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No Longer a Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Ontario Canada
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| ![]() Congrats on getting Bella.. She's a real cutie-patootie... ![]() |
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BANNED! Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: USA
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No Longer a Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: INDIANA
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Lexi (my skin daughter) comes first!! My neighbors Bob and Jane who are elderly always adored Maddie, so when this happened they agreed to take her. I was totally heart broken!!!! but what else was there to do. Bob and Jane become extremely attached to Maddie from the get go, They thanked me everyday for her and i visited her a ton. After much thought, we thought we should go ahead and put Lexi on the shots. She's been getting them for almost 2 months, 3 times a week. I had her around dog here and there just to ck, but she still always broke out in a rash. no just a little rash, but it was terrible welt all over rash. (me and lauryn do this with cats) Bob and Jane did say if Maddie got any better then would give Maddie back to us. That was the first day they had her. They had no idea what this little girl was going to do to for them or how they would feel. Jane was always in bed daily almost all day and depress. Maddie has made her so happy that she is out of bed, dressed, gets Maddie dressed and outside on her swing with Maddie and each and EVERY night they take Maddie for yogurt. Bob and Jane both can't believe the joy she has brought to there life and how much they love her. They actually said, she has made them live again. I don't know about you....but regardless of my love for Maddie, I can't take her away from them knowing the good she has done. I wont be that selfish, I will put my feelings aside. I can't explain why this has all happend the way it has, all I know is after much prayer,I feel like taking Maddie from them would be devistating to them I would never forgive myself if there health got worse cause I took Maddie back. This was a family decision by ALL. Lexi started seeing Maddie out and we took her over to visit, and each time, the rash was back. finally we did it and no rash, no nothing, took her around Dan's Dads dog for 4-5 hours and nothing. The allergist said the shots are working and if this continues for a week or longer she would be able to be around doggy's again, but would still have to stay on the shots for over a year. but that they would decline from 3 a week, to 2 then down to 1 a week. So we were going to wait a while, but this little girl has just melted my heart and it just felt right. The doctor has given us the ok first. Knowing what we know about Bob and Jane, I can't take Maddie back, She is adjusted to and it wouldnt be fair to uproot her either. I won't feel the way about Bella that I felt about Macy, cause Maddie isnt dead, their was such a void there thinking she was dead and in the trash somewhere. That was a thought I just couldnt get out of my mind. Maddie is alive and very well, making two people very happy. She has brought sooo much joy to many. Maybe you would go take your doggy away from two elderly people who need her, but I just can't. And giving them another dog isnt an option either. They are too old to go thru all of that, way to fragile. Hopefully Maddie will be mine again someday cause I think she will outlive them. And she's not poor Maddie. Believe me...I love her and everyone that knows me knows how I feel about her. My heart has been crushed!!! Sometimes you just have to put your feelings aside for the good of others. This wasnt an easy decision and I've cried and been depressed about the whole thing. Bella will bring joy to us. I need that again. I'm sorry that you don't understand. Last edited by DENISE517; 06-25-2008 at 05:47 AM. | |
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Donating YT 30K Club Member | ![]() Where are you meeting to pick her up? Anywhere near Gurnee?
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Crazy about Kacee! Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: Kansas
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No Longer a Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: INDIANA
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Loved by Maddie & Libby Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: North Dakota
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| ![]() Hi Denise! I am so thrilled for you! There has been so much sadness and heartache in your life lately and now you'll have a new baby to cuddle with! Don't feel you have to defend yourself to anyone who questions your actions. Just enjoy that new baby and I bet Bella and Maddie will be best of friends! *HUG* This is SOOOO exciting and Bella is adorable!
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![]() How could you compare Macy to Bella? From what Denise knew at that point, Maddie was dead laying in a dump somewhere. Now, she can see Maddie whenever she wants and she KNOWS that Maddie is making those people very happy. This is a very personal decision for her family. I can't stand it when people just can't accept the fact that SOME dogs just don't have a problem being rehomed. Not just you, a large amount of the people on here. I'm sure if Maddie had had a hard time adjusting, Denise would have talked with Bob and Jane about taking her back. Maddie is very well adjusted with Bob and Jane, and I don't know about you, but I feel that taking Maddie away from them would be an incredibly selfish act and I APPLAUD Denise and her family for putting their own heartbreak and feelings aside and doing what is very obviously best for Maddie.
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Izzy's Momma Too! Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Stuart, Florida
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Owned by my yorkies Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Coats, NC
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No Longer A Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: NEW YORK
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Megan, I think you are over reacting just a little bit. YorkieShadow does have a right to her own opinion like everyone else. To be perfectly honest I also can't understand it myself and yes I have followed Maddie's story from the time Denise fell asleep in the yard and woke up to no Maddie. I cried when she found out she was supposedly killed by a car, thown in the trash, I sent a card and contributed to flowers. I cried when she had her dream and cried when she found Maddie at Lewis's house. I cried when she got Macy thinking they are once again happy and I cried when she had to give her up. To not understand something should not be jumped on in a negative manner. This is why I did not post on this thread regarding my feelings. Everyone has to do what is best for them but there are some who just don't understand it. I am going to say it and if I get slammed so be it. If that were my Buddy I would want him back with no questions asked if he could come back into my home. It was, afterall, a temperory thing with the hopes of Lexi getting better. I am not saying anyone is wrong I just do not understand and there is nothing wrong with not understanding something. Why do people get jumped on on this site for saying things in a nice way just because it does not go along with the crowd. It happens much to often. I have been a member for 2yrs purchased from lot's of the vendors made friends and yet I am afraid at times to post my personal thoughts. This is a perfect example of why. If you don't agree with everyone else keep quiet I guess. I wish the best for Denise and family but I just don't understand it and never will. | |
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Loved by Layla Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Canada
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No Longer a Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: INDIANA
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| ![]() Hey guys, lets not turn this into a negative thread....its ok. I don't have any hard feeling towards anyone. Some understand, Some don't...its ok. We live in American with freedom of speach. We will sometimes like what people say, and sometimes we will not. Thats just life and its ok. |
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Donating YT 7000 Club Member | ![]() Carol you have a point but I just don't feel like Denise should have to defend herself with all that she's been through. Especially when Denise has talked a lot about her decision not to get Maddie back. I took it that she was being looked down on for her decision. If that's not what was going on, then I apologize, but that's how I saw it. That's the problem with the internet I guess, you don't hear tone of voice.
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YT 500 Club Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: IN
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| ![]() I think I my family has your Bella's Full Sister? Was her name Pixie before you renamed her? Our Chloe formerly known as Peanut's breeder was named Whitney from Wisconsin. What part of Indiana do you live? PM me maybe we can have play dates ![]()
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