Opinions Needed!!

[sashajade]

Originally Posted by Rae Rae

Thinking someones cute is different from doing stuff. Can you quote me when I said that cheating is tolerable or the same? I didn't say it, so don't ask me that question.

I HATE when people twist words

i never twisted words you did, when i say popping off to the loo with one i mean a MAG not a person , i never mention a person or cheating did i? and when i say if your bf said oh shes pretty the girl in the shop im gonna think of her tonight did i say do anything with her no. you said there is nothing wrong in telling your partner he or she is nice and i agreed with that but the point i was trying to make is the difference between saying oh that girls pretty on the tv and him looking at a porn mag of a naked women,.

[sashajade]

Originally Posted by YORKIE7

When men look at attractive women in the street, or naked porn stars in magazines or films, How do you know that they arent thinking of that women the next time your in bed? or does he wish you looked like those porn stars? you just dont know?????? its not like they are going to say: '' oh by the way honey, i like looking at playboy coz i wish you looked like those girls, and i also like to think of them while im having sex with you''

well said

[sashajade]

RAE RAE i think your missing the point so i will say it like this, a man buys a mag to lets say please his self, no other reason, if my bf turned to me and said oh i like that singer on the tv i would say oh yes she is pretty, i wouldnt mind, if my bf bought a mag and said i want to share this with you and i agreed we look at it together then i wouldnt mind cos its sex together, if i was away and my bf used a mag i wouldnt mind cos he has needs but if my bf took the mag off to the loo for lets say alone time while i was there i wouldnt be happy cos he would be choosing that mag over me in the flesh. so my point was if your bf said im gonna go home take my self off to the loo and think of that girl we saw in the pub you wouldnt be happy im guessing? so thats just the same as him going off to the loo with a mag and thinking of the girls in that they are real people to you no.

[yougetthesmiles]

Quote from sashajade "if i was away and my bf used a mag i wouldnt mind cos he has needs "
This is BS!!! He has needs??? by god his needs can wait till we see each other the next time. A man CAN be in CONTROL! It's all in the mind!!

[sashajade]

Originally Posted by yougetthesmiles

Quote from sashajade "if i was away and my bf used a mag i wouldnt mind cos he has needs "
This is BS!!! He has needs??? by god his needs can wait till we see each other the next time. A man CAN be in CONTROL! It's all in the mind!!

i would just like to my bf doesnt do it he doesnt like mags, i just ment if he did and i knew about it i would be fine about it, we dont use that kind of thing he dont like it and nether do i but if 2 people are fine with it then thats up to them is all i ment. it all depends on what the couple agree on, my partner and i see sex as a couple thing something you do together not on your own but others will think its fine to have that alone time.

[sashajade]

just think i should explain what ive said a bit better its hard on here cos cant say wude words first of all im not ok with mags i dont like them there are nasty, my bf dont like them ether, ok thats sorted a man asks his wife can i look at mags she says yes but only when we are together,so thats ok for them as both agree but if the man looks at the mag on his own, thats not ok.a man asks his wife can i look at mags she says yes anytime i dont mind at all, thats ok for them as both agree. a man asks his wife can i look at mags she says no but he still does so thats not ok . everyone has there own feeling on what ok and whats not but aslong as both agree then there isnt a problem. my partner and i both agree we dont like them so dont use them, everyone to there own.

[sashajade]

Originally Posted by sashajade

i would just like to my bf doesnt do it he doesnt like mags, i just ment if he did and i knew about it i would be fine about it, we dont use that kind of thing he dont like it and nether do i but if 2 people are fine with it then thats up to them is all i ment. it all depends on what the couple agree on, my partner and i see sex as a couple thing something you do together not on your own but others will think its fine to have that alone time.

i also wouldnt be fine if he had a mag while i was away, i was trying to show a situation i didnt mean me or my bf, i didnt explain it very well, i was trying to show how different women might feel where one thing is ok but another isnt, ive explained it a bit better in the post above now using the MAN and the WIFE instead of my bf lol he would die if he saw this sorry hunny i didnt mean you i ment anyones bf lol just incase he looks lol

[doortego]

But I have to say I think these magazines are immoral and I am basing that on the Bible. And, yes, I am a lot older than most of you but the Bible hasn't changed.

[sashajade]

Originally Posted by doortego

But I have to say I think these magazines are immoral and I am basing that on the Bible. And, yes, I am a lot older than most of you but the Bible hasn't changed.

they are very true.