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marycrank83 · 01-10-2009, 06:01 PM

They took Carter to the breeders and buried him right next to his mommy. His mommy died during labor after delivering 4 boys and 1 girl. All healthy! Daddy was 4 lbs and mommy almost 7. So the sweet little angel is next to his mommy which helps them feel a little better. Alicia is a dog groomer and hears tragic stories all the time but said never in a million years did she think this could happen to them and she is blaming herself for being at work and not home...she feels like a bad pet owner... she feels maybe she could of prevented it and wishes they would of took him to a vet hospital...She said if the vet would of told them he needed a hospital they would of took him. She said the vet made them feel it was unnecessary and he just needed time to recover. They said they so badly wanted to believe that!! My son is blaming himself...and the vet. Grandpa is taking it hard but no one is blaming him cause they all just love him so much. Of course i blame myself... i should of MADE THEM TAKE HIM to a hospital. But I have this feeling that maybe his injuries were too serious for any help...but unfortunately we will never know...
They were so happy when they finally got him 2 days ago and such proud parents!!
Yes it is a tragic accident and thank you all for your well wishes and helping me with advice and words of wisdom!! Please use this thread to help someone else!!! Today my family has found out that we need to listen to that gut feeling! so that we dont suffer all the what ifs !!! Thank You So Much for Caring !!! Mary

brina05 · 01-10-2009, 06:04 PM

We are so sorry to hear about this tragedy and your loss. God Bless.

marycrank83 · 01-10-2009, 06:07 PM

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Originally Posted by greeniis

I am so very sorry to hear of your (and your son's) loss.
We lost our 17 week old puppy the day after Christmas when she choked on a piece of candy she found.
Accidents are horrible tragedies, and are just that: accidents. We need to do our best to prevent them, and to protect our little ones, but despite our best efforts, they do happen.
I know, as I am living through it, the guilt and sadness that go along with this.
Time alone will help heal.
Blessings to all of you.

That is terrible. My heart goes out to you ! i am so very sorry and sad to hear this. Thank you for your kind words!

yorkiesmiles · 01-10-2009, 06:15 PM

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Originally Posted by marycrank83

They took Carter to the breeders and buried him right next to his mommy. His mommy died during labor after delivering 4 boys and 1 girl. All healthy! Daddy was 4 lbs and mommy almost 7. So the sweet little angel is next to his mommy which helps them feel a little better. Alicia is a dog groomer and hears tragic stories all the time but said never in a million years did she think this could happen to them and she is blaming herself for being at work and not home...she feels like a bad pet owner... she feels maybe she could of prevented it and wishes they would of took him to a vet hospital...She said if the vet would of told them he needed a hospital they would of took him. She said the vet made them feel it was unnecessary and he just needed time to recover. They said they so badly wanted to believe that!! My son is blaming himself...and the vet. Grandpa is taking it hard but no one is blaming him cause they all just love him so much. Of course i blame myself... i should of MADE THEM TAKE HIM to a hospital. But I have this feeling that maybe his injuries were too serious for any help...but unfortunately we will never know...
They were so happy when they finally got him 2 days ago and such proud parents!!
Yes it is a tragic accident and thank you all for your well wishes and helping me with advice and words of wisdom!! Please use this thread to help someone else!!! Today my family has found out that we need to listen to that gut feeling! so that we dont suffer all the what ifs !!! Thank You So Much for Caring !!! Mary

How heart breaking to hear his momma had passed too. I think that it is sweet that his body is now at rest next to her.

I will pray that the guilt you are all walking around with will dissipate quickly - it is a tragic accident. And I think something many have now learned from.

lisacam · 01-10-2009, 08:20 PM

So sorry to all involved. Read this post last night and was sooo sad about the outcome! You are all in my prayers.(((HUGS)))

MauiGirl · 01-10-2009, 09:50 PM

Hugs to all of you, this is so unbelievably sad. You'll just have to give it some time and be supportive of each other to heal from this tragic accident.

KimberlySRN · 01-10-2009, 11:50 PM

RIP Carter. Prayers going out to your family.

Lucia · 01-11-2009, 12:15 AM

I've just read this thread and am In tears - I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Rest in peace little one xxx xxx

Elybourg · 01-11-2009, 07:44 AM

I am so very sorry for the loss of little Carter, big hugs to all your family.

heatherlee143 · 01-11-2009, 10:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Elybourg

I am so very sorry for the loss of little Carter, big hugs to all your family.

I just read this and this has just happened to MEEEEEEEE!!!!!!! I hope my little girl makes it!!!!!!

yorkiesmiles · 01-11-2009, 10:37 AM

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Originally Posted by heatherlee143

I just read this and this has just happened to MEEEEEEEE!!!!!!! I hope my little girl makes it!!!!!!

Honey, are you saying your girl was also stepped on? I am so sorry. Do you have a thread started of your own?

heatherlee143 · 01-11-2009, 11:16 AM

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Originally Posted by yorkiesmiles

Honey, are you saying your girl was also stepped on? I am so sorry. Do you have a thread started of your own?

YES, here is the link

http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/sic...e-gia-cpr.html

wemple2 · 01-11-2009, 05:20 PM

Oh my dear God...I am so terribly sorry for the loss of Carter. Please give your son and his wife my deepest sympathy. How utterly tragic...how very sad. But I do really believe the vets were trying to tell them his injuries may be too severe to save him and he was just so tiny, there was nothing that could be done for him...take him home and love him...and hope for the best. Unfortunately the best was not meant to be.
I love that he is buried with his birth mommy now, together, forever. May they both Rest In Peace...may you and your family find peace. Bless his sweet little heart.

marycrank83 · 01-12-2009, 01:35 PM

They did not want to get another puppy.... they felt like they could never replace Carter... they felt like everytime they would look at the new one they would think of him..... but the breeder called them last night and offered them his brother - she just felt so badly for them and knew what a wonderful home they would provide. They adopted his brother and named him Joey and they are in LOVE !!! This is occupying their thoughts/time/attention....
Grandpa is still not feeling good about what happened.... we keep talking to him and reassuring him!

kidmuzicdotcom · 01-12-2009, 01:41 PM

I'm glad to hear they got Joey! although he won't replace Carter he will keep their minds off of him some and keep them occupied..they will love him just as much

01-10-2009, 06:01 PM	#61
marycrank83 YT Addict Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Ohio Posts: 255	update They took Carter to the breeders and buried him right next to his mommy. His mommy died during labor after delivering 4 boys and 1 girl. All healthy! Daddy was 4 lbs and mommy almost 7. So the sweet little angel is next to his mommy which helps them feel a little better. Alicia is a dog groomer and hears tragic stories all the time but said never in a million years did she think this could happen to them and she is blaming herself for being at work and not home...she feels like a bad pet owner... she feels maybe she could of prevented it and wishes they would of took him to a vet hospital...She said if the vet would of told them he needed a hospital they would of took him. She said the vet made them feel it was unnecessary and he just needed time to recover. They said they so badly wanted to believe that!! My son is blaming himself...and the vet. Grandpa is taking it hard but no one is blaming him cause they all just love him so much. Of course i blame myself... i should of MADE THEM TAKE HIM to a hospital. But I have this feeling that maybe his injuries were too serious for any help...but unfortunately we will never know... They were so happy when they finally got him 2 days ago and such proud parents!! Yes it is a tragic accident and thank you all for your well wishes and helping me with advice and words of wisdom!! Please use this thread to help someone else!!! Today my family has found out that we need to listen to that gut feeling! so that we dont suffer all the what ifs !!! Thank You So Much for Caring !!! Mary

01-10-2009, 06:04 PM	#62
brina05 Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Riverside, CA Posts: 220	We are so sorry to hear about this tragedy and your loss. God Bless. __________________ Blessings! Sabrina Shelby Maddyand Zoe!

01-10-2009, 09:50 PM	#66
MauiGirl Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Maui, Hawaii Posts: 7,740	Hugs to all of you, this is so unbelievably sad. You'll just have to give it some time and be supportive of each other to heal from this tragic accident. __________________ SANDY, MOM TO TIKI , KAYLA , KARLEE , R.I.P. MEIKA

01-10-2009, 11:50 PM	#67
KimberlySRN Twins=double the fun! Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: California Posts: 2,981	RIP Carter. Prayers going out to your family. __________________ Kim Anakin Bella

01-11-2009, 12:15 AM	#68
Lucia Twinkle & Wicket's Mum Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Kent, England Posts: 2,197	I've just read this thread and am In tears - I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Rest in peace little one xxx xxx __________________ Love from Claire (Me!) mummy to skindaughters Mia and Lucia, furdaughter Twinkleand fursons Wicket and Ozzy 'Treat stressful situations like a dog; pee on them then walk away.'

01-10-2009, 08:20 PM	#65
lisacam No Longer a Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: N/A Posts: 134	So sorry to all involved. Read this post last night and was sooo sad about the outcome! You are all in my prayers.(((HUGS)))

01-11-2009, 07:44 AM	#69
Elybourg Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Vancouver Island, BC Canada Posts: 160	I am so very sorry for the loss of little Carter, big hugs to all your family. __________________ Toby and Rudy

01-11-2009, 05:20 PM	#73
wemple2 Wee Winston Wiggles Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Kewanee, Illinois Posts: 9,666	Oh my dear God...I am so terribly sorry for the loss of Carter. Please give your son and his wife my deepest sympathy. How utterly tragic...how very sad. But I do really believe the vets were trying to tell them his injuries may be too severe to save him and he was just so tiny, there was nothing that could be done for him...take him home and love him...and hope for the best. Unfortunately the best was not meant to be. I love that he is buried with his birth mommy now, together, forever. May they both Rest In Peace...may you and your family find peace. Bless his sweet little heart. __________________ As Ever, Kathy Intruducing Bentley Winston and Spencer: RIP My Sweet Angels

01-12-2009, 01:35 PM	#74
marycrank83 YT Addict Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Ohio Posts: 255	Update They did not want to get another puppy.... they felt like they could never replace Carter... they felt like everytime they would look at the new one they would think of him..... but the breeder called them last night and offered them his brother - she just felt so badly for them and knew what a wonderful home they would provide. They adopted his brother and named him Joey and they are in LOVE !!! This is occupying their thoughts/time/attention.... Grandpa is still not feeling good about what happened.... we keep talking to him and reassuring him!

01-12-2009, 01:41 PM	#75
kidmuzicdotcom Shelby Rae's Mom Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Cypress Posts: 815	I'm glad to hear they got Joey! although he won't replace Carter he will keep their minds off of him some and keep them occupied..they will love him just as much __________________ Shelby Rae's Mom and Kaylee's Nana[SIZE=2][COLOR=Red]