Jeanne: Mom to Betty & Juju Bean

07-13-2007, 04:59 PM	#60
Txgurl06 RIP Skoshi! Love You Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Wichita falls,tx Posts: 3,383	i think im fixing to cry! Im sure you did everything you possibly could! did you have time to get her to the vet to see what he had to say?