[Tashasmom]

I know how you feel...after my husband and i had been together for 4 years she came to me and said she accpets me now..she can tell i've changed and settled..lol..i still sit at home the same as I did when I got with him. She also at one time told me I was a burden to him..when i got with him i owned a tanning salon..she also said it bothered her that i had been married before..well so had she..so now she says she likes me and i could care less now...I've never said one hateful thing to her or ever disrespected her but ooohhh i'd sure love to lol..none of our kids have grandparents..none of them do anything with them..it hurts me but i can't change it...i just look at it this way..they are better off anyway..either way i'm sorry for you..i know what yoiu are going through..i couldn't get a babysitter if i was dead and on my way to be burried..and that is no joke..