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I Love My Yorkies Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Indianapolis, Indiana
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| ![]() Thats really too bad that your mother in law has you pay to watch your kids. My mother in law and father in law love to keep my daughter and usually have her over once or twice a month to stay at their house. We all go to amusement parks together and other things. She is missing out on so much by being that way.
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Donating YT 12K Club Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Council Bluffs Iowa
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![]() Me too and I'd let her know that I did not need her permission nor her help to get this puppy. I'm a very independent person. If you think it's too much for a one day trip, make it two days. | |
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YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Indiana
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| ![]() I know how you feel...after my husband and i had been together for 4 years she came to me and said she accpets me now..she can tell i've changed and settled..lol..i still sit at home the same as I did when I got with him. She also at one time told me I was a burden to him..when i got with him i owned a tanning salon..she also said it bothered her that i had been married before..well so had she..so now she says she likes me and i could care less now...I've never said one hateful thing to her or ever disrespected her but ooohhh i'd sure love to lol..none of our kids have grandparents..none of them do anything with them..it hurts me but i can't change it...i just look at it this way..they are better off anyway..either way i'm sorry for you..i know what yoiu are going through..i couldn't get a babysitter if i was dead and on my way to be burried..and that is no joke..
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Donating YT 9000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: North Carolina :)
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| ![]() I would not give in! I'm sure you will be able to find someone to watch the kids. How about friends who have to go to the same practice? Or you can talk to the Coach. Our son is a Water Polo Coach, he always has his kids over here. Heck, my house is always full of kids, have them jump on a plane, They can spend Spring Break with me. ![]() ![]()
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YT Addict Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: ironton, ohio
Posts: 262
| ![]() Thank you guys for all the kind words of encouragment. I am gonna make all of you honorary Aunts/Uncles to my kids and furbabies. I wish I had a close family like some of you. My situation is alot like Tashasmom: It takes a miracle for me to get her to watch them. Mustangbee: I am sure they would love to spend their spring break with you in Cali (so would I).To answer the question about hubby: He is the one driving. I only go to the MIL for help because my kids dont have other grandparents around here. I was raised by my grandma and my mom lives in California. I am thinking about moving out there, when I am done with school, so we can be closer to my mom and aunt. They are the only real family I have and they love my children. My mom gets soooo upset when the MIL does this stuff, she called and cussed her out one time but it never helps in the long run. Maybe a move to Cali is in my future. We will see. |
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My Yorkie Angels Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Plantation Florida
Posts: 2,889
| ![]() hope everything goes ok, you are in my thoughts, keep the faith, and bythe way you are definatly suppose to have another yorkie ![]() Hugs to you
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My2Pearls Chelsey & Chanel YT Donator Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: N
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| ![]() Some M I L need a firecracker up there where the sun doesnt shine!!!! DON'T let that woman discourage you from getting your baby... she needs a life. Show her that you don't need her for ANYTHING...ask her NOTHING. If i had a M I L like that i sure as h*ll would ignore her existence! Tell your M I L you lovingly paid a good price for your new beautiful baby, everything that's beautiful is expensive. You get to look at her "ugly mug" for free ![]() ![]()
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YT Addict Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: florida
Posts: 348
| ![]() your mother in law is a miserable person who in turn wants everyone around her to be miserable because no one wants to be alone. If she dislikes you as much as you feel she does and is really mean to you, you might not want her to keep your children because she's probably not very nice to them either..... ![]() In the mean time could you leave really early in the morning or the night before then you could make it back in time before practice.
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YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Midwest
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YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Midwest
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![]() At this point...I'd count your blessings that she has limited contact with your kids...who needs "Cruella" in their lives? Francie | |
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Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Edmond, OK
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Owned by my Furbabies Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Ohio
Posts: 1,482
| ![]() Oh my goodness what a real winner your MIL is....Unreal ![]() She must be a miserable person to do you like this. I say family is family and there should not be one prefered over the other in any circumstance. I am sure Renotta ( the breeder )will work something out with you as she is a really nice person and she does have understanding. ![]() If I were you I would have no more to do with the MIL..That would serve her right and hey I would move to be with your family if I were you as they sound like they care. Good Luck and keep us posted. ![]() ![]() |
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Luvs Lulu Donating Member | ![]() Honey you were meant to have your baby. Now your mil needs a real slap in the head. I think it's a great idea to work out the detail with another parent. I am sure that you have done a ton of car pooling for others so I am sure that someone will be glad to do it in return. Your mil sounds like my mother. My mil was the best...thank god and made up for my mother. What you or your hubby decided to pay for that furbaby is for sure none of her beeswax. When I got Lex and my husband asked I told him the same thing. I wouldnt' have spent it if I didn't have it. You have a right as a mother and wife to require some creature comforts and if that baby makes you happy then you for sure deserve it. So piss on her..literally. Maybe your new pup will do that for you ![]() As for her making excuses to not watch her grandchildren...she is the lowest. So much for a grandmother's unconditonal love. Sad that she would punish her son's children that way to punish you. Good luck and I hope you get a ton of enjoyment from your new baby. I am sure that will make her even madder when she sees how you managed to be wonder woman and pull it all off. ![]()
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YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: Yukon, ok
Posts: 2,885
| ![]() I'm sorry your MIL is like that!!!! How awful!!
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YT Addict Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: ironton, ohio
Posts: 262
| ![]() Oh you guys are so sweet. I even got a PM from a very sweet person offering to get him for me ( I dont want to embarrass her by saying her name without permission) . You guys have all shocked me with your kindness! I am taken away by all the generosity. I have all the motivation I need from you guys and for all that you have done for me to make me feel better...I will make sure I get my baby (somehow). And i will post all the pictures in the world so all of his Aunts and Uncles on YT can see him. Oh... why couldnt I have you all for family! My kids would love a bunch of aunts, uncles, cousins and fur-cousins. |
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