Cody in ER vet

[matese]

Originally Posted by Lovetodream88

Ok you want to put the gloves on and attack because that is what you did when I never called you a lier and if I wanted to I would have! Callie had arthritis and was not in severe pain and was on a real daily pain medicine I just added in the CBD oil! You crossed a line by saying that! When you know very little! At least I never gave her toxic herbs! You know very well where you can go! Do not message me ever again or ever request my help or opinion. You just want to bully other people on here and show how hypocritical you are! There is a special place for people like you! You knew by taking a hit using Callie that it would sting and that is a very very evil thing to do!

Originally Posted by Lovetodream88

You crossed a line by bring up my dead dog who was my whole world! You intended to cause upset with that and it was a hateful thing to do! To purposely hit me in a weak spot is something that is a type of evil even I can not understand! You can dislike my opinion and even hate it but you DO NOT bring my dogs into it let alone my passed one! I am so extremely hurt and angry! So uncalled for!

You can’t outrightly call anyone a liar, it’s against the rules “no name calling” you can get suspended and you know this, so you danced around it. You opened the door by criticizing what you call my bad judgement in my decision to continue this herb, that was your opinion. I don’t know why you’re getting all bent outta shape because I gave my “opinion” in what I felt was bad judgement on your part by keeping a sick dog that you knew only had days to live, I didn’t comment on that post because that was your decision. I didn’t push my opinions on you to do what was right by Callie, your decision. Not meant to be evil or hypocritical Just my opinion. Why is it ok for you to make blanket statements when you don’t know what ppl do, accusing me of not researching that herb, but not ok if someone gives you their opinion. We all have to live with the decisions we make in life, and the lives of our fur babies. A bully I am not lol, Ann got rid of all the YT bully. I give my opinion on what I thought was bad judgement on your part and you call that bullying lol.
You being a connoisseur on diarrhea I messaged you asking “Do you know when it's time to stop the chicken and rice and start feeding kibble again” a question you could not answer. But don’t worry Taylor, I will not be messaging you again, and I never messaged you asking for your help on anything ever.
There were no “gloves on” on my part, not meant to be that way, but that’s the way you took it. I do resent you calling me a bully and being a hypocritical person, more name calling, not allowed, but I will let that slide, I have very broad shoulders and I do not pout. Since you feel I am this type of person no sense in keeping me on you FB page either, no hurt feelings on my part.
You see how my thread ended up, this is the reason why ppl do not want to post or ask questions on YT. I was hesitant to post about Cody’s injury, and the herbs, I knew you would badger me about the herbs, I knew it would end this way. You cannot always be right, and pout when someone gives you their opinion what they feel was poor or bad judgement on your part. Then you twist things around and this is how things end up, a battle ground.
I will continue with updates on Cody’s herb treatments, I am sure there are many ppl that are interested in this treatment.

[Lovetodream88]

Originally Posted by matese

You can’t outrightly call anyone a liar, it’s against the rules “no name calling” you can get suspended and you know this, so you danced around it. You opened the door by criticizing what you call my bad judgement in my decision to continue this herb, that was your opinion. I don’t know why you’re getting all bent outta shape because I gave my “opinion” in what I felt was bad judgement on your part by keeping a sick dog that you knew only had days to live, I didn’t comment on that post because that was your decision. I didn’t push my opinions on you to do what was right by Callie, your decision. Not meant to be evil or hypocritical Just my opinion. Why is it ok for you to make blanket statements when you don’t know what ppl do, accusing me of not researching that herb, but not ok if someone gives you their opinion. We all have to live with the decisions we make in life, and the lives of our fur babies. A bully I am not lol, Ann got rid of all the YT bully. I give my opinion on what I thought was bad judgement on your part and you call that bullying lol.
You being a connoisseur on diarrhea I messaged you asking “Do you know when it's time to stop the chicken and rice and start feeding kibble again” a question you could not answer. But don’t worry Taylor, I will not be messaging you again, and I never messaged you asking for your help on anything ever.
There were no “gloves on” on my part, not meant to be that way, but that’s the way you took it. I do resent you calling me a bully and being a hypocritical person, more name calling, not allowed, but I will let that slide, I have very broad shoulders and I do not pout. Since you feel I am this type of person no sense in keeping me on you FB page either, no hurt feelings on my part.
You see how my thread ended up, this is the reason why ppl do not want to post or ask questions on YT. I was hesitant to post about Cody’s injury, and the herbs, I knew you would badger me about the herbs, I knew it would end this way. You cannot always be right, and pout when someone gives you their opinion what they feel was poor or bad judgement on your part. Then you twist things around and this is how things end up, a battle ground.
I will continue with updates on Cody’s herb treatments, I am sure there are many ppl that are interested in this treatment.

You put words in my mouth that I did not say nor did I mean those things either. I never said you were a liar! No where did I intend for you to see me as calling you liar! I never made judgement just gave my opinion and I never attacked you personally like that. You did it on purpose and its disgusting! You have no idea how Callie's last days were! She was VERY happy and not suffering! What you did actually crossed a line and was pure intended evil! Don't play a different game out here in this thread then you are playing in PM's with me! You are not telling the truth I did tell you when to stop the chicken and rice saying I didn't know is a complete lie! Don't worry I already deleted you from facebook and blocked you! DISGUSTING!

[Lovetodream88]

Originally Posted by matese

You can’t outrightly call anyone a liar, it’s against the rules “no name calling” you can get suspended and you know this, so you danced around it. You opened the door by criticizing what you call my bad judgement in my decision to continue this herb, that was your opinion. I don’t know why you’re getting all bent outta shape because I gave my “opinion” in what I felt was bad judgement on your part by keeping a sick dog that you knew only had days to live, I didn’t comment on that post because that was your decision. I didn’t push my opinions on you to do what was right by Callie, your decision. Not meant to be evil or hypocritical Just my opinion. Why is it ok for you to make blanket statements when you don’t know what ppl do, accusing me of not researching that herb, but not ok if someone gives you their opinion. We all have to live with the decisions we make in life, and the lives of our fur babies. A bully I am not lol, Ann got rid of all the YT bully. I give my opinion on what I thought was bad judgement on your part and you call that bullying lol.
You being a connoisseur on diarrhea I messaged you asking “Do you know when it's time to stop the chicken and rice and start feeding kibble again” a question you could not answer. But don’t worry Taylor, I will not be messaging you again, and I never messaged you asking for your help on anything ever.
There were no “gloves on” on my part, not meant to be that way, but that’s the way you took it. I do resent you calling me a bully and being a hypocritical person, more name calling, not allowed, but I will let that slide, I have very broad shoulders and I do not pout. Since you feel I am this type of person no sense in keeping me on you FB page either, no hurt feelings on my part.
You see how my thread ended up, this is the reason why ppl do not want to post or ask questions on YT. I was hesitant to post about Cody’s injury, and the herbs, I knew you would badger me about the herbs, I knew it would end this way. You cannot always be right, and pout when someone gives you their opinion what they feel was poor or bad judgement on your part. Then you twist things around and this is how things end up, a battle ground.
I will continue with updates on Cody’s herb treatments, I am sure there are many ppl that are interested in this treatment.

To think I stood up for you when someone attacked you and then you go and completely cross the line with a very hurtful and evil attack to damage and hurt me. I just can not fathom that. I am an extremely loyal person and I guess I expect others to be that way as well. The worst thing anyone could ever do to me is what you just did.

To everyone else who is thinking this is ok. I'm sorry for whatever I have done to you to make you hate me so very much to think hurting another person like this is ok. If anyone has any questions about Callie and her last days feel free to message me. She did not suffer and was fully mobile, eating, drinking and even playing with toys which is what made the decision so difficult but I wanted to do it to early rather then to late! She was my life and I would never ever let her suffer. Please don't believe deceitful nasty lies about me but come to me if you have questions.

[matese]

Lets keep his thread as it was meant to be Codys ER. This is not a battle ground for your pouting.

[Jkpal]

Originally Posted by Lovetodream88

I feel the same way as you especially after the stuff I read. I just really don’t think it’s safe.

I agree! Let Cody get back on track; he is obviously feeling pretty good if he wants to play...and once he's back on his chow, watch out! Can you play a controlled, rolling kinda fetch or is your little Codiak Bear's fetch game full-tilt all the time?!! I am sooo relieved he is doing better--and am sure he will continue to improve daily...

Follow your instincts, Matese. That is what will work for you both!

[Lovetodream88]

Originally Posted by matese

Lets keep his thread as it was meant to be Codys ER. This is not a battle ground for your pouting.

I’m not pouting. What you said was cruel and cold and crossed a line. I certainly hope others can see that. I also hope people are extremely careful with the information they post here because people will twist things and make up lies to hurt you on purpose especially if they know it’s an extremely hard subject. I’m not sure why people are that cruel. I spent all night crying myself to sleep not understanding how someone could do something so straight out cruel. I would never ever cross that line with someone ever. A difference of opinion is one thing but attacking something so personal and making things up about that is cruel. You will never tell the truth about the herbs now anyway.

[matese]

Cody gets to rambunctious when playing,even if it's just rolling a ball, he fetches it then pounces on and off things. I'm keeping him as calm as possible but cannot control his jumping on and off the sofa unless I harness him and leash him to me. He is still not fully recovered. Some time back I had a bench made for him that is 20 inches high including the cushion that's at the window where he can sit to look out. Since his injury he has not tried to jump up on it. Yesterday he went to it, looked at it, then turned away, this shows me he cannot make that jump, yet, my bed is 27 inches high and he will jump on that when it's bedtime, and in the mornings he will jump on and off until my feet hit the floor. I keep the bedroom door closed in the daytime to keep him from jumping on it.

My vet will let me know when it's ok to resume normal activity, until then I do the best I can to keep him calm.

I always follow my instincts, they have always worked for me in that past.
Thank you Dana for your well wishes (((hugs)))

[Jkpal]

[QUOTE=matese;4816817]Cody gets to rambunctious when playing,even if it's just rolling a ball, he fetches it then pounces on and off things. I'm keeping him as calm as possible but cannot control his jumping on and off the sofa unless I harness him and leash him to me. He is still not fully recovered. Some time back I had a bench made for him that is 20 inches high including the cushion that's at the window where he can sit to look out. Since his injury he has not tried to jump up on it. Yesterday he went to it, looked at it, then turned away, this shows me he cannot make that jump, yet, my bed is 27 inches high and he will jump on that when it's bedtime, and in the mornings he will jump on and off until my feet hit the floor. I keep the bedroom door closed in the daytime to keep him from jumping on it.

My vet will let me know when it's ok to resume normal activity, until then I do the best I can to keep him calm. Thank you Dana for your well wishes (((hugs)))

These little goofballs of ours just go 90 at will and good luck to us in trying to temper that speed and enthusiasm!!

Big hugs and smooches back, Mzz Joan! I think instincts are our best friends and only wish I had learned to listen to them earlier in my life! I trust you and have done well learning from you; and for that I am deeply grateful. You are one of my best unmet friends...!!

[matese]

LOL yes, they go from 0 to 60 in 30 seconds. When my girls reached 10 years old their speed slowed down enough that I could capture them if they got loose. I just love the yorkie breed even with their selective hearing lol and naughty mischievous ways, that's what make a yorkie special lol .
I learned a long time ago, to always follow your gut feeling.
And thank you Dana for your kind words

[Wylie's Mom]

I doubt I'm the only one reading this thread who wishes there was a rewind button for real life. It's so hard not to lash out when we're hurting, no matter the reason -- been there myself.

The only thing to do now is a cease-fire before anything else is said that can't be erased or that will do more damage. I know it can be so hard to step away when the impulse is to launch whatever wants to be launched. But step away anyway.

[Britster]

I'm going to keep my mouth shut on some of these unnecessary comments on this thread. Personal digs are never something I think are kind to bring up.

Can I just ask a simple question that maybe I missed? Cody is wanting to play again and is acting normal? Is he acting in pain? If not, why is he still on meds?

Jackson had a back issue possibly two weeks ago. After jumping in the pool (like he does almost every night) I think he tweaked something. Woke up very sore and uncomfortable. I got him to our vet within 3 hours. She gave me Gabapentin and Metacam. I did one dose of each for pain and inflammation. The next day he was 1000% fine and back to normal. So I stopped all medications (he has tummy issues as well so if he's back to normal, I'd prefer to take him off any thing that could potentially upset his stomach) and just tried to keep him fairly chill for a few days (no jumping in the pool or the car etc like he usually does). After a week, he was back to his normal self.

What is the motive or reason behind keeping him on herbs or medications if he is wanting to play again - he obviously feels better? I am just confused.

[aweitzm1]

Joan - I am hoping Cody is improving today.

I am not going to comment on any of the personal issues as I value both Matese and Lovetodream88 opinions as both have given me wonderful advice for my own pups and think both of you are great fur mommies.

[ladyjane]

Originally Posted by matese

Read entire threads before you start your drama. I was just getting warmed up.

OK this is where I am stopping my reading. I started reading and while my mind was blown about the posts regarding what your vet does, it was further blown by this post. This entire thread is honestly hard to read...wordy posts that I could barely sort through. No disrespect to anyone...it was just hard for me to get to the bottom of what was going on.

First off, I seriously doubt Cody was hurt from running around. You say he jumps a lot. I would work on stopping that with ramps and stairs. My guess is that was what hurt him....jumping down onto a hard floor. Of course just my guess. I have had some wild pups in my life and none have been hurt from running in the yard other than perhaps a torn CCL.

The main thing I am going to suggest is that you look into another vet since it seems you have to spend more time speaking to techs than the vet. I would not spend two cents in that place if I had to lie to get my dog seen by a vet. Of course in a normal practice IF it were truly an emergency, there would be no reason to lie. The practice you refer to is not what I am used to. I call, state the problem and IF the person I am speaking to says there are no appointments and I think it could be emergent, I ask them to ask the vet. Usually the vet will just say fit me in....OR at the least she will get on the phone and talk to me about my pup.

If a vet treated my pup without discussing treatment with me I would blow up.....that your vet did a chriropractic adjustment and you were informed by the tech, blew my mind.

When I go to the vet I park, call and let them know I am there.
The tech comes out and I brief him/her on why I am there.
Usually within about 10 minutes or so, my vet calls and lets me know what she sees and we discuss necessary treatments.
There is NO difference in care other than my not being in the building during exam and treatment. No big deal to me. I trust my vet explicitly.

I am going to scan the rest later when I have time. I just HAD to say something at this point. If you love your vet...that's great. I personally would not be happy.

[ladyjane]

Originally Posted by Wylie's Mom

I doubt I'm the only one reading this thread who wishes there was a rewind button for real life. It's so hard not to lash out when we're hurting, no matter the reason -- been there myself.

The only thing to do now is a cease-fire before anything else is said that can't be erased or that will do more damage. I know it can be so hard to step away when the impulse is to launch whatever wants to be launched. But step away anyway.

How nice to see you!!! <3

[ladyjane]

Originally Posted by Britster

I'm going to keep my mouth shut on some of these unnecessary comments on this thread. Personal digs are never something I think are kind to bring up.

Can I just ask a simple question that maybe I missed? Cody is wanting to play again and is acting normal? Is he acting in pain? If not, why is he still on meds?

Jackson had a back issue possibly two weeks ago. After jumping in the pool (like he does almost every night) I think he tweaked something. Woke up very sore and uncomfortable. I got him to our vet within 3 hours. She gave me Gabapentin and Metacam. I did one dose of each for pain and inflammation. The next day he was 1000% fine and back to normal. So I stopped all medications (he has tummy issues as well so if he's back to normal, I'd prefer to take him off any thing that could potentially upset his stomach) and just tried to keep him fairly chill for a few days (no jumping in the pool or the car etc like he usually does). After a week, he was back to his normal self.

What is the motive or reason behind keeping him on herbs or medications if he is wanting to play again - he obviously feels better? I am just confused.

That makes two of us. I stopped at the beginning, then skipped to the end. Sounds like Cody is better.....surely hope so.