I missed the thread that was deleted but all I can say is that this same person should send me a nasty PM too! As you know, my Lily has hydrocephalus and MVD. Every day I get with her is a joy and I wouldn't trade it for anything!
I've sent you a PM as well. I would love it if you could e-mail me updates on Lily, I think about her everyday. Look at everyone you have on here that is concerned about both you and Lily. This person is obviously in the minority about his feelings.