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Old 04-30-2015, 11:41 AM   #46
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Maybe this will help explain it better Autism-Symptoms
This also What is Asperger's Syndrome? Symptoms, tests, Causes, Treatments
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I appreciate the link however I don't need to research it. If this is something you have you may want to consider working on cause and effect behaviors.
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Or you could have said "thanks for posting but that article seems way off to me".

Perhaps I'm in my fantasy land.
I get that, I just said what was coming out of my mouth after looking at it and thinking hard about it I understand that was not the right way to say it. I'm not good at wording things and that's why I think sometimes it gets taken wrong. I swear I did not intend for it to be mean or an attack on anyone.
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I get that, I just said what was coming out of my mouth after looking at it and thinking hard about it I understand that was not the right way to say it. I'm not good at wording things and that's why I think sometimes it gets taken wrong. I swear I did not intend for it to be mean or an attack on anyone.
I believe you. Just slow down a little. Next time put yourself in the OPs position.
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I appreciate the link however I don't need to research it. If this is something you have you may want to consider working on cause and effect behaviors.
I understand but I'm at a stand still because I am unaware of what kind of doctor I need to go to, to get a formal diagnoses so I can look for a person who does the kind of therapy I need. There's more to it and other things I need to work on with it too but I don't even know where to start. I also really don't want to go to DC or Baltimore for it.
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I appreciate the link however I don't need to research it. If this is something you have you may want to consider working on cause and effect behaviors.
It wasn't just for you but really everyone.
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Taylor, one of the hardest things for people on the spectrum is to know what social behaviors are appropriate and how they are received by others. I think Ann is wanting you to "get" something you can't get. I hope we all can learn more tolerance for one another, every one of us!
Having worked w/ Autistic adults for 5 years when I lived in Denver, I don't think this is accurate. I've never met an autistic adult, at any place on the spectrum, who had selective feelings about feelings. They either had them, and therefore could also recognize them -or- didn't really have any and therefore could not recognize them. I didn't meet any who had it both ways.

As far as tolerance, yes, of all people Taylor should understand tolerance as more than a fair share has been given her here at YT. We're asking that she also give that to others in return.

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I think there's a difference between "getting it" and "owning your actions". If Taylor can start a thought by saying I'm probably going to get banned for replying but I do feel it's important to defend myself then she's also capable of thinking I'm probably going to upset the OP by replying but I feel it's important to state my opinion. Perhaps someone who has an undiagnosed, but self assumed possible mental illness should slow themselves down a little in the thought/action process.

If a thread was created that was inviting people to read an article about how delicious dogs taste (an outrageous example) I would probably think to myself "that OP is crazy" and not involved myself and click the next thread. Why is the involvement so necessary to those who don't agree with the original post or the article the person posted?
Like you, I also don't understand what you notice in the first paragraph here. You either get subtleties or you don't, but you can't really have it both ways.

I should also note, as far as illnesses that people have here at YT -- it is *not* YT's responsibility or goal to keep track of and make exceptions as a result of a known or unknown, diagnosed or undiagnosed illness. People need to behave decently here no matter what, period. We won't make exceptions for that.
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Having worked w/ Autistic adults for 5 years when I lived in Denver, I don't think this is accurate. I've never met an autistic adult, at any place on the spectrum, who had selective feelings about feelings. They either had them, and therefore could also recognize them -or- didn't really have any and therefore could not recognize them. I didn't meet any who had it both ways.

As far as tolerance, yes, of all people Taylor should understand tolerance as more than a fair share has been given her here at YT. We're asking that she also give that to others in return.



Like you, I also don't understand what you notice in the first paragraph here. You either get subtleties or you don't, but you can't really have it both ways.

I should also note, as far as illnesses that people have here at YT -- it is *not* YT's responsibility or goal to keep track of and make exceptions as a result of a known or unknown, diagnosed or undiagnosed illness. People need to behave decently here no matter what, period. We won't make exceptions for that.
I'm not sure I understand the comments to Cathy's post? Are you saying I'm lying? I'm not an idiot I do try to learn how I'm supposed to do things and what is expect of people but the more tired I get the less I am good at doing what I am "supposed" to do. I don't lie and am not lying I swear to that. I have even said I get it I messed up it was just what came out of my mouth and I was unable to see it has a big deal or really a problem. After the comments and having time to think about it and hear and see ways I could have done it I get it. It's just some times the best way to help me is to not get me so defensive because then I shut down. I don't expect special rules or to get away with everything. Sometimes I just need like a ramp a mental ramp. I'm not trying to just make excuses I am just trying to explain it because I'm not an evil person.
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I think Ann's post confused you. I don't think anyone here thinks you are a bad person.
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I'm not sure I understand the comments to Cathy's post? Are you saying I'm lying? I'm not an idiot I do try to learn how I'm supposed to do things and what is expect of people but the more tired I get the less I am good at doing what I am "supposed" to do. I don't lie and am not lying I swear to that. I have even said I get it I messed up it was just what came out of my mouth and I was unable to see it has a big deal or really a problem. After the comments and having time to think about it and hear and see ways I could have done it I get it. It's just some times the best way to help me is to not get me so defensive because then I shut down. I don't expect special rules or to get away with everything. Sometimes I just need like a ramp a mental ramp. I'm not trying to just make excuses I am just trying to explain it because I'm not an evil person.
No one said anywhere that you're a liar. No one said anywhere that you're an "evil person". This is coming from your own head, Taylor, not from what people are saying. You're reading wayyy into things. You've said so many times that you only think in black and white, so I don't understand why you're now reading into things that aren't being said. I don't think it's going to be helpful or fruitful to put words in people's mouths here.
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No one said anywhere that you're a liar. No one said anywhere that you're an "evil person". This is coming from your own head, Taylor, not from what people are saying. You're reading wayyy into things. You've said so many times that you only think in black and white, so I don't understand why you're now reading into things that aren't being said. I don't think it's going to be helpful or fruitful to put words in people's mouths here.
I'm not trying to do that at all I was just confused by your post. I don't think anyone has said I'm evil I just kinda feel like that is what people might think.
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It's probably best we close this as it's gotten completely off topic and it doesn't appear it will go back on topic again.

In a nutshell, let it be known that YT welcomes its members to post here, and that we all need to be understanding toward what other people may find helpful and interesting -- we don't need to stand in judgment of what others want to post about or be derogatory about the information shared or the source itself. We need to be decent and supportive, or just don't post at all, end of story.
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