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babbsiam44 · 03-31-2011, 09:23 AM

I hope you don't leave either. I am sure the "TRAIN" response wasn't meant to be cruel, it really wasn't clear of your situation. I am so glad you have found a way to keep your little one safe and if the nurse complains then so be it. Keeping you in my prayers and may God Bless you!

concretegurl · 03-31-2011, 09:35 AM

If you took what I said as rude or cruel, I just don't know what to say to you other than sorry you feel that way.

I responded to your initial post, and went back after reading your response to me, I see now you later said you had a disabled person in your home, that was all you said about that, and that he didn't do it to you Nothing about your brother in a wheel chair. I asked specifically if you went after your dog, because I missed your second post-sometimes that happens reading through a thread, especially ones with multiple pages.

Perhaps you should better explain (or consider giving all details in the OP) so people can respond in a way that will not offend you in your future posts? It's hard to respond to a situation specifically to it's needs, when the information isn't posted specific to the situation.

Hope you stick around YT offers a lot of invaluable information...

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Originally Posted by Yorkiemamma78

He doesn't run out on me. Just when my brother who's in a wheel chair opens the door. My brother CAN"T RUN OUT. He's also metally disabled so I can't TRAIN MY PERSON. How cruel. I posted on here for help. I have fixed my issue. I am so heartbroken at the rude responses I have received when reaching out for help. My baby is very safe now. I can see how badly people can treat you when you are needing help. I am going to deactivate my account. I never thought I would have to do that. I have always enjoyed helpful advice from this forum and the kindness. There is always a way to help people without being rude. My brother was sent to live with me for a brief period. He was nearly killed in a car accident that left him paralyzed and brain damaged. I'm thankful he's alive. He doesn't realize what he's doing. Brady would never run out on me. If he did of course I would be out the door to rescue him in a flash. He wouldn't make it off the porch. I don't want an accident happening to Brady as well. I fixed the foor issue with a gate and My brother's nurse will just have to deal with it. I don't care if she complains. If it doesn't hurt my brother then she can work around it. I have never punished Brady. I wouldn't even know how. He's too precious. I thought maybe I was supposed to say a certain phrase ot something. wow. I am so upset. But thank you to all the people that took the time to respond in a nice way. It means a lot to me when someone takes time out of their day to be helpful to a stranger for the sake of their beloved Yorkie.

LoALAnna · 03-31-2011, 10:50 AM

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Originally Posted by ladyjane

I have a foster named Rookie. I will never forget the reason he was surrendered to YHR. He had a fractured leg for six months because his owners could not afford the vetting.

So..he lived in pain for all that time.
The reason it was fractured?? Because he kept getting out and running down the street and the owner told me that one day "the inevitable happened". Made me want to scream, but I took him and left without a word. It was only "inevitable" because she CHOSE to be irresponsible. HE did not make the choice.

Ladyjane, I'm so glad that you're giving that baby some much needed love and medical attention! I also noticed that his name is Rookie. There is a yorkie on YouTube named Rookie and was wondering if he could be the same dog. It is just not that common a name is why I asked.

ladyjane · 03-31-2011, 10:55 AM

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Originally Posted by LoALAnna

Ladyjane, I'm so glad that you're giving that baby some much needed love and medical attention! I also noticed that his name is Rookie. There is a yorkie on YouTube named Rookie and was wondering if he could be the same dog. It is just not that common a name is why I asked.

No, he is not on You Tube. He is on the YHR website.

camile · 03-31-2011, 10:55 AM

Yorkiemomma78 I had no intention of being cruel. If you look at my posts you will see that I never say anything insulting. My "train" remark wasn't meant to hurt for crying outloud. In fact that is why I put it in parentheses to indicate jest. I know how dificult it is to get ppl to get into a habit of doing things. You never said what the disability was and since the door was the issue I thought it must mean a wheelchair or someone going out very slowly and simply meant if you could get the person to call to you your dog could be prevented from running out. I never considered a mentally challenged person would be leaving on his own and you never mentioned a nurse. I apologize for hurting your feelings it certainly was not my intention but I do feel since so much more information was pertinent, you should have posted it.

jmdt · 03-31-2011, 11:54 AM

If someone can't figure out that they need to put a gate up to protect their baby from running out, then there is a serious issue. She also said that he was gone for over an hour

I'm sorry I just don't get it. As for the person in the wheelchair.. it is of course not his fault that the baby gets out. It is his caregivers fault. She should do something with the dog before she opens the door. It is just common sense... hello???

MI Yorkielover · 03-31-2011, 12:10 PM

I guess she was more upset than anyone knew. I see she's been banned. Too bad but I think she was overly sensitive to the responses. I saw no signs of crulty, only concern over her situation.

camile · 03-31-2011, 12:29 PM

WOW! I really am sorry, I feel partly responsible but I never said anything to be cruel. I tried to explain why and how I meant what I said and I apologized as soon as I saw what her response was, not sure what else I could have done.

ladyjane · 03-31-2011, 12:44 PM

No one was mean to her. She waited until everyone posted and then went on about her brother in a wheelchair is if people knew that and were making fun. No one is a mind reader...and besides, does that make it ok for a pup to keep getting out? No....just fix the problem. sheesh

She has to be banned for a reason. Unless they just clicked the wrong thing when she asked to be removed?

03-31-2011, 10:55 AM	#35
camile Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: New Albany, Indiana Posts: 457	Yorkiemomma78 I had no intention of being cruel. If you look at my posts you will see that I never say anything insulting. My "train" remark wasn't meant to hurt for crying outloud. In fact that is why I put it in parentheses to indicate jest. I know how dificult it is to get ppl to get into a habit of doing things. You never said what the disability was and since the door was the issue I thought it must mean a wheelchair or someone going out very slowly and simply meant if you could get the person to call to you your dog could be prevented from running out. I never considered a mentally challenged person would be leaving on his own and you never mentioned a nurse. I apologize for hurting your feelings it certainly was not my intention but I do feel since so much more information was pertinent, you should have posted it. __________________ My Sweet Baby Girls Chloe Primrose Pink ** Willow Patchouli Blu Miss Abigail

03-31-2011, 11:54 AM	#36
jmdt YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Long Island, NY USA Posts: 3,498	If someone can't figure out that they need to put a gate up to protect their baby from running out, then there is a serious issue. She also said that he was gone for over an hour I'm sorry I just don't get it. As for the person in the wheelchair.. it is of course not his fault that the baby gets out. It is his caregivers fault. She should do something with the dog before she opens the door. It is just common sense... hello??? __________________ Coco, Pebbles, Trixie, and Wally LOVE MY BABIES!!

03-31-2011, 12:10 PM	#37
MI Yorkielover Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Michigan USA Posts: 3,317	I guess she was more upset than anyone knew. I see she's been banned. Too bad but I think she was overly sensitive to the responses. I saw no signs of crulty, only concern over her situation. __________________ Jackie Loves Sophie R.I.P ."Baby"* our little girl 1993-2009*

03-31-2011, 12:29 PM	#38
camile Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: New Albany, Indiana Posts: 457	WOW! I really am sorry, I feel partly responsible but I never said anything to be cruel. I tried to explain why and how I meant what I said and I apologized as soon as I saw what her response was, not sure what else I could have done. __________________ My Sweet Baby Girls Chloe Primrose Pink ** Willow Patchouli Blu Miss Abigail

03-31-2011, 12:44 PM	#39
ladyjane Resident Yorkie Nut Donating YT 20K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Texas Posts: 27,490	No one was mean to her. She waited until everyone posted and then went on about her brother in a wheelchair is if people knew that and were making fun. No one is a mind reader...and besides, does that make it ok for a pup to keep getting out? No....just fix the problem. sheesh She has to be banned for a reason. Unless they just clicked the wrong thing when she asked to be removed? __________________ CLOUD NINE BEDS--YORKIE HAVEN RESCUE MY ETSY SHOP

03-31-2011, 09:23 AM	#31
babbsiam44 YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Virginia Posts: 1,132	I hope you don't leave either. I am sure the "TRAIN" response wasn't meant to be cruel, it really wasn't clear of your situation. I am so glad you have found a way to keep your little one safe and if the nurse complains then so be it. Keeping you in my prayers and may God Bless you!