Has there ever been? Has there ever been a guy friend that you have had that you see yourself with in the future. And at a point you are really good friends, and even though you don't date you feel complete with them? I found this guy a few months back, and at first I really liked him and wanted to date him, then I just started talking to him as friends and we have a really good friendship, and every night that we talk it gets deeper and deeper. But hes a guy that I can tell any of my problems to, which was what I was wanting to find.. But then again sometimes they say you will marry your best friend?!! |
Yes I have. My bf is my best friend, we weren't always best friends lol actually we knew each other in hs but i guess were too immature to like each other, so we ended up going to the same college and we became friends and now go out for 2 yrs. I think it's the best thing to have a great friendship with the one you like/love, we have the same friends. My ex, we both had our seperate friends and we had a lot of problems cause of that and other things but i guess its diff. for everyone. |
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Yes I am going through this right now. I have been friends with him for 3 yrs. We are part of the same football club that watches our teams games every Sunday. His wife left him in Aug for a coworker. They were together for 7 yrs and married JUST under a year. Come November, we have been hanging out all the time. He is an amazing person. I cant believe she would leave him. (I used to do her hair too) She is way too materialistic, and she felt he didn't give her enough. All the coach, tiffany and a beautiful house isn't enough? Well whatever.... Hes so cute. The other day he asked me "Would you please consider that if anything happens between us in the future that we wait until I have my marriage annulled?" (he just signed divorce papers too) I said "of course"...he is so respectable. :) Funny thing is...6 months ago i would never have thought of dating him. (He loves the dogs and he doesnt mind I dress them LOL) |
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Its good to hear other stories like this. And who knows if me and this guy will end up dating, but this is starting out how I want me next relationship to start. I want to say I married my best friend! lol, I guess Im crazy. Me and this guy was up last night at midnight talking, and I don't ever stay up that late.. lol.. It just seems each night that we talk we keep getting closer and closer, so hopefully a date might be coming, keeping my fingers crossed. |
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thanks Mizzwanted..he is a great guy. :)We already kissed and we cuddle sometimes, so if the anything more happens, it has to be when hes ready. Not many men like that out there anymore... :) |
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I would, but its just the type of guy he is. Hes already told my friend that he like the old fashion ways where guys ask the girls out.. so maybe sometime soon it will happen. If he really wants to make my day he will ask me out on Valentines Day since Im off and single, but we will just have to see.... Who knows.. this is a guy we're talking about :rolleyes: But after every other guy I talk to I always come back to him its just something there. He doesn't like to party which I don't either so theres something in common with a lot of other things. I just can't explain it to anyone... I just keep my fingers crossed, but I do have to admit hes what I look foward to after a long day at work. :wub: I might tell him that one day, just depends on how our conversations go. |
Yep happened to me...and i married him. |
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Darren and I were best friends and got married 8 years later! :) Been married 13 1/2 years and couldn't be happier!!!!! :wub: :wub: |
YES! There is this guy that I was BEST FRIENDS with (we are still friends today) and we BOTH always thought that we would end up together. He would tell me all of his problems, I would tell him mine. We talked ALL the time, and he always came over to my house and we would always go do things together. We dated for a while also - but I also dated 2 of his cousins :eek: LOL. Anyway, when I met my husband, I just didn't feel right talking to another guy all the time (didn't want my hubby to get jealous or think that anything was going on - mind you, this was way back as my husband and I have been married for almost 7 years). Anyway...my friend and I hadn't talked in the longest time because of this, and when he found out that I got married - he was CRUSHED. Once I finally talked to him, he explained to me how it made him feel and that he always, always thought that we would end up getting married down the road. He was just so sweet, and I felt so bad :( We still talk (my husband knows this) but he is married now and just had a new baby in November. I was actually invited to their wedding but didn't go because I honestly thought that it would just be too weird for me. Anyway, my friend always jokes around and tells me that IF anything ever happens between my husband and I, and he with his wife - that I am the first person that he will call. He said that he wouldn't ever let me go again. He is just so sweet. He did say that his wife reminds him alot of me though, and that is one reason he started dating her - which I'm assuming was just a joke lol, but with him, you never know! :p I know that may sound a little weird, but he DOES love his wife and I am completely in love with my husband. He is just giving the "IF" factor - but of course neither of us wish bad on one anothers marriage. Anyhow, sorry that was so long LOL. Just wanted to explain that I know exactly how you feel cause I have been there before :) I say keep talking to him and see where things go....you honestly NEVER KNOW what might happen! ;) :p |
I was wondering the same thing. I have been with my finance for 5-1/2 years. We just do not connect on any level. It has gotten worse over time to the point we barely talk. We work different shifts and just co-exist. I have met someone that I connect with on a very deep level. Nothing has happened. We only talk but get into some of the most interesting conversations. It is kind of weird because I feel totally comfortable around him and talk frequently with his kids. This is something I could never do with the fiance. I feel like a cheater because I enjoy talking about life with someone else! |
I have found that I become good friends with a guy, like the best of friends, then they get some girlfriend who hates me for whatever reason (jealousy maybe) and basically the guy friend always picks the girlfriend over our friendship bc hes sooo afraid he'll never get another girl to love him. This post brings back some pretty painful male friendship experiences Ive been through. Im still on a guys suck kick today I guess :) :) |
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