|
Welcome to the YorkieTalk.com Forums Community - the community for Yorkshire Terriers. You are currently viewing our boards as a guest which gives you limited access to view most discussions and access our other features. By joining our free community you will have access to post topics, communicate privately with other members (PM), respond to polls, upload content and access many other special features. You will be able to chat with over 35,000 YorkieTalk members, read over 2,000,000 posted discussions, and view more than 15,000 Yorkie photos in the YorkieTalk Photo Gallery after you register. We would love to have you as a member! Registration is fast, simple and absolutely free so please, join our community today! If you have any problems with the registration process or your account login, please click here to contact us. |
|
| LinkBack | Thread Tools |
01-22-2008, 05:05 AM | #1 |
Aubrey's Mom Donating Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Georgia
Posts: 9,369
| Has there ever been? Has there ever been a guy friend that you have had that you see yourself with in the future. And at a point you are really good friends, and even though you don't date you feel complete with them? I found this guy a few months back, and at first I really liked him and wanted to date him, then I just started talking to him as friends and we have a really good friendship, and every night that we talk it gets deeper and deeper. But hes a guy that I can tell any of my problems to, which was what I was wanting to find.. But then again sometimes they say you will marry your best friend?!! |
Welcome Guest! | |
01-22-2008, 05:40 AM | #2 |
Donating YT 11K Club Member | Yes I have. My bf is my best friend, we weren't always best friends lol actually we knew each other in hs but i guess were too immature to like each other, so we ended up going to the same college and we became friends and now go out for 2 yrs. I think it's the best thing to have a great friendship with the one you like/love, we have the same friends. My ex, we both had our seperate friends and we had a lot of problems cause of that and other things but i guess its diff. for everyone.
__________________ Primrose, Teddy..RIP, Livie..RIP, And can never forget my duo Sophie and London, Run in Peace <3 |
01-22-2008, 05:52 AM | #3 | |
Owned by Tumi & Gracie Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: NYC
Posts: 2,321
| Quote:
__________________ PROUD MOMMY OF MS.TUMI,MS.TSUBI AND MS.GRACIE! I LOVE MY BABY GIRLS!! PROUD MEMBER OF THE CRAZY CLUB! | |
01-22-2008, 05:56 AM | #4 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Fishers, IN
Posts: 2,161
| Yes I am going through this right now. I have been friends with him for 3 yrs. We are part of the same football club that watches our teams games every Sunday. His wife left him in Aug for a coworker. They were together for 7 yrs and married JUST under a year. Come November, we have been hanging out all the time. He is an amazing person. I cant believe she would leave him. (I used to do her hair too) She is way too materialistic, and she felt he didn't give her enough. All the coach, tiffany and a beautiful house isn't enough? Well whatever.... Hes so cute. The other day he asked me "Would you please consider that if anything happens between us in the future that we wait until I have my marriage annulled?" (he just signed divorce papers too) I said "of course"...he is so respectable. Funny thing is...6 months ago i would never have thought of dating him. (He loves the dogs and he doesnt mind I dress them LOL)
__________________ Stacy, Mommy to: Bianca the Bichon 3-6-06, Gino the yorkie 3-15-07 Last edited by GinosMommy; 01-22-2008 at 05:58 AM. |
01-22-2008, 06:21 AM | #5 | |
Donating YT 11K Club Member | Quote:
__________________ Primrose, Teddy..RIP, Livie..RIP, And can never forget my duo Sophie and London, Run in Peace <3 | |
01-22-2008, 07:23 AM | #6 |
Aubrey's Mom Donating Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Georgia
Posts: 9,369
| Its good to hear other stories like this. And who knows if me and this guy will end up dating, but this is starting out how I want me next relationship to start. I want to say I married my best friend! lol, I guess Im crazy. Me and this guy was up last night at midnight talking, and I don't ever stay up that late.. lol.. It just seems each night that we talk we keep getting closer and closer, so hopefully a date might be coming, keeping my fingers crossed. |
01-22-2008, 08:14 AM | #7 | |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Fishers, IN
Posts: 2,161
| Quote:
thanks Mizzwanted..he is a great guy. We already kissed and we cuddle sometimes, so if the anything more happens, it has to be when hes ready. Not many men like that out there anymore...
__________________ Stacy, Mommy to: Bianca the Bichon 3-6-06, Gino the yorkie 3-15-07 | |
01-22-2008, 08:42 AM | #8 | |
Aubrey's Mom Donating Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Georgia
Posts: 9,369
| Quote:
I would, but its just the type of guy he is. Hes already told my friend that he like the old fashion ways where guys ask the girls out.. so maybe sometime soon it will happen. If he really wants to make my day he will ask me out on Valentines Day since Im off and single, but we will just have to see.... Who knows.. this is a guy we're talking about But after every other guy I talk to I always come back to him its just something there. He doesn't like to party which I don't either so theres something in common with a lot of other things. I just can't explain it to anyone... I just keep my fingers crossed, but I do have to admit hes what I look foward to after a long day at work. I might tell him that one day, just depends on how our conversations go. | |
01-22-2008, 09:52 AM | #10 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Fishers, IN
Posts: 2,161
| I know that feeling
__________________ Stacy, Mommy to: Bianca the Bichon 3-6-06, Gino the yorkie 3-15-07 |
01-22-2008, 10:00 AM | #11 |
Bella-My Georgia Girl Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Duluth, Georgia
Posts: 2,419
| Darren and I were best friends and got married 8 years later! Been married 13 1/2 years and couldn't be happier!!!!!
__________________ Elizabeth and Bella Official Members of the CRAZY Club and the PINK Club! Bella 's dressing up! |
01-22-2008, 10:06 AM | #12 |
I Love My Lil' Punkin's Donating Member | YES! There is this guy that I was BEST FRIENDS with (we are still friends today) and we BOTH always thought that we would end up together. He would tell me all of his problems, I would tell him mine. We talked ALL the time, and he always came over to my house and we would always go do things together. We dated for a while also - but I also dated 2 of his cousins LOL. Anyway, when I met my husband, I just didn't feel right talking to another guy all the time (didn't want my hubby to get jealous or think that anything was going on - mind you, this was way back as my husband and I have been married for almost 7 years). Anyway...my friend and I hadn't talked in the longest time because of this, and when he found out that I got married - he was CRUSHED. Once I finally talked to him, he explained to me how it made him feel and that he always, always thought that we would end up getting married down the road. He was just so sweet, and I felt so bad We still talk (my husband knows this) but he is married now and just had a new baby in November. I was actually invited to their wedding but didn't go because I honestly thought that it would just be too weird for me. Anyway, my friend always jokes around and tells me that IF anything ever happens between my husband and I, and he with his wife - that I am the first person that he will call. He said that he wouldn't ever let me go again. He is just so sweet. He did say that his wife reminds him alot of me though, and that is one reason he started dating her - which I'm assuming was just a joke lol, but with him, you never know! I know that may sound a little weird, but he DOES love his wife and I am completely in love with my husband. He is just giving the "IF" factor - but of course neither of us wish bad on one anothers marriage. Anyhow, sorry that was so long LOL. Just wanted to explain that I know exactly how you feel cause I have been there before I say keep talking to him and see where things go....you honestly NEVER KNOW what might happen!
__________________ Mommy Loves Stedman and Tatum! They have us wrapped around their little paws! Last edited by stedmansmommy; 01-22-2008 at 10:10 AM. |
01-22-2008, 10:29 AM | #13 |
Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Indiana
Posts: 73
| I was wondering the same thing. I have been with my finance for 5-1/2 years. We just do not connect on any level. It has gotten worse over time to the point we barely talk. We work different shifts and just co-exist. I have met someone that I connect with on a very deep level. Nothing has happened. We only talk but get into some of the most interesting conversations. It is kind of weird because I feel totally comfortable around him and talk frequently with his kids. This is something I could never do with the fiance. I feel like a cheater because I enjoy talking about life with someone else!
__________________ Proudly owned by McQueen, but will always love and be owned by Lucy, Abby, Katie and Bob |
01-22-2008, 01:26 PM | #14 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: New Hampshire
Posts: 10,534
| I have found that I become good friends with a guy, like the best of friends, then they get some girlfriend who hates me for whatever reason (jealousy maybe) and basically the guy friend always picks the girlfriend over our friendship bc hes sooo afraid he'll never get another girl to love him. This post brings back some pretty painful male friendship experiences Ive been through. Im still on a guys suck kick today I guess
__________________ “Petting, scratching, and cuddling a dog could be as soothing to the mind and heart as deep meditation and almost as good for the soul as prayer.” ― Dean Koontz |
Bookmarks |
|
|
Thread Tools | |
| |
|
|
SHOP NOW: Amazon :: eBay :: Buy.com :: Newegg :: PetStore :: Petco :: PetSmart