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Marie · 12-05-2005, 10:12 AM

Robbie, Im so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathies. RIP Little Rio. I know is so hard but don't blame yourself. Your other Yorkies and pups need you. We are here for you.

YorkieRose · 12-05-2005, 10:40 AM

Don't beat yourself up about not doing any xray. Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't.
It is a learning experince. Always have an after whelping vet check and oxy shot. If there are any retained placenta or pups, this will greatly help Many vets are wonderful at palpiating a "left" over pup. Take her temp for are least 5 days after. Blot the discharge each AM/PM..notice any color changes and smell..infection has a distinct smell..and don't blame yourself when these things happen.

Prince Marley · 12-05-2005, 10:46 AM

That's so sad....

....im so sorry!

sneri13 · 12-05-2005, 10:52 AM

My heart goes out to you. I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your babies in my prayers.

skatr45s · 12-05-2005, 10:53 AM

I am so very sorry. Just remember that she will always love you. And you will always be keeping her in your heart. Okay your prayers are with us. I know how hard it is too lose one of your Yorkies. I had one his name was bandit. And He died a couple of years ago. It is very easy too get attached to your Yokie. It is amazing how easy it is to fall in love with them. If you ever need someone to taslk to just call on me. I will be here.

yorkiemom1970 · 12-05-2005, 11:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by YorkieRose

Don't beat yourself up about not doing any xray. Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't.
It is a learning experince. Always have an after whelping vet check and oxy shot. If there are any retained placenta or pups, this will greatly help Many vets are wonderful at palpiating a "left" over pup. Take her temp for are least 5 days after. Blot the discharge each AM/PM..notice any color changes and smell..infection has a distinct smell..and don't blame yourself when these things happen.

First off, let me say thank you to EVERY ONE for your kind words and encouragment. It means so much to me.

Pat, she did have an oxy injection, after the 5th pup.

Again, thank you Pat and everyone. You all are giving me strength i didnt have 1 day ago.

kindness_001 · 12-05-2005, 11:19 AM

Robbie,
God says all things work for the good of those that love the Lord. and I do know when He shuts a door He opens a window. Watch for that window. I'm praying for you and i know He will comfort you.

red98vett · 12-05-2005, 11:40 AM

Robbie...Your good friend Melissa (Annadoodle) asked me to post this for you to see...It's Sophie taken yesterday with her daugher.....

Sophie is one of Rio's puppies from her first litter. Melissa says Sophie looks very much like her mom.....

I know she wants to help cheer you up..... and this is why you and all our breeders are so important - Look at these happy faces ........

and again...very very sorry for your loss

Annadoodle · 12-05-2005, 11:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by red98vett

Robbie...Your good friend Melissa (Annadoodle) asked me to post this for you to see...It's Sophie taken yesterday with her daugher.....

Sophie is one of Rio's puppies from her first litter. Melissa says Sophie looks very much like her mom.....

I know she wants to help cheer you up..... and this is why you and all our breeders are so important - Look at these happy faces ........

and again...very very sorry for your loss

Villette...I'm so touched you did this for me....thankyou...I know Robbie will love seeing this....hugs....

baili's mom · 12-05-2005, 11:53 AM

What a beautiful tribute to Robbie and Rio to see two such
beautiful happy faces! Melissa and Villette I know Robbie
will just love this!

YorkieRose · 12-05-2005, 12:05 PM

She had a shot, then there is nothing else you could have done. This pup was no doubt quite small or you would have felt a lump..my vet missed a tiny pup once...and the only reason it was not left inside is because Whispersmom heard a 4th heart beat with her Dopler.
AND another thing, the only reason she heard the heart beat is because she is trained to do so...I sure can't tell how many from a Dopler..

Sometimes these things happen and you will second guess yourself forever..but these things happen if you breed long enough.

ukeka · 12-05-2005, 12:11 PM

I am sorry to hear of all you have gone thru, its really a shame when something so unexpected happens, there nothing you could have done to prevent this, I know it must be hard and i wont pretend to know what your going thru , but i want to say I am sorry for your loss and best wishes for your other healthy pups ! I am glad you have gotten the strenght to share and that the one of the steps to recovery dont think that there is a time-line for greif ! you heal at your own pace... Good luck in your recovery and please dont beat yourself up , please if you ever need help let your family and friends know that you need time to heal.

Best wishes **** I am praying for you, Your family & your pups****

Mueyinter · 12-05-2005, 12:12 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how difficult things are for you right now. Please don't blame yourself. I'm sure Rio doesn't blame you. And I know she wants you to be happy so she can go play over the Rainbow bridge with her friends and wait to see you again there without worrying about her Mommy. I'm in tears just reading about this and replying to you. Please be strong. My thoughts & prayers are with you Robbie.

(((((HUGS)))))

y0rkieL0ver · 12-05-2005, 12:16 PM

robbie- all i can say is thank you for sharing this with us in this difficult time in your life. i cannot even begin to say how sorry i am that you lost your precious babygirl. while you can sit there and say you should've done this and that, you cannot dwell because what is done is done and now you have to focus on those precious little ones that are left behind. i agree with whoever it was that said you should keep one Rios puppies for yourself. it will help with the grieving, i think. god i wish i could something to make your pain go away, but i know words cannot soothe the ache in your heart<3<3 i send you hearts, kisses, hugs and prayers that you may find some happiness. please dont blame urself anymore than you already have. you have been blessed with two litters of beautiful babies, and courtney who is your saving grace. best of luck coping with this horrible loss. <3<3 much love

yorkiemom1970 · 12-05-2005, 12:19 PM

villette, you are so thoughtful and caring. thank you for posting sophie girl...i thought that i would post my bridgit, who is sophie's sister....as a tribute to rio and her beautiful children....i see her mother in her eyes every time i look at her. she has been clinging to me for days now. she knows something is wrong...here she is, my beautiful "butterfly's bridgit jones" my darling rio's daughter.

12-05-2005, 10:12 AM	#61
Marie Mom loves Gucci Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: New York City Posts: 6,427	Robbie, Im so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathies. RIP Little Rio. I know is so hard but don't blame yourself. Your other Yorkies and pups need you. We are here for you. __________________ Huggies, Gucci and Marie http://www.dogster.com/?132187 "I have been egged"

12-05-2005, 10:46 AM	#63
Prince Marley Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Freehold,NJ Posts: 84	That's so sad.... ....im so sorry! __________________ Prince Marley's Mommy http://dogster.com/?223366

12-05-2005, 10:52 AM	#64
sneri13 Luv My Spoiled Babies Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: New Jersey Posts: 3,065	My heart goes out to you. I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your babies in my prayers. __________________ Susan Mac Mellie & Manny Until we meet again at Rainbow Bridge

12-05-2005, 10:53 AM	#65
skatr45s Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Milltown, New Jersey Posts: 56	I am so very sorry. Just remember that she will always love you. And you will always be keeping her in your heart. Okay your prayers are with us. I know how hard it is too lose one of your Yorkies. I had one his name was bandit. And He died a couple of years ago. It is very easy too get attached to your Yokie. It is amazing how easy it is to fall in love with them. If you ever need someone to taslk to just call on me. I will be here. __________________ If time is an illusion is that why there are so many magical moments.

12-05-2005, 11:19 AM	#67
kindness_001 Yorkies LUV never grows old Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Owensville,In.47665 Posts: 889	Robbie, God says all things work for the good of those that love the Lord. and I do know when He shuts a door He opens a window. Watch for that window. I'm praying for you and i know He will comfort you. __________________ Megan, Killer, Cocoa Latte, and Ebony Lousie

12-05-2005, 10:40 AM	#62
YorkieRose No Longer a Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: South Florida Posts: 8,577	Don't beat yourself up about not doing any xray. Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. It is a learning experince. Always have an after whelping vet check and oxy shot. If there are any retained placenta or pups, this will greatly help Many vets are wonderful at palpiating a "left" over pup. Take her temp for are least 5 days after. Blot the discharge each AM/PM..notice any color changes and smell..infection has a distinct smell..and don't blame yourself when these things happen.

12-05-2005, 11:40 AM	#68
red98vett Yorkie Kisses are the Best! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Houston TX Posts: 33,590 Blog Entries: 1	Robbie...Your good friend Melissa (Annadoodle) asked me to post this for you to see...It's Sophie taken yesterday with her daugher..... Sophie is one of Rio's puppies from her first litter. Melissa says Sophie looks very much like her mom..... I know she wants to help cheer you up..... and this is why you and all our breeders are so important - Look at these happy faces ........ and again...very very sorry for your loss Attached Thumbnails __________________ Villette, Chanel & Cheri www.DesignsByVillette.net Custom Address Labels and Note Cards using YOUR Photos! Just Click HERE!

12-05-2005, 11:53 AM	#70
baili's mom Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Orlando,FL Posts: 147	What a beautiful tribute to Robbie and Rio to see two such beautiful happy faces! Melissa and Villette I know Robbie will just love this! __________________ Judi Baili,Blushi & Bourbi's mommy

12-05-2005, 12:05 PM	#71
YorkieRose No Longer a Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: South Florida Posts: 8,577	shot She had a shot, then there is nothing else you could have done. This pup was no doubt quite small or you would have felt a lump..my vet missed a tiny pup once...and the only reason it was not left inside is because Whispersmom heard a 4th heart beat with her Dopler. AND another thing, the only reason she heard the heart beat is because she is trained to do so...I sure can't tell how many from a Dopler.. Sometimes these things happen and you will second guess yourself forever..but these things happen if you breed long enough.

12-05-2005, 12:11 PM	#72
ukeka YT Addict Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: New Rochelle,NY Posts: 374	I am sorry to hear of all you have gone thru, its really a shame when something so unexpected happens, there nothing you could have done to prevent this, I know it must be hard and i wont pretend to know what your going thru , but i want to say I am sorry for your loss and best wishes for your other healthy pups ! I am glad you have gotten the strenght to share and that the one of the steps to recovery dont think that there is a time-line for greif ! you heal at your own pace... Good luck in your recovery and please dont beat yourself up , please if you ever need help let your family and friends know that you need time to heal. Best wishes ** I am praying for you, Your family & your pups**

12-05-2005, 12:12 PM	#73
Mueyinter Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Queens, NY Posts: 944	I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how difficult things are for you right now. Please don't blame yourself. I'm sure Rio doesn't blame you. And I know she wants you to be happy so she can go play over the Rainbow bridge with her friends and wait to see you again there without worrying about her Mommy. I'm in tears just reading about this and replying to you. Please be strong. My thoughts & prayers are with you Robbie. (((((HUGS))))) __________________ Sango , Vash http://www.dogster.com/?180653 Sango's Dogster

12-05-2005, 12:16 PM	#74
y0rkieL0ver Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Medford, Ma Posts: 865	robbie- all i can say is thank you for sharing this with us in this difficult time in your life. i cannot even begin to say how sorry i am that you lost your precious babygirl. while you can sit there and say you should've done this and that, you cannot dwell because what is done is done and now you have to focus on those precious little ones that are left behind. i agree with whoever it was that said you should keep one Rios puppies for yourself. it will help with the grieving, i think. god i wish i could something to make your pain go away, but i know words cannot soothe the ache in your heart<3<3 i send you hearts, kisses, hugs and prayers that you may find some happiness. please dont blame urself anymore than you already have. you have been blessed with two litters of beautiful babies, and courtney who is your saving grace. best of luck coping with this horrible loss. <3<3 much love __________________ To eRr is HuMan, To FoRgiVe, CaNiNe Jackie & Sirius

12-05-2005, 12:19 PM	#75
yorkiemom1970 No Longer a Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: North Carolina Posts: 1,947	villette, you are so thoughtful and caring. thank you for posting sophie girl...i thought that i would post my bridgit, who is sophie's sister....as a tribute to rio and her beautiful children....i see her mother in her eyes every time i look at her. she has been clinging to me for days now. she knows something is wrong...here she is, my beautiful "butterfly's bridgit jones" my darling rio's daughter. Attached Thumbnails