Villette's Hubby Died This Morning at 2 am

[Little Bit]

Oh, Villette. My heart just aches for you! I wish there was something I could do to take the pain away. Just know that we love you and are all still praying for you that you will have the strength to do what you need to and the peace in your heart you need.

Hugs,

Nancy

[YorkieRose]

It is always so good to hear from you..I know Saturday will be difficult for you and your family...you are very blessed to have so many wonderful, caring friends..money can never buy a true friend.

[ARCHIE]

It is so nice to see you posting V even for just a moment.
Your always on my mind. All you can do is take one day at a
time. After Saturday you may find some closure which everyone
needs to go forward. Don't expect too much from yourself so soon.
You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Take care of yourself.

Hugs,

[Tinkerbelle1]

Glad to see your post. If you need anything just post.




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[cj125]

You're in my thoughts and prayes Villette!!!

[red98vett]

Originally Posted by Judy in Waco

That is really great advice. I have been through tough emotional times and suffered symptoms very similar to yours. My doctor referred to that as situational depression. He prescribed short-term medication that made a HUGE difference for me. I had no idea how depressed I was until I started taking the medication and feeling better. When I was feeling better, I was able to consider other things to help and was able to gradually go off of the medication. It really might help and I strongly suggest that you talk to someone. There are also groups to help those who have lost a loved one. I encourage you to explore those as well.

Hugs Honey...we love you and we care.

thank you ALL !! This hasn;t subsided and I pace constantly - lost a ton of weight and the only good thing is I fit into my old clothes which I'm wearimg to his funeral tommorrrow - My Father in law got me a ticket and now my husband will be with his mom who just passed 2 months ago - they've had some tragedies this month and I really hope it's passed - I know how hard this is and will NEVER discount the pain of losing someone you love - it's the hardest thing I've ever been thru and not getting better - everywhere I look I see him

Thank you again for everything - I'll try to post but it's just so hard - I DO appreciated everything more than you all know....The hearts on these sites just AMAZE ME

my girls will be getting picked up by my friend Jamie in 1/2 hour so I better start dressing them and thank you - love you all - and hugs

[Marcellacml]

oh no..i'm so sorry for your loss. I never know what to say at times like this..your in my prayers

[jp4m2]

Hi Vee, will be thinking of you tomorrow more than ever.......

[Monday]

Originally Posted by Judy in Waco

That is really great advice. I have been through tough emotional times and suffered symptoms very similar to yours. My doctor referred to that as situational depression. He prescribed short-term medication that made a HUGE difference for me. I had no idea how depressed I was until I started taking the medication and feeling better. When I was feeling better, I was able to consider other things to help and was able to gradually go off of the medication. It really might help and I strongly suggest that you talk to someone. There are also groups to help those who have lost a loved one. I encourage you to explore those as well.

Hugs Honey...we love you and we care.

Yes, Judy, situational depression is the term ..my heart goes out to you as well, I went through that after my husband's death,

I am finally getting back to "myself" ... got off the meds a while ago .... (they truly served their purpose) and although I know I miss him terribly, I know I must go on. (Easier said that done)

I was watching the families of the 9-11 victims on TV the other day, and saw that they really had a lot to work through ... especially the children. Bless their hearts also.

Your posts are always so meaningful, Judy ... thanks for adding your thoughts.

No one knows the pain of others, we may think we do, but after going through a similar situation, your senses are heightened ...

[Judy in Waco]

Originally Posted by Monday

Yes, Judy, situational depression is the term ..my heart goes out to you as well, I went through that after my husband's death,

I am finally getting back to "myself" ... got off the meds a while ago .... (they truly served their purpose) and although I know I miss him terribly, I know I must go on. (Easier said that done)

I was watching the families of the 9-11 victims on TV the other day, and saw that they really had a lot to work through ... especially the children. Bless their hearts also.

Your posts are always so meaningful, Judy ... thanks for adding your thoughts.

No one knows the pain of others, we may think we do, but after going through a similar situation, your senses are heightened ...

Thank you very much. I feel the same way about your posts. I just believe that we need to talk about depression more in our society. It is a very real medical condition and there is help. If we don't talk about it, I just don't see how it will get any better.

I am still blessed to have my husband with me, but he has some very critical medical conditions. I appreciate everyone's posts about how important it is to value the time we have with those we love.

My depression was brought on by my father's death and some of the empty nest issues I went through. But you really don't have to have something catastrophic happen to suffer from depression. Sometimes it just seems to bring it to the surface more.

The important message here is that no one has to suffer alone. Reach out to others and seek help when you need it. There is always hope.

[peanut]

V, I have been thinking and wondering how you are doing, I am so sorry girl, with everything going on here, I thought you had already left...You know that I miss you on here, and I know how much pain you are in...I wish I knew you hadn't left yet...girl I will be with you in spirit tomorrow...just remember we are all still praying for you...Big hugs to you....

[saphire]

Thinking of you V. Travel safe and take care.

Hugs.

[midnightmist]

Still thinking of you V.

[fufufashions]

Just wanted to post that V is home safe and sound! The reunion with her girls was AWESOME! OMG, they just about ate her alive!! There was so much kissing going on there!
Thank you Jamie (yorkiecrazy) and hubby for taking such good care of the girls. I know that V was relieved to have them with you and taking such good care of them. Tessa even got a pretty haircut! She was wagging her tail so hard that it was making a breeze!
I am sure V will post when she is able. Please keep those cards, emails, and PM's going to her. She really needs us now as she starts the healing process.
What a wonderful sweet woman. She really feels the love of all the YT's all over the country and YT world!!
I'll post photos when i get them downloaded and resized later today...i just want to let everyone know that she is home now with her girls. She promised to rest and eat. I'll keep an eye on her to make sure she does!
God Bless everyone at YT! Every little act of kindness from ALL of you was greatly felt!!
HUGS! XOXOX
Linda & PAK