Villette's Hubby Died This Morning at 2 am - Page 26 - YorkieTalk.com Forums

cj125 · 09-11-2007, 04:57 PM

Still in my thoughts and prayers Villette...

red98vett · 09-12-2007, 04:10 AM

Hi everyone.....again - thank you so VERY Much for all the kind wishes and cards etc - you have no idea how much it means to me. I'm kind of surprised at myself that I'm taking this as hard as I am - I thought I was stronger than I seem to be and am having the hardest time with my emotions - can't seem to talk without breaking down. Everything is just so empty now and lonely - no one will EVER love my girls like he did and they miss him so much too.

The funeral is this Saturday and my good friend Jamie will be a wonderful substitute mom to them until I return and I trust her completely - she has 2 yorkies herself and Chanel and her oldest are almost related so that's a good thing. I think I packed more for the girls than I did for me for my trip.

My husband was a good good man and the memories just keep flooding my emotions - I'd take a sick husband anytime over a gone one. I think I said it before - CHERISH those you love - even though mine was sick - I NEVER NEVER expected him to go the way he did that night - I can't seem to get it in my head that is just wasn't his time yet but God called him home ....and I have to learn to accept it. I just don't know how to

If anyone has advise on how to stop all this crying I'd apprecitate it - I've never cried this much in my entire life....still can't eat or sleep and stop obsessing. I want to be strong and just feel so weak ... even writing this I'm losing it

On the upside - you all are THE BEST !!!!!! I miss posting and miss talking to so many of you and hope everyones yorkies are happy and healthy -

Thank you again so so much for everything - If I could put into words what you all did with the beautiful cards and donations (they were a HUGE HUGE help - more than you know) I will ....but for now - I've been trying to answer pm's and do a few a day but getting on the computer lately is really hard - the tears just won't stop.

I miss him so much ....it's very lonely in my house now and I just thank God for friends like you all and my girls. BIG HUGS and love you all ! I really mean that - the calls - cards and pm's have been so appreciated I just can't thank you all enough for your care and concern. I DO miss you - and thank you again

fufufashions · 09-12-2007, 05:06 AM

Great to hear from you V! You remain in our thoughts and prayers! Time will heal and you will get through this. Allow yourself to grieve...it is OK!! We have big shoulders to lean on here at YT and we all love you!!
I'll see you Friday GF!! Not eating??? I'll take care of that!!

Love, hugs and yorkie kisses!! XOXOXOX
Linda & PAK

Shadow · 09-12-2007, 05:18 AM

Al you can do right no V is take it one day at a time .Don't expect anything from your self right now,let the tears flow.Howeveer with that said you must eat and sleep.Maybe you could ask the doctor for some meds to help you with the sleeping part or even try simply sleep made by tylenol.It stops all the thoughts and lets you sleep,you won't feel drugged by them.Once you eat and sleep youe emotions should respond a bit.
Take care of yourself,yt needs ya.

Zeus' Mom · 09-12-2007, 05:44 AM

Hugs and prayers for you Villette. I wish I could help make the pain go away, but can't.

You are so lucky to have had someone come into your life and put a forever hold on your heart the way he did. God bless and I hope you continue to get stronger everyday. We're always here for you.

Lexi Rae · 09-12-2007, 06:02 AM

oh villette, i just cant believe it... i just feel so bad. i wish i could take
the pain away from you.. im in tears right now just thinking about you.
i pray for you all the time to help you heal your broken heart... hugs
and kisses to you and your family... lexi sends hugs and kisses too...
take care of yourself

Mommy of Brandi · 09-12-2007, 03:08 PM

One day at a time........there is no advice to take away the pain.......it will subside slowly as time goes on is all.......

cutiepieyorkies · 09-12-2007, 03:38 PM

v i am lost for words for you and your family there is none to make it go away i lost my mom when i was 19 and the pain was well it just was
time lots of time dont push yourself to hard this is a big loss for you
healing is sometimes slow and painful but better days will come
god speed to you.

cj125 · 09-12-2007, 04:03 PM

So happy to see you on here today...

Tink's Mom · 09-12-2007, 07:19 PM

Oh, so good to see you posting today Vi. I know its hard. Just a step at a time and you'll get beyond the really tough times. It will get easier, but just grieve as long as you need to. We're all different and do our grieving in our own way.

We love you!

Chrissy0277 · 09-12-2007, 07:54 PM

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

I pray with time your pain eases and you can look back and smile on all the wonderful memories you share.

cj125 · 09-13-2007, 06:53 AM

Good Morning Villette...

Have you noticed that my messages are short and sweet?

Connie · 09-13-2007, 07:25 AM

Thinking of you, Villette, and sending lots of hugs!

Yorkiekids · 09-13-2007, 07:42 AM

V your always in my thoughts. I think you need to get to the doctor, and see if he can give you something to get through this. Your girls need you, and I'm sure your husband's looking down on you, and wishing you could get better too.

Judy in Waco · 09-13-2007, 09:17 AM

That is really great advice. I have been through tough emotional times and suffered symptoms very similar to yours. My doctor referred to that as situational depression. He prescribed short-term medication that made a HUGE difference for me. I had no idea how depressed I was until I started taking the medication and feeling better. When I was feeling better, I was able to consider other things to help and was able to gradually go off of the medication. It really might help and I strongly suggest that you talk to someone. There are also groups to help those who have lost a loved one. I encourage you to explore those as well.

Hugs Honey...we love you and we care.

09-11-2007, 04:57 PM	#376
cj125 Mia, Max and Moe's Mom Donating Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: Las Vegas, NV Posts: 4,403	Still in my thoughts and prayers Villette... __________________ *Connie* Mia Max Moe

09-12-2007, 04:10 AM	#377
red98vett Yorkie Kisses are the Best! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Houston TX Posts: 33,590 Blog Entries: 1	Hi everyone.....again - thank you so VERY Much for all the kind wishes and cards etc - you have no idea how much it means to me. I'm kind of surprised at myself that I'm taking this as hard as I am - I thought I was stronger than I seem to be and am having the hardest time with my emotions - can't seem to talk without breaking down. Everything is just so empty now and lonely - no one will EVER love my girls like he did and they miss him so much too. The funeral is this Saturday and my good friend Jamie will be a wonderful substitute mom to them until I return and I trust her completely - she has 2 yorkies herself and Chanel and her oldest are almost related so that's a good thing. I think I packed more for the girls than I did for me for my trip. My husband was a good good man and the memories just keep flooding my emotions - I'd take a sick husband anytime over a gone one. I think I said it before - CHERISH those you love - even though mine was sick - I NEVER NEVER expected him to go the way he did that night - I can't seem to get it in my head that is just wasn't his time yet but God called him home ....and I have to learn to accept it. I just don't know how to If anyone has advise on how to stop all this crying I'd apprecitate it - I've never cried this much in my entire life....still can't eat or sleep and stop obsessing. I want to be strong and just feel so weak ... even writing this I'm losing it On the upside - you all are THE BEST !!!!!! I miss posting and miss talking to so many of you and hope everyones yorkies are happy and healthy - Thank you again so so much for everything - If I could put into words what you all did with the beautiful cards and donations (they were a HUGE HUGE help - more than you know) I will ....but for now - I've been trying to answer pm's and do a few a day but getting on the computer lately is really hard - the tears just won't stop. I miss him so much ....it's very lonely in my house now and I just thank God for friends like you all and my girls. BIG HUGS and love you all ! I really mean that - the calls - cards and pm's have been so appreciated I just can't thank you all enough for your care and concern. I DO miss you - and thank you again __________________ Villette, Chanel & Cheri www.DesignsByVillette.net Custom Address Labels and Note Cards using YOUR Photos! Just Click HERE!

09-12-2007, 05:06 AM	#378
fufufashions LEADER OF MyPACK Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Sugar Land Texas Posts: 3,978	Great to hear from you V! You remain in our thoughts and prayers! Time will heal and you will get through this. Allow yourself to grieve...it is OK!! We have big shoulders to lean on here at YT and we all love you!! I'll see you Friday GF!! Not eating??? I'll take care of that!! Love, hugs and yorkie kisses!! XOXOXOX Linda & PAK __________________ Linda FuFuFashions & Healthy Dog & Cat Food and Treats2hearts2: FACEBOOK

09-12-2007, 05:44 AM	#380
Zeus' Mom Enja's Mom too! Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Raleigh, NC Posts: 2,765	Hugs and prayers for you Villette. I wish I could help make the pain go away, but can't. You are so lucky to have had someone come into your life and put a forever hold on your heart the way he did. God bless and I hope you continue to get stronger everyday. We're always here for you. __________________ Farrah, Zeus, Enja & Riley

09-12-2007, 06:02 AM	#381
Lexi Rae Gina, (Lexi's Mommy) Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: LONG ISLAND,NY Posts: 10,455	oh villette, i just cant believe it... i just feel so bad. i wish i could take the pain away from you.. im in tears right now just thinking about you. i pray for you all the time to help you heal your broken heart... hugs and kisses to you and your family... lexi sends hugs and kisses too... take care of yourself __________________ Gina & Lexi CLICK HERE for our Photo Album ...

09-12-2007, 05:18 AM	#379
Shadow No Longer a Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: California Posts: 5,368	Al you can do right no V is take it one day at a time .Don't expect anything from your self right now,let the tears flow.Howeveer with that said you must eat and sleep.Maybe you could ask the doctor for some meds to help you with the sleeping part or even try simply sleep made by tylenol.It stops all the thoughts and lets you sleep,you won't feel drugged by them.Once you eat and sleep youe emotions should respond a bit. Take care of yourself,yt needs ya.

09-12-2007, 03:08 PM	#382
Mommy of Brandi YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: New York Posts: 745	One day at a time........there is no advice to take away the pain.......it will subside slowly as time goes on is all....... __________________ The way to mommy's heart is yorkie kisses!!! Brandi's MySpace

09-12-2007, 03:38 PM	#383
cutiepieyorkies No Longer a Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: kentucky Posts: 759	v i am lost for words for you and your family there is none to make it go away i lost my mom when i was 19 and the pain was well it just was time lots of time dont push yourself to hard this is a big loss for you healing is sometimes slow and painful but better days will come god speed to you.

09-12-2007, 04:03 PM	#384
cj125 Mia, Max and Moe's Mom Donating Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: Las Vegas, NV Posts: 4,403	So happy to see you on here today... __________________ *Connie* Mia Max Moe

09-12-2007, 07:19 PM	#385
Tink's Mom With Indy In My Heart Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Texas Posts: 8,442	Oh, so good to see you posting today Vi. I know its hard. Just a step at a time and you'll get beyond the really tough times. It will get easier, but just grieve as long as you need to. We're all different and do our grieving in our own way. We love you! __________________ Mom of Bruno RIP Tinkerbelle Tala & Howard Indy & Stuart

09-12-2007, 07:54 PM	#386
Chrissy0277 Its all about the yorkies Donating Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: South Jersey Posts: 1,451	You are in my thoughts and prayers. I pray with time your pain eases and you can look back and smile on all the wonderful memories you share. __________________ CHRISSY Nikki Precious Lizzy Mimi , Lena Taboo

09-13-2007, 06:53 AM	#387
cj125 Mia, Max and Moe's Mom Donating Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: Las Vegas, NV Posts: 4,403	Good Morning Villette... Have you noticed that my messages are short and sweet? __________________ *Connie* Mia Max Moe

09-13-2007, 07:25 AM	#388
Connie Loved by Maddie & Libby Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: North Dakota Posts: 10,732	Thinking of you, Villette, and sending lots of hugs! __________________ Custom doggie dresses and vests Memory is a country where I can go to see your face - but where do I go when I miss your embrace?

09-13-2007, 07:42 AM	#389
Yorkiekids Piper & Sebastian Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: florida Posts: 14,495	V your always in my thoughts. I think you need to get to the doctor, and see if he can give you something to get through this. Your girls need you, and I'm sure your husband's looking down on you, and wishing you could get better too. __________________ Susan, Piper ,Harley & Suiki

09-13-2007, 09:17 AM	#390
Judy in Waco Gizzy & Kandi spoil me Donating Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Waco, Texas Posts: 8,477	That is really great advice. I have been through tough emotional times and suffered symptoms very similar to yours. My doctor referred to that as situational depression. He prescribed short-term medication that made a HUGE difference for me. I had no idea how depressed I was until I started taking the medication and feeling better. When I was feeling better, I was able to consider other things to help and was able to gradually go off of the medication. It really might help and I strongly suggest that you talk to someone. There are also groups to help those who have lost a loved one. I encourage you to explore those as well. Hugs Honey...we love you and we care. __________________ The fullness of our heart is expressed in our eyes, in our touch, in what we write, in what we say, in the way we walk, the way we receive, the way we need. -Mother Teresa ( RIP Gizmo 3/9/07-8/18/12)