[cowgirl5175]

I was wondering the same thing. I have been with my finance for 5-1/2 years. We just do not connect on any level. It has gotten worse over time to the point we barely talk. We work different shifts and just co-exist. I have met someone that I connect with on a very deep level. Nothing has happened. We only talk but get into some of the most interesting conversations. It is kind of weird because I feel totally comfortable around him and talk frequently with his kids. This is something I could never do with the fiance. I feel like a cheater because I enjoy talking about life with someone else!