I doubt I'm the only one reading this thread who wishes there was a rewind button for real life. It's so hard not to lash out when we're hurting, no matter the reason -- been there myself.   
The only thing to do now is a cease-fire before anything else is said that can't be erased or that will do more damage. I know it can be so hard to step away when the impulse is to launch whatever wants to be launched. But step away anyway.     
				__________________  ~ A friend told me I was delusional. I nearly fell off my unicorn.  ~    °¨¨¨°ºOº°¨¨¨° Ann | Pfeiffer | Marcel Verdel Purcell | Wylie | Artie  °¨¨¨°ºOº°¨¨¨°      |