Opinions Needed!!

[Catrina]

Originally Posted by Rae Rae

For those of you who dissaprove of this magazine and say you don't have low self esteem, can you please explain to me why your so against them? I know I'm a lot younger than some of you on here, so is it your generation?

I am a lot younger than some of the people on here too and I disapprove because like I said before.. a guy should only be focusing on his gf/wife and think shes the most beautiful woman! He shouldnt be fantasizing and looking at photoshoped and airbrushed women in a magazine for fun.. he should be looking at his real beautiful gf/wife!!!

[Rae Rae]

Originally Posted by Catrina

I am a lot younger than some of the people on here too and I disapprove because like I said before.. a guy should only be focusing on his gf/wife and think shes the most beautiful woman! He shouldnt be fantasizing and looking at photoshoped and airbrushed women in a magazine for fun.. he should be looking at his real beautiful gf/wife!!!

Are you in a relationship? If so, and if not when you are in one, do you think that only your bf/hubby is good looking? I find this hard to believe if someone says they do, because well it cant be true. You can love your partner, but you can still think other people look good.

[Catrina]

Originally Posted by Rae Rae

Are you in a relationship? If so, and if not when you are in one, do you think that only your bf/hubby is good looking? I find this hard to believe if someone says they do, because well it cant be true. You can love your partner, but you can still think other people look good.

Actually yes I am in a 2.5 yr relationship and I only focus on him...

I don't pay any attention to other guys and yes I do think other guys can be good looking but I am not attracted to them.. I only think about him like he only thinks of me!

Btw I never said a guy shouldn't think other women are good looking... I said they should think their wife/gf is the most beautiful!!

[Rae Rae]

Originally Posted by Catrina

Actually yes I am in a 2.5 yr relationship and I only focus on him...

I don't pay any attention to other guys and yes I do think other guys can be good looking but I am not attracted to them.. I only think about him like he only thinks of me!

I guess were on two different levels. My boyfriend and I think other people look good, and we tell eachother. I always comment to him about Johnny Depp, etc. He tells me how he likes models and stuff. I think it's just about being open and honest. I'd rather us tell eachother what we think of others then hide it. We trust eachother, so we know we have nothing to hide. And I know that just because he might think some girl in a mag is hot, that doesn't mean he loves her. Theres nothing wrong w/ looking at some eye candy!!!

[Catrina]

Also, I am done with my point of view on this

I don't wanna cause arguments.. if you think it's fine that your bf/husband is looking at porn then that is your choice. However, most women do not like that.

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion~

[Catrina]

Oh I just read your comment after I submitted mine..

Nothing is wrong with thinking others are attractive and talking about it with each other... this is talking about pornographic pictures of women! Not celebrities in movies...

Okay.. thats all!

[Rae Rae]

Originally Posted by Catrina

Also, I am done with my point of view on this

I don't wanna cause arguments.. if you think it's fine that your bf/husband is looking at porn then that is your choice. However, most women do not like that.

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion~

I know, I'm not trying to argue. I'm stating my opinion too, I said that numerous times in my first post on this so people don't think I'm trying to force my feelings onto them. I just see a lot of women commenting on guys that look good, etc, so if most women do think it's wrong for guys to look at girls, thats very hypocritical (for the ones that do). I dunno, I guess theres a lot or worse problems that a relationship can have. As long as both people agree though, then it's no one elses problem, so that's what really matters.

[sashajade]

Originally Posted by Rae Rae

Well if the guy lies about it, then it's wrong...the fact of lying itself is whats wrong w/ it to me. But I mean about guys who are open about it. I know I would never tolerate it if my boyfriend lied to me about anything.

i think it depends on how you both feel about them, if my bf was in to them then i wouldnt mind if we looked at them together or a film or something but i wouldnt be happy if i was home and he popped off to the loo with one when he could have the real thing with me, and i no he would feel the same if he was in and i popped off with a plastic friend in to the bedroom when i could be with him.if your on your own and your partners at work and you feel a bit fruity then i see no problem with it, but my bf dont feel the same he says he would feel upset that i didnt wait for him, so not all guys are the same.

[sashajade]

Originally Posted by Catrina

I am a lot younger than some of the people on here too and I disapprove because like I said before.. a guy should only be focusing on his gf/wife and think shes the most beautiful woman! He shouldnt be fantasizing and looking at photoshoped and airbrushed women in a magazine for fun.. he should be looking at his real beautiful gf/wife!!!

i agree with you there but then like i already said i dont think men do fantasize they just look at the rude bits i bet if you asked a man what colour hair or eyes she had he wouldnt even no lol.

[sashajade]

Originally Posted by Catrina

Actually yes I am in a 2.5 yr relationship and I only focus on him...

I don't pay any attention to other guys and yes I do think other guys can be good looking but I am not attracted to them.. I only think about him like he only thinks of me!

Btw I never said a guy shouldn't think other women are good looking... I said they should think their wife/gf is the most beautiful!!

i understand what your saying, since ive been with my partner i can look at other men and think oh hes nice looking but i must admitt i have never fancyed any of them.

[sashajade]

Originally Posted by Rae Rae

I guess were on two different levels. My boyfriend and I think other people look good, and we tell eachother. I always comment to him about Johnny Depp, etc. He tells me how he likes models and stuff. I think it's just about being open and honest. I'd rather us tell eachother what we think of others then hide it. We trust eachother, so we know we have nothing to hide. And I know that just because he might think some girl in a mag is hot, that doesn't mean he loves her. Theres nothing wrong w/ looking at some eye candy!!!

i dont think there is anything wrong with looking ether, and as for johnny depp you can just keep ya hands off RIGHT lol saying someone is nice looking is very different from doing something sexual while looking at someone, how would you feel if your bf told you oh that girl in that shop was nice im going to think of her tonight? its different see?

[Rae Rae]

Originally Posted by sashajade

i think it depends on how you both feel about them, if my bf was in to them then i wouldnt mind if we looked at them together or a film or something but i wouldnt be happy if i was home and he popped off to the loo with one when he could have the real thing with me, and i no he would feel the same if he was in and i popped off with a plastic friend in to the bedroom when i could be with him.if your on your own and your partners at work and you feel a bit fruity then i see no problem with it, but my bf dont feel the same he says he would feel upset that i didnt wait for him, so not all guys are the same.

Are you talking about actually dating them? Of doing stuff w/ others? Gosh I never mentioned anything like that, I said looking at mags!!!

[Rae Rae]

Originally Posted by sashajade

i dont think there is anything wrong with looking ether, and as for johnny depp you can just keep ya hands off RIGHT lol saying someone is nice looking is very different from doing something sexual while looking at someone, how would you feel if your bf told you oh that girl in that shop was nice im going to think of her tonight? its different see?

Thinking someones cute is different from doing stuff. Can you quote me when I said that cheating is tolerable or the same? I didn't say it, so don't ask me that question.

I HATE when people twist words

[YORKIE7]

When men look at attractive women in the street, or naked porn stars in magazines or films, How do you know that they arent thinking of that women the next time your in bed? or does he wish you looked like those porn stars? you just dont know?????? its not like they are going to say: '' oh by the way honey, i like looking at playboy coz i wish you looked like those girls, and i also like to think of them while im having sex with you''

[sashajade]

Originally Posted by Rae Rae

Are you talking about actually dating them? Of doing stuff w/ others? Gosh I never mentioned anything like that, I said looking at mags!!!

thats not what i said at all, i said i would have no problem with my bf looking at mags when i wasnt there but i would have if i was there and he prefered the mag to me the real thing, i hate to point this out but men dont just look at the pics and read the storys, thats not what they buy them for .