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milliecorrales · 05-10-2005, 11:35 AM

Yorkielover, I posted and replied to your email. I am close by and would love to meet with you and Beau. This is so hard, I cannot imagine being in your position, suffice to say, I too had a child with a dependency problem and he came through it alright, after 8 years of living hell. The serenity prayer saved my life many times. Good luck and Godspeed.

yorkielover_201 · 05-10-2005, 04:42 PM

i would love to have him i love yorkies i have wanted to have one for 3 years now u can email me at yorkielover_2010@yahoo.com

yorkiegal · 05-10-2005, 04:46 PM

my heart goes out to you. i hope that you find peace and that your baby finds a loving home. please know that you are not alone and we are all thinking of you and praying for you.

Mydogkelsey · 05-10-2005, 08:21 PM

Haven't read all of the replies to this post, but after reading your post, I was tearing up myself! Im so sorry to hear your news. We are all here for you...Best of luck.

Mandee · 05-10-2005, 08:32 PM

I live in Reno, NV and I have 2 puppies, I don't know why you have to give him up, but I would love to take him. I will even meet you half way if you can. I love my babies like they came from me, and would gladly take on another. Let me know if you haven't found a home for him.

Yorkies*Forever · 05-10-2005, 11:06 PM

Do you have any family that could take him until you get back on your feet? I know that you don't want to give him up and it would be so much better for both of you if he could still be there when you are ready to take care of him again. When I was going through some of these same things I almost sold my dogs, but then asked my mom to take them at the last minute. I was so glad that she did. She had them for a month before I could even think about taking care of them and even at that I didn't bring them all home for a while.
If that isn't an option then it sounds like there are plenty of people around here that want him. If they don't work out then there are yorkie rescues in your area also (just another option). I hope that things work out one way or another for you and especially your son.

iheartyorkies · 05-11-2005, 02:14 AM

Hi, I can't really add anything to the wonderful posts here except that I will be praying for you and for your son. Please let us know what you decide to do.

YorkieLover9 · 05-11-2005, 08:00 AM

I believe I've found someone from this site to take Beau. He could possibly be going to live with her tonight. My heart is torn. The thought of giving him up and never ever being able to see that little face again in my lifetime is killing me. I asked God last night night to help me, to tell me what to do. I know several of you on here have mentioned foster care. I know what it means, but what happens if my life isn't together in a pre-determined amount of time, what happens to Beau? And what is a pre-determined amount of time for fostering? What would his life be like as a Foster Baby? I'm so mixed up and I'm not sure I'm making a rational decision. We're talking forever here that he would be out of my life. I've wanted a yorkie for so long and I have this darling baby in my life that I've wanted forever it seems, and now he could be gone in just a matter of minutes.

rene · 05-11-2005, 08:14 AM

I'm glad you found someone to take him. Fostering doesn't have to have a pre determined time i'm sure whom ever is going to take him will love him like there own untill you are ready if it be a year or a month. Dose this person live close to you so you can vist him? humm that might be hard. I wish i wasn't moving then i would keep him for you till you are ready to have him back no matter how long that may be. Well i'm sure if it is someone from this site he will be in GREAT hands for how ever long. I wish you and your son and your little Baue all the best and please keep in touch with us and let us know how things are going.

Yorkieluv · 05-11-2005, 08:14 AM

Yorkielover9, I can only imagine what you're going through...I know you're trying to do the right thing for your yorkie. God will help you make the right decision. There are a lot of affordable places that will accept tiny dogs. Also, if at any point in your life you need someone to be there for you and comfort you, now is the time. It might actually be better for you to keep your yorkie. This experience will bond the two of you together. He will always love you, no matter what happens around you. In the midst of any turmoil, our yorkie brings so much joy to our hearts seeming to erase anything negative in our lives.

YorkieLover9 · 05-11-2005, 08:15 AM

The lady that is taking him tonight isn't going to Foster him, she's taking him to be her own. I won't be getting him back, he'll belong to a new family. That's why I was asking about fostering?

YorkieLover9 · 05-11-2005, 08:19 AM

In my search for affordable and allowing pets, I came up with a BIG NO for the past two months. NO NO NO, NO DOGS, NO CATS, NO PETS ALLOWED. That's what I heard over and over on the places I called. I've already paid the deposit on a place that doesn't allow pets because I've run out of time to find something.

Sebastian's Mom · 05-11-2005, 08:19 AM

I am so sorry I talked with my breeder and she has found a few homes for Sebastian as well so tommorrow will be my hard day. My thoughts and prayers are with you today.

lily's mom · 05-11-2005, 08:24 AM

If you are serious about fostering, I would be on cloud nine to be able to care for for your baby for any amount of time. I have lily who sleeps one my bed and thinks she is a princess not a dog. Beau could be our little prince for awhile also sleeping with us and going absolutely everwhere we go. Think about it. If you consider it and want any info about me, let me know. Your life will get back together at some point. I think it would be wonderful for you to celebrate that time with Beau.

YorkieLover9 · 05-11-2005, 08:39 AM

Lily's Mom - thank you. I noticed you live in Missouri and I know you'd be a great mommy, I just was hoping to find someone close to me.

Sebastian's Mom - I'm thinking of you too. It's going to be so hard for both of us to do what we unfortunately need to do right now. I just pray in both our cases that it's the best for our babies. I don't care about my hurt, I am a big girl and I will adjust. I do care about my babies feelings though. What he feels means the most to me.

I know that some will say I'm attaching human emotions to him. I know that he won't know what's going on and I know in just a few days, he will adjust to his new family and his new life. Do you think that dogs (like people) remember their past? Stupid question, I know, but it would help me to know that they don't. Because if he doesn't remember me, then it won't hurt him.

05-10-2005, 11:35 AM	#46
milliecorrales YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 516	Hope that you consider me Yorkielover, I posted and replied to your email. I am close by and would love to meet with you and Beau. This is so hard, I cannot imagine being in your position, suffice to say, I too had a child with a dependency problem and he came through it alright, after 8 years of living hell. The serenity prayer saved my life many times. Good luck and Godspeed.

05-10-2005, 04:46 PM	#48
yorkiegal Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 78	my heart goes out to you. i hope that you find peace and that your baby finds a loving home. please know that you are not alone and we are all thinking of you and praying for you. __________________ Charlie's mom - Charlie February 15th 2003 - September 12th 2007. Gone too soon. We will miss you always.

05-10-2005, 08:21 PM	#49
Mydogkelsey YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Orlando, Fl. Posts: 1,133	Haven't read all of the replies to this post, but after reading your post, I was tearing up myself! Im so sorry to hear your news. We are all here for you...Best of luck. __________________ R.I.P. Amy girl 01/06/06

05-10-2005, 08:32 PM	#50
Mandee Yorkie Yakker Join Date: May 2005 Location: Reno, NV Posts: 51	I live in Reno, NV and I have 2 puppies, I don't know why you have to give him up, but I would love to take him. I will even meet you half way if you can. I love my babies like they came from me, and would gladly take on another. Let me know if you haven't found a home for him. __________________ Mandee Charlie & Lil' Bella

05-11-2005, 02:14 AM	#52
iheartyorkies Boppin' Bo! Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Indiana Posts: 2,719	Hi, I can't really add anything to the wonderful posts here except that I will be praying for you and for your son. Please let us know what you decide to do. __________________ ~~~ i yorkies ~~~ Cynthia Turbo and Suri!

05-10-2005, 04:42 PM	#47
yorkielover_201 BANNED! Join Date: May 2005 Location: flat rock,alabama Posts: 262	i would love to have him i love yorkies i have wanted to have one for 3 years now u can email me at yorkielover_2010@yahoo.com

05-10-2005, 11:06 PM	#51
Yorkies*Forever Yorkie Yakker Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 28	Do you have any family that could take him until you get back on your feet? I know that you don't want to give him up and it would be so much better for both of you if he could still be there when you are ready to take care of him again. When I was going through some of these same things I almost sold my dogs, but then asked my mom to take them at the last minute. I was so glad that she did. She had them for a month before I could even think about taking care of them and even at that I didn't bring them all home for a while. If that isn't an option then it sounds like there are plenty of people around here that want him. If they don't work out then there are yorkie rescues in your area also (just another option). I hope that things work out one way or another for you and especially your son.

05-11-2005, 08:00 AM	#53
YorkieLover9 YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Houston, TX Posts: 556	I believe I've found someone from this site to take Beau. He could possibly be going to live with her tonight. My heart is torn. The thought of giving him up and never ever being able to see that little face again in my lifetime is killing me. I asked God last night night to help me, to tell me what to do. I know several of you on here have mentioned foster care. I know what it means, but what happens if my life isn't together in a pre-determined amount of time, what happens to Beau? And what is a pre-determined amount of time for fostering? What would his life be like as a Foster Baby? I'm so mixed up and I'm not sure I'm making a rational decision. We're talking forever here that he would be out of my life. I've wanted a yorkie for so long and I have this darling baby in my life that I've wanted forever it seems, and now he could be gone in just a matter of minutes.

05-11-2005, 08:14 AM	#54
rene Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Goodyear, AZ Posts: 202	I'm glad you found someone to take him. Fostering doesn't have to have a pre determined time i'm sure whom ever is going to take him will love him like there own untill you are ready if it be a year or a month. Dose this person live close to you so you can vist him? humm that might be hard. I wish i wasn't moving then i would keep him for you till you are ready to have him back no matter how long that may be. Well i'm sure if it is someone from this site he will be in GREAT hands for how ever long. I wish you and your son and your little Baue all the best and please keep in touch with us and let us know how things are going.

05-11-2005, 08:14 AM	#55
Yorkieluv Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: USA Posts: 7,178	Yorkielover9, I can only imagine what you're going through...I know you're trying to do the right thing for your yorkie. God will help you make the right decision. There are a lot of affordable places that will accept tiny dogs. Also, if at any point in your life you need someone to be there for you and comfort you, now is the time. It might actually be better for you to keep your yorkie. This experience will bond the two of you together. He will always love you, no matter what happens around you. In the midst of any turmoil, our yorkie brings so much joy to our hearts seeming to erase anything negative in our lives.

05-11-2005, 08:15 AM	#56
YorkieLover9 YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Houston, TX Posts: 556	The lady that is taking him tonight isn't going to Foster him, she's taking him to be her own. I won't be getting him back, he'll belong to a new family. That's why I was asking about fostering?

05-11-2005, 08:19 AM	#57
YorkieLover9 YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Houston, TX Posts: 556	In my search for affordable and allowing pets, I came up with a BIG NO for the past two months. NO NO NO, NO DOGS, NO CATS, NO PETS ALLOWED. That's what I heard over and over on the places I called. I've already paid the deposit on a place that doesn't allow pets because I've run out of time to find something.

05-11-2005, 08:19 AM	#58
Sebastian's Mom YT Addict Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Fort Walton Beach, Florida Posts: 319	I am so sorry I talked with my breeder and she has found a few homes for Sebastian as well so tommorrow will be my hard day. My thoughts and prayers are with you today.

05-11-2005, 08:24 AM	#59
lily's mom Lily Loves Maximus Donating Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Missouri Posts: 2,633	If you are serious about fostering, I would be on cloud nine to be able to care for for your baby for any amount of time. I have lily who sleeps one my bed and thinks she is a princess not a dog. Beau could be our little prince for awhile also sleeping with us and going absolutely everwhere we go. Think about it. If you consider it and want any info about me, let me know. Your life will get back together at some point. I think it would be wonderful for you to celebrate that time with Beau. __________________ Lily and Dawn

05-11-2005, 08:39 AM	#60
YorkieLover9 YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Houston, TX Posts: 556	Lily's Mom - thank you. I noticed you live in Missouri and I know you'd be a great mommy, I just was hoping to find someone close to me. Sebastian's Mom - I'm thinking of you too. It's going to be so hard for both of us to do what we unfortunately need to do right now. I just pray in both our cases that it's the best for our babies. I don't care about my hurt, I am a big girl and I will adjust. I do care about my babies feelings though. What he feels means the most to me. I know that some will say I'm attaching human emotions to him. I know that he won't know what's going on and I know in just a few days, he will adjust to his new family and his new life. Do you think that dogs (like people) remember their past? Stupid question, I know, but it would help me to know that they don't. Because if he doesn't remember me, then it won't hurt him.